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[00:00]  It don't matter anyhow... 
[00:03] Ally:
[00:03]  However much I know otherwise
[00:06]  part of me has always felt
[00:06]  that life has no real meaning
[00:09]  until you get to share it
[00:09]  with somebody.
[00:11]  Maybe that's
[00:12]  what I'm afraid of:
[00:13]  my life suddenly taking
[00:14]  on meaning
[00:16]  or suddenly becoming void
[00:16]  of it.
[00:20] Ally?
[00:25] Hi.
[00:27] What are you doing?
[00:28] Just daydreaming...
[00:30] picturing my life with Brian.
[00:33] It looked really exciting.
[00:36] We're not supposed
[00:36] to chase excitement, Elaine.
[00:39] The goal is contentment.
[00:40] Oh, yeah. I forgot about that.
[00:43] Ally, it's not like me to ever
[00:43] give you advice...
[00:46] Which works out well, doesn't it
[00:47] because it's not like me
[00:48] to ever ask you for it.
[00:49] Here's the thing: there's very,
[00:50] very few decent guys out there.
[00:53] And in this day of sexually
[00:54] transmitted diseases
[00:56] the odds of landing one
[00:57] become even tougher.
[01:00] I don't follow.
[01:02] They're all wearing condoms.
[01:03] It's harder to trap them
[01:04] by getting pregnant.
[01:11] Thank you, Elaine.
[01:13] I don't know how
[01:14] I would ever navigate my life
[01:15] without you.
[01:22] At first it seemed perfect...
[01:24] not perfect.
[01:27] I guess
[01:27] the physical part
[01:28] of our relationship
[01:29] was never good.
[01:29] We didn't even make love
[01:30] on our wedding night.
[01:32] Uh... did you ever make love?
[01:35] Oh, sure
[01:36] but it was extremely infrequent.
[01:38] He said
[01:38] he just didn't have
[01:40] much of a libido.
[01:41] And you just accepted that?
[01:42] Yes. The rest
[01:43] of our relationship was great.
[01:47] We could laugh
[01:47] and talk all night.
[01:50] We had the
[01:50] same interests.
[01:51] We were perfect companions,
[01:52] and I guess I convinced myself
[01:55] that that's what marriage
[01:56] is most about--
[01:59] companionship.
[01:59] But at some point,
[02:00] things changed.
[02:02] In June, I was going
[02:03] to a health spa in Vermont
[02:06] for the weekend
[02:06] with some girlfriends.
[02:09] There was a mechanical problem.
[02:11] The plane couldn't take off.
[02:12] It ended up being canceled,
[02:13] and I drove home.
[02:16]  I came into the house,
[02:17]  and I called out to Wayne.
[02:20]  There was no response.
[02:22]  I heard laughter from the back.
[02:25]  I went out.
[02:26]  They were in the pool
[02:29] with their clothes on.
[02:31] Who?
[02:32] Wayne and her.
[02:35] ( swooshing )
[02:41] They were in the pool?
[02:43] Kissing, and she had
[02:43] this T-shirt on
[02:46]  and he had these scissors,
[02:47]  and he was cutting
[02:49]  the T-shirt off of her.
[02:50]  They were both laughing,
[02:51]  having a grand time
[02:52]  until they saw me
[02:53]  looking at them.
[02:54] Well, what happened then?
[02:56] I found out the truth:
[02:58] that he had been sleeping
[02:58] with this woman
[03:01] for more than two years;
[03:02] that he had planned
[03:03] to make her his wife
[03:04] after he got out
[03:05] of his bad marriage;
[03:07] that his libido
[03:07] was healthy after all;
[03:09] that he had just been
[03:11] putting in time with me
[03:12] to qualify
[03:12] for a big divorce settlement;
[03:14] that I was an idiot.
[03:15] And that's why you're here.
[03:17] You're trying to annul
[03:17] the marriage.
[03:19] I'm here,
[03:19] asking the court
[03:20] to recognize the truth--
[03:21] that there was no marriage.
[03:23] There was a union
[03:23] under extremely false pretense.
[03:26] There was a fraud
[03:28] but there was certainly
[03:30] no marriage.
[03:32] How long does it take you
[03:32] to decide?
[03:33] Either you want
[03:34] to move in or not.
[03:35] Well, it...
[03:36] Is this just a case
[03:37] of cold feet?
[03:38] When two people
[03:39] move in together
[03:40] it's a step towards marriage.
[03:41] It's a very big deal.
[03:42] I didn't say it wasn't.
[03:43] If your tone
[03:43] is dismissive, then...
[03:44] Tone is something you use
[03:45] to discern meaning
[03:46] when the words
[03:47] are not expressed.
[03:48] Mine are.
