"HOW TO KNOW WHEN YOUR SPOUCES IS UNFAITHFUL"
Bearer's of the mind sword.
Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean.
Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
M ost people especially people with religious background, do not want to divorce, they want to stay married the longer the better because it looks good in their church communities. However, they might not be happy and even hate the person that thy married to. These will have affairs, sometime even with the pastor of the church. These people are not easily caught. They way you are being treated will ever be the only indication you will get.
A certain man wife was not available to him for sexual intercourse, as he communicates to his friends, one of his coworker told him not to worry. He know where there is a woman selling vagina, she rented an office and posing as a bookkeeper. So the next pay day they both went. On their arrival there was two men in waiting, finally it was his turn to go in, when he went in to see the woman it was his wife. The husband say, this is the reason why you are so weary each night when you came home, and always not in the mood.
Some people are so smart that it will take years to catch them, and if you made it look like you are trying to catch them it will even made it much harder. You have to look for the signs, because there are many signs along the way to indicate to you what is happening.
(1) A DON’T CARE ATTITUDE.
If a person live with you for a while and do not know how you will react under a given situation. Either the person is fools are they just do not care about your feelings. If they do not care about your feelings and needs that is a sign that he she has an alternative. Alternative means that they had somebody on the side.
EXTREMLY COCKY
(2) When the person is extremely cocky, they have more than they can handle and do not care a dam what you do are say.
(3) MADE NO TIME FOR YOU.
If the person has their work schedule set up in away that thee night when you are at home is the night when they are at work. Try set your schedule to match theirs and watch them move again. If they move it again, this is an indication.
A couple must made time for each other. Time that each person can look foreword to, and prepare for. Even if they both worked two jobs each, they must set aside time for getting together and love making. If and is available and the other is hiding, something is wrong.
(4) IF YOUR SPOUCE IS A FRIEND OF ALL THOSE WHO DISRESPECT YOU.
Bird of one feather flocked together, he she is being bought out, and is only in your life as a spy, and are there to help keep you down. May be he she even got insurance on your life and is there slow poisoning you.
If the pastor of the church like and invite the wife but shun the husband, they two are into something. If you are a member of the church and the pastor is having secret meeting with the wife, they are going together. Good pastor deal with a man and his wife as one, and will never talk business with one alone.
(5) CONSTANT INFECTIONS.
A sore vagina and constant infections is another indications. Certain comments, like you being call by other people name while making love. Or having something blame on you that you knows nothing about. The lady friends keep telling you things, especially more than one friend. It could be lie, but it could be also truth. Eat out with coworkers, and cannot come home at certain time. “Nurse party “ Or coworkers party where spouses are not invited. Good people do not go to any party or eat out where their spouse cannot come.
(6) EVERY TWO WEEKS THE RELATIONSHIP GOES DOWN.
This is another indications. One lady told me that, when she did something at the market where she sell, and arrival home she first start to quarrel about something and spoiled the mode for the night. She keep him at bay by faking to be angry, then bring him in when she wanted, by starting to act nice.
(7) CALL THE SPOUCE ON THE JOB.
One lady in Connecticut calls her husband in New York at school to ask him where did he put the soap!! If he can come out of class to pick up the phone, then he is nowhere near by to see that another man is at home.
(8) WHEN MOTHER AND DAUGHTER BAND TOGETHER.
When mother and daughter band together, none can correct the other, they both have secrets for each other. Sometime children caught their parents in stuff and use it to keep the parents under controls.
FIFTY PERCENTS OF THE CHRISTIANS WHOS LIFE MESS UP EACH YEARS DO SO BECAUSE OF BAD MARRIAGE.
Before you get married you must know your calling. Know what God call you to do. Know what office he calls you to occupy, because you will have to choose a mate accordingly to your office. If you are called to the five fold ministries you cannot marry to anybody outside of this ministry, the marriage will never work. A Christians can be unequally yoke with another Christians. If you has the apostleship calling and the gift of helps calling. A mate who does not have those gifts will never understand your motive.
THE FIVE FOLD MINISTRY.
1 Cor. 12:28 (KJV) And God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily prophets, thirdly teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, governments, diversities of tongues. Amos 3:3 (KJV) Can two walk together, except they be agreed? 2 Cor. 6:14 (KJV) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
WAIT UNTIL YOU REACH THE PLACE IN GOD WHERE YOU CAN HEAR FROM THE HOLY SPIRIT.
Most of the things that bring Christians down could have been avoided, if there was a way that the Christians could be told are saw the thing coming before it happen. Well there is such a way. “Learning how the Holy Spirit communicate to his people”
John 16:13 (KJV) Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.
Every bad thing that happen to me today has it roots in disobedient to the spirit command some thirty years ago. Every good things that happen to me today, happen because I obeyed the Holy Spirit command some thirty years ago. This is called” Walking in the spirit” Or Living in the spirit. All the problems that I had today happen because I disobeyed the Holy Spirit command back then. The fruits of that disobedient just coming in today.
SOMETIME ONLY CHRIST JESUS CAN HELP US:
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:
How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:
Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:
Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:
Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)
BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:
Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:
Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.
FIRST HUMBLING YOU:
Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.
1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:
1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.
FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:
When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.
WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:
Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.
Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.
Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.
GET A GOOD BIBLE, AND FIND A GOOD CHURCH:
One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.
Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:
Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:
1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)
2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)
3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)
4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)
5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)
6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)
7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)
By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.
Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.
Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.
YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:
Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.
According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.
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