"WHY MEN FALL INTO DISFAVORS WITH WOMEN"
“The train is about to leave”
Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean.
Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
S ome women has been abused as a child by their father, cousin, brother, uncle and mother's boy friends. Then by the time they entered the job market, once again they are under the lustful eyes of supervisors, boss and other male co-workers. Women has grown to dislike men who appeared sexually needy. Women can also spot a needy man a mile away. As time goes by women learn to despise needy men, because needy men is not thinking about a woman's need but their own sexual gratification, and women know this.
Men has been brought up to think that women’s body shape, hair style, length of the hair, voice, looks, dance hall activities, club activities and church activities mean a lots. By this mis conceptions we entrapped ourselves. Some of the most smartest people has serious problems that disqualified them to be around other people but has never been caught, because they know how to use their charms and capitalize on people misconceptions, that looking good mean you are good, and in most cases all these are wrong.
Spending too much time on noticing a woman's looks might cause us not to see other problems that are camouflages. Some people has no ambitions, some Cannot compromise, some has serious hate problem and race relationship problem.
LUSTFUL STARES AND COMMENTS ONLY WORK IN A MAN DISFAVORS:
Women has learned from an early age to assess men. If she underrate a man, not even his money might entice her. Once a man trying to come on to a woman that did not signals it, the man fall into the category of her disdained men. Once he falls into that category, his only chance is to find away out of it. He will have to first win back his honor. Even before he has a chance with her.
HOW TO WIN BIG WITH WOMEN.
Most women I came across, see themselves as here only to provide sexual pleasures for men , to please the men, to make men happy and women resented that. Women do not see themselves as having that sexual need. And still many of them pretend that they do not want that it is only men that want it, it is a guy thing.
They see themselves as helping out the men. The only times a woman can really be of help to a man is when she respected him, and meet him on mutual ground.
You the man has to make her meet you on mutual ground, by stop fallowing her around. By stopping wearing your love on your sleeve. When you stop running after women they start running after you. You might have heard of the” Push versus pull" concept. Once you the man begins to push she begins to pull. If you stop chasing after her she start chasing after you.
If you the man have sexual need, you must put yourself among women that have that kind of need. Women who are spawning.
Fix yourself up, get yourself a profession, put yourself among the group of people you want to be around.
MEN WERE TOLD TO HOUND THE WOMEN, SHOW HER THAT YOU ARE PERSISTENT:
Women do not see persistency as love, they see it as desperation. Smart men never give attentions to a woman, until she signals it. A woman has ways to warrant attention from the men that she desire to give her favors. Smart men never do any thing that will betrayed his needs. Staring at a woman, making comment, trying to talk to her when she is trying to avoid you will only work in your disfavor.
GO LOOKING FOR HER WHEN SHE ALREADY VOICE HER CHOICE THAT SHE DO NOT WANT TO SEE HIM:
All this only cause the man to fall into disdain. She see this kind of men as having no shame, desperate and hard up, this kind of men has no chance in hell with women.
DIRECT APPROACHES:
There are time when a man has to make a direct approaches, because some women are shy just like some men. But even shyness in a woman is her way of giving a signals. Because she only shy at the man that she fancy. If you has to make a direct approaches, do it intelligently. At a club, you could walk over and ask for a dance. At a shop I stop to buy a drink, I told the lady that I really do not drink this kind of drink. She ask" Then why do you buy it?" " I am only using it a pretense, just to come here to look at you" according to her response I know If I could invite her out. Any attitude that will make you look sexually needy, starve and hard up, you should drop, because it will only cause you to fall into disdain.
WOMEN WANT THE SAME THING THAT MEN WANTED:
You do not need to hound them. However, not all women has a sexual need , the same way you find impotent men who cannot have an erection, there are women just like that as well. If you want fish you have to go where a school of fish is feeding. The same thing with women, if you want women you will need to go where women hangs out. Every woman have a time when she is not a lady. On the job and in the street most women pretend to be lady. But there are places when they drop all that and spawned freely.
DO NOT TAKE CHANCES WITH BITTER SWEET PEOPLE.
This is a female who think that she is all that. She is the cutest person in town, it is her urine make bear and her number two make ice cream. She is the only woman in town that has a vagina. Beware of sexual harassment charges, and rape charges, this kind love excitement and cannot wait to exercise her legal rights. This kind do not give signals because they believe that they are better than men.
Even if they give a signal they uses negative means to convey it, like quarreling with the man, and the man must sift through that whole pile of dung to see that it is love she love him. But if she is doing him like that and it is love that is causing all that problem. What would she do if she really hated the man? Please do not tell me!!!!!!!.
Never go to a woman while she is on her high horse, she must come down. Smart men never cause women to think that vaginas is every thing.
1 Cor. 10:12 (KJV) Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall.
Ephes. 5:23-24 (KJV) For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. [24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Proverbs 11:9-AV An hypocrite with [his] mouth destroyeth his neighbor: but through knowledge shall the just be delivered.
SOMETIME ONLY CHRIST JESUS CAN HELP US:
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:
How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:
Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:
Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:
Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)
BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:
Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:
Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.
FIRST HUMBLING YOU:
Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.
1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:
1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.
FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:
When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.
WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:
Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.
Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.
Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.
GET A GOOD BIBLE, AND FIND A GOOD CHURCH:
One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.
Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:
Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:
1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)
2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)
3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)
4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)
5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)
6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)
7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)
By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.
Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.
Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.
YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:
Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.
According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.
Come back for update soon.
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