>> >>>Subject: Fw: The Most Important Part of Ur Body 

>> >>>Date: Tue, 20 Feb 2001 20:57:37 +0800

>> >>> >> >>> >> >>> >> >>> >> >>>The Most Important Body Part

 >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>My mother used to ask me what is the most important 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>part of the body and through the years I would take a 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>guess at what I thought was the correct answer. When I 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>was younger I thought sound was very important to us

 >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>humans so I said my ears mommy. She said "No, many 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>will ask you again soon." 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>Several years passed before she asked me again. Since 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>my last attempt I contemplated a correct answer. So I 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>told! her "Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>so it must be our eyes." She looked at me and told me 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>that I was learning fast but the answer is not correct 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>because there are many people who are blind. 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>Stumped again I continued my quest for knowledge and 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>over the years she asked me a couple more times and 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>always the same answer "No. But you are getting 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>smarter every year my young child." 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>Then last year my Grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>Everybody was crying. Even my father cried! . I remember 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>that especially because it is only the second time I

 >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>to say our final good-bye to Grandpa. She asked me "Do 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>you know the most important body part yet my son?" And >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>I was shocked she asked me this now. I always thought 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>this was a game between her and me. She saw the 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>confusion on my face and told me "This question is 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>important. It shows that you have really lived in your 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>life. For every body part you gave me in the past I 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>! ;have told you that it was wrong and given you an 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>example why. But today is the day you need to learn 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>this important lesson." 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>She looked down at me like only a mother can. I saw 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>her eyes well up with tears. She said, "Son the most

 >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>important body part is your shoulder." 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>Was it because it held up my head? She replied, "No,

 >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>because it can hold the head of a friend or loved one

 >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry

 >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>on sometime in life my son. I only hope that you have 

>> >>> > ! >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>enough love and friends that you will always have a 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>shoulder to cry on when you need it." 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>Then and there I knew the most important body part was >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>not selfish, it was sympathetic to the pain of OTHERS. 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>You are a friend and whenever you want you can cry on 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>my shoulder!!! 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>People will forget what you said. 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>People will forget what you did, but

> >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>People will never forget how you made them feel. 

>> >>> > >> >> >>> > >> >> >>> > >>

 

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