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"HOW TO CHOOSE A WIFE"

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Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean. Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

O ne woman was seeking a nanny for her baby, she process one hundred applications, she finally decides on one. The one that she hires is the one to kill her baby. After the death of her child she found out that the nanny she hires has a history of baby abuses, long from here to Germany.

A man is the same thing, a woman will have eleven sisters with herself, and eleven men will go into that home and choose a wife. All picks the bad ones, and the good one is still left there undiscovered, that is how stupid men are.

Men made all this stupid mistakes because we are looking at the woman good looking breasts, long hair, good looking backsides, and clear skins that she bleached out.

Among Christians men we are looking at the way the woman get into spirit in church. If the pastor pass gas she get up and jumps. We refuses to realize that sometime the people that made the most noise in Churches are sometime the prostitutes in the next town over.

THE WOMAN MUST HAVE NEED FOR A MAN.

The woman you chose must have a need for a man. If all the need she has for a man is a financial and emotional need, you do not want that woman. You are putting yourself into a setup positions. She must have sexual needs and admit to it. If she does not have a sexual need this could be a sign of serious emotional trouble spring from sexual abuse as a child. One woman was constantly raped by her father from a child right up till she was seventeen years of age. When she was big enough to get away from him. She was married to one of my friend. The marriage broke because every time she was about to reach a climax she went out of her mind, finally she broke down and told him what happen to her as a child. By refusing to climax, she remain free in her mind that she is not a part of that crime. Year after when she is having a relationship with any man it reminded her of what happen as a child.

LEARNED TO FALLOW THE LEADING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT.

The main reason why Christians made mistakes, made bad decisions that plunges their life into darkness, is due to the fact that we never spent the time to do the first work. There are two main things that a Christians need to do immediately after they got saved. One is to begin to purges their life of things like covetousness, envy, prejudice, double mindedness and grudges. The next thing is to learn how the spirit of God communicate to us and learn to fallow his leading. This is the only way to avoid making bad mistakes.

The reason why these sins. God has set up people in the churches to guide the young converts and as a young converts you will need to learn to capitalize on the gift of other people, and these sins will blind you and keep you from the people that can really help and guided you. These sins also causes you to sin against the holy spirit which will have to reveals traps to you and show you that you are heading in the wrong directions.

All the problems that I had in my life today are base on mistakes that I made the first year after I was converted. All the victories that I had in my life toady are base on the good decisions that I made in those early years. The fruits off both good and bad just begin to come in now.

GOD PUT HELP THERE FOR YOU.

1 Cor. 12:28 (KJV) And God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily prophets, thirdly teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, governments, diversities of tongues.

“Prophets” Are people that hears directly from God, every church has one. The problem is, this person might not have any educations at all, and might not be one of the church top dog, and is not in any office of importance where his or her voice is of any importance. God made his son born in a stable and not a palace. All of God’s people seem to be left behind are step over, but it only seem that way. You must learn to identified these people and capitalizes on their ability instead of shunning them and defaming them. In most cases the pastor of the church will shun these people, because he/she feel offended by their abilities, but you must learn not to fallow thes covetous people. In one church I was a member of, all the people that were despised by the pastors and his groups were the ones that would go out and keep street meeting and bring new members into the church. We were the ones that were seen as zealots and show off.

Luke 10:16 (KJV) He that heareth you heareth me; and he that despiseth you despiseth me; and he that despiseth me despiseth him that sent me.

1 Thes. 4:8 (KJV) He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.

Col. 2:8 (KJV) Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

James 4:8 (KJV) Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.

James 1:6-8 (KJV) But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. [7] For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord. [8] A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.

Job 8:20 (KJV) Behold, God will not cast away a perfect man, neither will he help the evil doers:

1 Peter 5:5 (KJV) Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.

CHOSING A WIFE.

In the world of business is not what you deserve you get, but what you negociate for. You must find out if this woman believe in the delegated authority of man. Find out if she believe in the head ship of a man. Find out if she accept you as her head. Find out if the woman believe in these scriptures. And above all, beware of demons poses female.

Choose a wife that is far younger than you the man, reason are ,Christian wife has a habit of stop having sex as a means of manipulating the husband. Younger women can only continue that behaviour for a few day but the older ones who their urges is diminishing with age, can give you the man a longer punishment.

1 Cor. 11:3 (KJV) But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

Ephes. 5:23 (KJV) For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

Amos 3:3 (KJV) Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

1 Cor. 7:1-5 (KJV) Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. [2] Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. [3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. [4] The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. [5] Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

Ephes. 5:33 (KJV) Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

Romans 7:2 (KJV) For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.

(3) GETTING TO KNOW THE WOMAN’S PARIENTS AND FAMILY.

We already talk about purging your life and learning to fallow the leading of the Holy Spirit. The third things down the line are getting to know the woman’s parents. The Holy Spirit is going to point out the trouble spot to you.