[03:49] It's you who's being ambiguous.
[03:53] Sit.
[03:58] ( Ally sighs )
[04:00] I think that everything
[04:00] about us is great.
[04:03] I really do.
[04:05] We laugh...
[04:05] Ally...
[04:06] ...but what I find
[04:06] to be a little lacking...
[04:12] ...and it may not be
[04:12] a big deal at all...
[04:14] But big enough
[04:15] to give pause
[04:16] to us not living together?
[04:17] Um... what leaves
[04:18] a little to be desired
[04:22] between you and me
[04:24] is the, um...
[04:26] sushi...
[04:27] Sushi?
[04:30] Maybe I ate some...
[04:31] Ally...
[04:31] Sex!
[04:36] The sex isn't that...
[04:39] good.
[04:43] Did you hear me?
[04:46] You're not satisfied sexually?
[04:48] Well, no, I'm-I'm-I'm satisfied.
[04:51] I am so...
[04:51] it's-it's okay...
[04:53] Ally, may I
[04:53] ask, are you...
[04:55] are you capable
[04:55] of-of having good sex?
[04:58] What is that supposed to mean?
[05:01] I mean, is-is it me, or...
[05:01] is it you?
[05:06] It's us, Brian.
[05:08] It's a rhythm thing.
[05:10] It's a compatibility thing.
[05:11] It's a... it's a heat... thing.
[05:13] We-we don't seem to generate
[05:14] a lot of heat.
[05:18] So you're
[05:18] indicting
[05:19] the relationship because of sex.
[05:22] I never said that.
[05:23] Well, you said you and Wayne
[05:24] were perfect companions
[05:26] best friends
[05:27] but if there's
[05:27] no sex...
[05:28] I didn't say there was...
[05:30] Let me finish my question.
[05:31] You're not asking.
[05:32] You're making
[05:32] a statement
[05:33] and I'm disagreeing.
[05:34] Your Honor?
[05:35] ( whistling )
[05:40] ( whistling )
[05:49] Ms. Ringer, Wayne wasn't
[05:49] involved with this woman
[05:53] at the time you two married,
[05:54] was he?
[05:55] Not to my knowledge
[05:56] which could hardly
[05:57] be considered exhaustive.
[05:59] He met her two years
[05:59] into the marriage.
[06:01] So I'm told.
[06:02] We have a marriage,
[06:03] another woman
[06:04] and the marriage
[06:04] breaks up.
[06:05] Gee, I wonder if this is
[06:05] the first time that happened.
[06:08] Objection!
[06:09] Raditz:
[06:09] According to you
[06:10] the companionship
[06:10] was great
[06:11] up until the day
[06:11] you left him.
[06:12] I think the word you used
[06:13] was "perfect."
[06:15] Because I was in the dark.
[06:16] You got what you wanted.
[06:17] I wasn't getting
[06:18] physical affection.
[06:20] You didn't need it.
[06:20] That was your
[06:21] testimony.
[06:22] I needed honesty.
[06:23] And he wasn't honest.
[06:24] No, he wasn't.
[06:25] And that's why
[06:25] we're here today.
[06:25] Yes, it is.
[06:27] So, when spouses aren't honest
[06:27] with each other
[06:29] that should be grounds
[06:29] for annulment?
[06:31] That's your position?
[06:40] You okay?
[06:42] Yeah.
[06:43] Maureen, it's litigation.
[06:45] It's adversarial by design.
[06:48] I know.
[06:49] ( bell dings )
[06:53] Here you go.
[06:54] John...
[06:56] Uh, nothing.
[06:59] No, tell me.
[07:01] Well, growing up,
[07:01] I never had a boyfriend.
[07:06] How could
[07:06] I think he...
[07:07] a good-looking man...?
[07:09] Maureen...
[07:10] Am I deluding
[07:10] myself
[07:11] to think that anyone
[07:11] would be attracted to me?
[07:14] Of course not.
[07:15] Excuse me a second.
[07:19] What a beast.
[07:20] How's the trial going?
[07:22] Ow! What was that for?
[07:24] Richard, I need
[07:24] a big favor.
[07:26] Anything. Just say it,
[07:26] as long as it isn't money.
[07:28] Maureen-- she doesn't
[07:29] feel any man
[07:30] could be sexually
[07:30] attracted to her.
[07:32] Well, gee...
[07:33] So I know it's
[07:33] asking a lot
[07:34] but could you feign
[07:34] being drawn to her,
[07:35] just a little
[07:37] just enough to bolster
[07:37] some confidence?
[07:39] Well, y-you want me to...
[07:40] w-with her?
[07:41] Oh, John, she looks
[07:41] like a hamster.
[07:43] I'd sooner pop a chubby
[07:43] for a tree frog.
