"DOES HUSBANDS KNOWS WHEN THEY
HAD UNFAITHFUL MATE"
“The train is about to leave”
Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean.
Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
A man and his best friend were having lunch, accompany by his wife and his son. The eight years old son shouted out. “I know who I resemble; I resemble my daddy’s best friend, look! We had the same red hair” Every body around the table suddenly saw what the child was saying. His biological father is really his father best friend. For century women been impregnated by their husbands best friends. However, since the DNA test comes on the seen. Many a married women find themselves in hot water. Men not getting married again without having blood test and they are not taking a child again until they first do a DNA test to confirm the woman’s claim.
Yes! Husband knows but sometime they cannot do any thing about it. Some of them fall back into denials. For example, if the man has more than one child with the woman, the child support and wage garnishment will kill him, so it better he stayed and rides it out until the child reach certain age. By them, the woman gets pregnant again, which nailed him down even more. Sometime the man is waiting for green card. Sometime the husband is waiting for her to come down with some great sickness, like one pastor’s wife I saw in the hospital. She gets the disease but the husband is ok. Since she is prostituting herself and he found out, he keep quit about it and keep her as his own private prostitute until he can replace her. When sickness of such kind moves her out, he does not need to pay alimony. Sometime the husband is waiting to know whom the man is to have him kill. So being tight lips about it, is a smart decision. Talking to the woman about it is not going to make her change. It will only make her smarter.
Every trick that a woman has, husband know it. Married women who are having affair always end up getting hurt, by lovers. One woman specializes in dealing with old men. She told my uncle in laws that an old man surprise her and mash her up real bad. One woman told me she had to go to the hospital when it was over.
When broken heart does come about?
Before we go on, I like readers to know how I assemble my information. I was doing an article. Every man I came across I questioned them. I ask “The last time you get in a fight, did that person bother you again”? They all say “no” “We became friends after that fight” Therefore, I arrive at the conclusion that aggression seem to pay off. One boy harassed me for six months none stop finally the it end in a bloody fight, he was disembowels in the process and the aggression stops. If I did take him down the first day I would not need to suffer for six months.
I was doing a book titled “How to know when your mate is having an affair” I rode the busses and trains. Every person I sit beside I asked them their input.
HOW WOMEN SAY THEY FOUND OUT.
One lady told me that what tip her of that her husband was having an affair, is that, he came home with his under wear turn back way and that was no how he left home. She begins to pay attention to his under wear when he came home. The other time he came home with his under wear bloody. Finally, she steps up her watching and caught him.
HOW MEN SAY THEY KNOW SOMETHING WAS WRONG.
The first things that give the man the indication are the woman constant refusal to have sex. The second things that give the man the indication is the medication that she is taking. The third thing is the woman friends told on her. The forth things is a sore vagina, and constant infections.
Women are more easily caught than men are. Since women are over confidence, they leave a trail of evidence a mile long. One lady told me that when she ready to do her thing she call her husband on his job phone, if he is at work then he cannot be any where near the home. Therefore, the lesson here is, if the man’s cell is working yet he receives a call from his wife on his job phone he knows something is going down. Other thing men say. A week or two before the woman leave on her vacation she stop having sex. On her return, the vaginal orifice is redder than normal. The Labia minora is battered this is another sure sign.
Another sign is that the woman worried about being watched. If you are living right, you have no need to be worried about who is watching. When the husband is having a strong doubt, which he just cannot shake off even though he tries. Sometime his doubts are correct. When the female is living above her means and above her husband means. Where is the money coming from? When the female is running two or three hands of partners (Pools) at one time, where is the money coming from.
CONTINUALLY PICKING A FIGHT AS SOON AS SHE CAME HOME.
I heard one woman telling her friend how to kill the mood when she wants to refuse sexual intercourse with her husband. (As, soon as she step in the house. She first started an argument.) “Why the house so hot?” “You are so cheep that you are afraid to turn on the air condition” If she came in and find the man home and the air condition is working, she can use that also to start a argument. “ It is you alone home, why not just open the widows instead of using up all the electricity”? The reason for this is she was out with boy friends and now has nothing left to give to the man. Therefore, before he tries to come on to her she first find a way to spoil his mood, and that will keep him at bay for another two days. Giving her the chance to recuperate from that ruff sex she got. Do not buy women for fool.
THE WIFE’S BOY FRIENDS SHOW IT UP.
I went into a store to talk to a woman friend of mine. An eighteen-year-old boy came in, and the way the boy acts. When he left the lady confess to me and say “ It is not good to have affair with little boy, because the way he came in here and act, putting his hands in my hair, was a big give away” Another give away that a woman is having an affair is when she continue being mad at the man.
CONTINUATION OF ILL FEELINGS.
Sirach 7:26. If you have a wife, let her not seem odious to you; but where there is ill feelings, trust her not. The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. .) The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. Catholic book publishing company
When there is no mutual love.
Sirach 25: 1. (With three things, I am delighted, for they are pleasing to the Lord and to men: Harmony among brethren, friendship among neighbors, and mutual love of husband and wife.)
The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. Catholic book publishing company
If she never indicates sex, and is, more like a brush aside person is because something is just not right.
One man told me that every time certain man drove by him, the way the man look at him tell him that something was wrong. He later found out that the man is his wife boy friend. At the time he was telling me the man drove, pass us with the same man wife beside him. They both laughing as they drove by us. Another way is the woman always tired when bedtime came. As he came by her, she pretends to be sick.
THE WOMAN’S LADY FRIENDS TOLD ON HER.
The primary way men know that their wives are having affairs, is. The wives women friends always told on them. Another big give away is. The company of women that a man’s wife hangs out with, will always give the indication of what she is up to. Just by observing the qualities of women and how they are behaving. We have heard the proverbs “Birds of one feather flocked together” or “Dogs of the same kind lap their tails together”
WE EXPECT TOO MUCH FROM SINFUL PEOPLE.
Broken heart comes about when one is being let down, disappointed and have their feelings insulted. This happen because we want faithfulness from other people. Because we had big expectation upon people. Just look around you on the job, you will see affair going on right out there in the open daily.
SOMETIME ONLY CHRIST JESUS CAN HELP US:
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:
How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:
Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:
Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:
Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)
BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:
Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:
Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.
FIRST HUMBLING YOU:
Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.
1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:
1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.
FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:
When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.
WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:
Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.
Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.
Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.
GET A GOOD BIBLE, AND FIND A GOOD CHURCH:
One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.
Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:
Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:
1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)
2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)
3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)
4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)
5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)
6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)
7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)
By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.
Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.
Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.
YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:
Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.
According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.
Come back for update soon.
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