If her parents are having problem in their relationship at such a late time in their marriage, chances are the same problems might just spill over into your marriages with that daughter as well. If she had sister who is trying to take you away from her, this is a sign that you are heading into bad family as well, those jealous sisters will not stop until they brake you both up. If you the man is weak and has no morals he is going to cause big problem into that problem family by pregnant all the sisters. One-man pregnant mother and daughter in one of our church.

One man complains that his wife could never reaches a climax; shoe looses it right before she reaches it. After trying with her for months, one day she broke down and told him that her father usually raped her from she was seven year old right up until she was about seventeen years of age when she finally move out and go on her own. The way she keep herself from feeling guilty is try not to have a climax, so she do not feel a part of that sin. Years after every time she went to bed with a man as she is about to climax it reminded her of her father. It bring back years of anguish to her mind, and causes her to loose the orgasm. Her life was messed up, where love and marriages are concern.

(4) KILL THE PROBLEMS BEFORE IT BECAME A PROBLEM.

One lady told me that she was physically, and verbally abuse by her first husband. After she divorce him, the second husband, long before they decide to get married she point out to him that if a problem arises they both must sit down and talk about it. The first time he calls her a bad name out he goes. The first time he hit her she is going to kill him. Because she is not going to go through that again and she pick him as the best man and expect him to behave as such. You need to know if the woman is stuck up on drugs, if she has a gambling addicted problem, if she has a spending addicted problems, or else you are going to stuck up with credit card bill up to your neck. Sexually abuses woman has problem taking their panties of in womanhood. You will need to know what you are jumping into.

THIS IS WHERE THE SPIRIT OF GOD CAME IN.

To shew you things to come, to reveals secrets to you. And to guide you into all truth. But this takes learning.

Hebrews 10:15 (KJV) Whereof the Holy Ghost also is a witness to us: for after that he had said before,

Romans 8:16 The Spirit Himself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God:

The Word "Spirit" Is Used Of:

1. God's personal spirit (Psalm 139:7; Psalm 143:10; Isaiah 30:1; Isaiah 40:13) 2. The Holy Spirit (Genesis 1:2; Isaiah 48:16; Isaiah 61:1; Zech. 12:10) 3. Angels (Psalm 104:4) 4. Cherubim (Ezekiel 1:12-21; Ezekiel 10:17) 5. Demons (Leviticus 19:31; Leviticus 20:6) 6. Other spirit beings (Zech. 6:5)

7. New nature of the child of God (1 Cor. 6:17) 8. Man's personal spirit (Numbers 16:22; Numbers 27:16; Proverbs 18:14; Proverbs 20:27; Proverbs 25:28; Eccles. 3:21) 9. Judgment of God Is Translated As:

The Spirit of Man Can Be:

1. Troubled (Genesis 41:8) 2. Revived (Genesis 45:27) 3. In anguish (Exodus 6:9) 4. Made willing (Exodus 35:21) 5. Jealous (Numbers 5:14,30) 6. Hardened (Deut. 2:30)

7. Sorrowful (1 Samuel 1:15) 8. Stirred up (2 Chron. 36:22) 9. Committed to God (Psalm 31:5) 10. Guileless (Psalm 32:2) 11. Contrite (Psalm 34:18) 12. Broken (Psalm 51:17)

13. Overwhelmed (Psalm 77:3) 14. Steadfast (Psalm 78:8) 15. Provoked (Psalm 106:33) 16. Hasty (Proverbs 14:29) 17. Haughty (Proverbs 16:18) 18. Humble (Proverbs 16:19)

19. Ruled (Proverbs 16:32) 20. Wounded or hurt (Proverbs 18:14) 21. Vexed (Eccles. 1:14) 22. Patient (Eccles. 7:8)

23. Constrained (Job 32:18) 24. Searched (Psalm 77:6) 25. Made to keep secrets (Proverbs 11:13) 26. In error (Isaiah 29:24)

27. Proud (Eccles. 7:8) 28. Heavy (Isaiah 61:3) 29. Made to learn (Job 20:3; Job 32:8) 30. Increased in knowledge (1 Cor. 2:11)

SOMETIME ONLY CHRIST JESUS CAN HELP US:

Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:

How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.

Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;

Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:

Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:

Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:

Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.

Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.

MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:

Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,

Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,

PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:

1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.

THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:

Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:

Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)

BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:

Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.

We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."

DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:

Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.

FIRST HUMBLING YOU:

Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.

If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.

1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:

1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:

2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.

FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:

When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.

WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:

Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.

Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.

Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.

GET A GOOD BIBLE, AND FIND A GOOD CHURCH:

One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.

Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.

PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:

Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.

Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:

1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)

2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)

3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)

4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)

5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)

6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)

7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)

By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.

Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.

Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?

When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.

YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:

Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.

Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.

Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.

According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.

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