Pink Peace Lady is a ranger from Venus. Her mission is to paint this world with pink peace to create love, and to make everyone love and care each other. She aims to get rid of selfishness and many conflicts in the world. Pink Peace Lady normally disguises as a tourist who travels around the world to give love for people. She can stop every kind of conflict by giving people her magic strawberry ice-cream. During her traveling, she tries to give people the awareness of sharing which is basically a factor to create love in our world.

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 Chiang Mai Festivals!

 

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            Think of the festivals in Chiang Mai, I’m sure that Songkran Festival and Loy Krathong Festival are the two famous festivals that everyone think of first. Especially, the celebrations of these two festivals in Chiang Mai have become more and more famous each year. So, I can’t stand talking about them, and also would like to invite the tourists to enjoy Songkran Festival and Loy Krathong festival in Chiang Mai.

            For Songkran Festival (13-15 April), the people like to celebrate this festival at the moat which is a popular place and a center of tourists and especially it is a symbolic place of this festival because if we think of Songkarn Festival in Chiang Mai, we will think of the image of people enjoying water throwing at the moat, it’s a wet one! I like to get wet with my friends here too! And also you can enjoy this festival with many traditional events include merit-making at the temples, cultural shows, dancing shows, parade and a beauty contest (เทพีสงกรานต์) which can attract a lot of people. Besides, there is also one significant event which is a sacred event and very famous in Chiang Mai that is the procession of highly revered Phra Phuttha Sihing Buddha image through the streets of Chiang Mai for people to sprinkle water that is a form of worship of Lanna people.

            Another famous festival is Loy Krathong Festival which held on the full moon night of November. I think this festival is also said to be the most charming of all in Thailand. Especially in Chiang Mai, you will enjoy a procession of floats with beautiful maidens sitting on goes through the city to the bank of the Mae Ping River where hundreds of people assembling to float their “krathong”, banana-leaf containers, which they decorated with flowers and candles onto the river to worship the Goddess of Water “ Phra Mae Kongkha (พระแม่คงคา) ”. Moreover, you can enjoy launching Lanna-Style hot-air lanterns (โคม) which Lanna people believe that it is a way to get rid of the local troubles (but my friends and I like to launch many lanterns to make a fun!).

            Besides, you can enjoy spending time with many other festivals in Chiang Mai such as Flower festival , Bo Sang Umbrella Festival and Chiang Mai Art & Culture festival etc.

            Welcome to Chiang Mai jao!!! 


 Being Minority

 

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            We stood in front the class. Our classmates were laughing at us but our role play was not supposed to be funny. Now Alooh was refusing to speak but I knew the show must go on. I stared at him and tried to signal to him to keep going. Finally, with his strange accent, he said his lines. Somehow we got through the role play but our place as outsiders in the class was clear.

            I am not a minority but Alooh is. He rarely has friends. Many students stay away from him when they knew that he is from a hill tribe. “Speaking Thai with H’mong accent, they don’t admire me”, Alooh said. He was not accepted. As in this English class, because of different background from the other students, Alooh and I were considered as minority. The other students are all English major but we are not. They judged us as less fluent in English. They didn’t want to work with us. They often laughed at us when we presented in class. We were nervous and unhappy to study in this class. I got a sense of unacceptability in society. I began to understand how Alooh feels with being minority and what he had to face with discrimination everyday.

            There is the discrimination in society where many people from different backgrounds live together. Additionally, the distinction or the differentiation results in unfair treatment of people that are considered as minority and are separated from the others in society. Moreover, some minority groups who are low-educated or come from non-developed environment are also looked down on. In the Thai social system, the hill tribe people are always considered as non-educated or non-civilized people. So this is another reason that Alooh was not accepted in this class.

            However, Alooh still shows who he is despite discrimination. He is brave to break barriers by taking chances to connect with others. To overcome the discrimination in this class, Alooh and I built friendships with the others. We started to talk more with them. When we had to work with other students in class, we paid our full attention to prove our abilities. In particularly, we got good points in each test, so they gradually accepted us and talked more with us.

            Ultimately, we opened our minds to understand and have more interaction with each other. We studied, had fun and enjoyed each other in class. Alooh and I did not face the discrimination and especially our feeling as minority in this class was over. We become more accepted. Although it is difficult to get rid of the discrimination, our case is an example for people to overcome the inequality in society. 


 Should young people choose living together before marriage?

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            He pushed strongly her body through the door of their room, pressed her body down on the floor and slapped her face with his big hands many times. She screamed and tried to fight him back while many people in this apartment and I were looking at them. A couple of student in uniform still continued their quarrel without ashamedness, he scolded her and she also haggle him non stop. And three minutes later, they stood quietly and stared their face each other. They cried. A young man embraced his girlfriend to walk back in their room among stunning people there.

            Many times, I heard a fighting sound next to my room and saw my friends, a couple of student who lived together in my apartment, had a quarrel in the night. This couple of lover was studying in the fourth year in the same faculty with me at my university. Despite their student status, they decided to cohabit to test the sincerity and durability of their love before marriage, that was a reason they gave me when I asked why they chose to live together. Also, they told me if they could get along well living in the same apartment, they would be able to get along with each other after marriage. However, I thought that cohabitation was unsuitable doing for the young people who had a duty for studying. It was not good image to behave like this in the teenage.

            Living together before marriage is more and more common in the society nowadays. This looks like the fashion of the new generations who have love in studying age. Not only the couple of my friends that cohabit in the same apartment, but many couples of student also share room to live together. It is the test, they feel, of the compatibility factor. They believe that it is the sense of being bound that will helps love to become stabilized. For my friends who are cohabiters believe that it is a way to spend less time in discovering each other for personal behavior and that trying out the relationship will improve love to have a better and stronger marriage later. However, I think that most of them look only on the deep feeling for holding a couple life but they forget to think whether cohabitation is suitable for their student status or whether it is a moral way in the real life.

            For me, living together before marriage is not good preparation for marriage. The couples who chose moving in before making a marriage commitment had significantly lower marital satisfaction than those who did not. Also, I feel that living together is an artificial situation that usually collapses when one partner walks out. Besides, in Thai society, most people did not accept currently this cohabitation because it still conflicts seriously with the old Thai tradition. Therefore, I think this fashion should be unacceptable. Especially in the case of the couples who have children, nobody wants the rise of abortion which is a crime and the stress on social structures.

            In conclusion, I think that the young people who choose living together before marriage are people who have not learned to practice delayed gratification. In fact, they just want the benefits of a solid relationship before investing the time and effort to build a solid relationship. Moreover, having sex too soon and moving in without commitment are the behaviors of immature. Therefore, if we continue to hold this fashion, not only it destroys our beautiful tradition but also it provides the wicked social value for the next generations.

 




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