[07:45] I don't ask for
[07:46] much, damn it.
[07:48] Tree frog!
[07:48] ( both scream )
[07:50] I-I have one.
[07:51] John and I used
[07:51] to collect them.
[07:53] Remember, John?
[07:54] Yeah, I sure do. Yeah.
[08:00] ( chuckles )
[08:01] What are you doing?
[08:03] Oh, uh...
[08:05] I-I may be out of...
[08:06] out of line
[08:06] here, but...
[08:07] has anyone ever told you
[08:08] how beautiful you are?
[08:11] No.
[08:13] Hm, shocker.
[08:15] Well...
[08:16] uh... yeah...
[08:19] oh, yeah.
[08:21] Got to go.
[08:26] Was he making fun of me?
[08:27] No! I think
[08:28] he was flirting.
[08:31] Right.
[08:32] Maureen...
[08:34] Do you see that woman
[08:36] over there?
[08:37] Yeah.
[08:38] Yeah,
[08:38] I dated her.
[08:40] You did?
[08:41] Mm-hmm.
[08:42] She's beautiful.
[08:43] Well, she found me
[08:44] beautiful and sexy.
[08:47] You know why?
[08:48] I can't even bluff.
[08:51] Sexiness is mental.
[08:54] I would become Barry White
[08:57] when I went to her.
[08:58] In my head, I believed
[08:59] I had sex appeal
[09:01] and therefore I did.
[09:03] Now, whatever happens
[09:04] in this case, Maureen
[09:05] you have got to believe
[09:05] in yourself
[09:07] because if you don't,
[09:07] nobody else will.
[09:17] He raised
[09:17] an excellent point.
[09:18] Why indict the whole thing
[09:18] because of sex?
[09:20] I mean, doesn't it
[09:20] seem ridiculous
[09:22] to measure a relationship
[09:23] at the last five
[09:23] minutes of the day
[09:24] before you fall asleep?
[09:25] The reason men go
[09:26] into relationships is for sex.
[09:29] They get married
[09:30] so they get to keep having it
[09:30] over and over again
[09:33] without wasting time
[09:33] on the dinner
[09:34] and flowers,
[09:35] and if it only lasts
[09:36] five minutes, why are you
[09:36] falling asleep at all?
[09:39] You should be lying awake
[09:40] wondering what the hell
[09:40] is wrong.
[09:42] You are such a man
[09:43] and you typify everything
[09:44] that is twisted
[09:46] about this society.
[09:47] Gee, it's like we're married.
[09:48] You're blaming
[09:48] all of society on me.
[09:50] No wonder you want a husband.
[09:51] You're already a wife!
[09:52] You're not clever,
[09:53] and you're not funny.
[09:55] This society,
[09:56] I'll have you know
[09:57] over-prioritizes sex.
[09:58] It's in the movies,
[09:59] it's in the magazines
[10:01] it's on TV
[10:02] and it has people
[10:02] locating their
[10:02] self-worth
[10:04] in their
[10:04] physical appearance.
[10:05] We have a case in
[10:06] our office right now
[10:07] where this woman
[10:07] wants to get her
[10:08] marriage annulled
[10:10] due to lack of passion.
[10:12] Annulled--
[10:13] meaning it
[10:13] doesn't exist
[10:13] all because of a
[10:14] little void in sex.
[10:15] And when people in your
[10:15] position perpetuate it
[10:18] it's neither amusing
[10:18] or responsible
[10:20] and I didn't blame
[10:20] you for society.
[10:22] I just cited you as
[10:22] a sad example of it.
[10:31] Well...
[10:33] that was a lot.
[10:35] It was not my intent
[10:36] to be clever.
[10:37] I have a slight problem
[10:37] with your lament
[10:39] on prioritizing sex
[10:40] as you come in here,
[10:40] wafting of vanilla
[10:42] wearing a $2,000 outfit
[10:43] designed to punctuate
[10:43] every contour of your body
[10:45] looking very much like the women
[10:45] in the magazines
[10:47] except I don't have the luxury
[10:48] of turning the page.
[10:49] As for locating self-worth
[10:50] in physical appearance
[10:51] I'm sure there's a mirror
[10:52] in your purse.
[10:53] And as much as you might
[10:53] hate the idea
[10:54] of being the object
[10:55] of a man's desire
[10:56] what you truly loathe
[10:57] is the idea that one day
[10:58] you might not be.
[11:00] And the question burning
[11:01] deep, deep, deep down
[11:02] under the lip gloss is...
[11:05] "Has that day already arrived?"
[11:11] You are the biggest ass
[11:12] I have ever met.
[11:15] Perhaps this is where you...
[11:16] kiss it good-bye.
[11:19] Mm...
[11:24] ( door slams )
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