"HOW TO PREVENT PEOPLE FROM TRASHED YOUR LIFE"
“The train is about to leave”
Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean.
Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
M any people do not realized that we become what we hang around. There is no way a person will ever prosper while they hang around people who secretly envied them.
When a person are seeking employment. On the application the person was ask to put the names of three people not related to he or she. People usually used the names of their best friends. Friends who they can rely on. People who they considered creditable. One employer told me a shocking story. She said “If you see some kind of reference that came into this office from people best friends” “Do not employed this person, this is a nasty person”
People can ruin your entire life and cause you to end up homeless and eating out of the trash can. At the same time, the people that bring your life down are people who suppose to be best friends. Some friends or only coffins that we drag about from year to years. These weigh us down.
CUT THEM LOOSE.
You need to go into your phone, phone books, and into your note books, erase out the phone numbers of people who never return your calls, or never call you. Only call when they want something.
Ask yourself some serious questioning. Since I know this person what has he or she ever contribute to my life? Does this person share information with me? Since I been going to this church what have I accomplished?
Sent out phony job reference, and see it they are going to give you a good reference. You must stop seeking out people who are not seeking you out, these are the people holding you back and keeping you down. Go find new friends. Dump out those old phone numbers. “Hello” “Wrong number” You do not remember me? “No” I never heard of you. In plane word, I do not want to remember you and do not want to hear from you.
A so call Christians brother malice me for fifteen years, then he came down to Florida, and call that he want to visit my home. I ask my wife. For what? Why does he want to come to our home. Tell him do not come and if he come I have to take it as a treat.
The other friends stop talking to me. So what? They are not going to cry for me when I fall. They never congratulate me on any thing, nor encourage me on any thing. For you to go forward you have to cut the coffins loose. You have to picked up on people who do not mean you any good and run from them
HOW DOES THE SCRIPTURES TEACHUS TO DEAL WITH NASTY PEOPLE!
Psalms 146:3 (NKJV) Do not put your trust in princes, Nor in a son of man, in whom there is no help.
Micah 7:5-7 (NKJV) Do not trust in a friend; Do not put your confidence in a companion; Guard the doors of your mouth From her who lies in your bosom. 6 For son dishonors father, Daughter rises against her mother, Daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; A man's enemies are the men of his own household. 7 Therefore I will look to the Lord; I will wait for the God of my salvation; My God will hear me.
Do not put any trust in them. Do not try to win them over, it not going to happen any time soon. These people operate out of envy. Envy is what fuels them. Do not try to understand them, because they do not understand themselves.
GUARD THE DOOR OF YOUR MOUTH.
Do not let them outsmart you and drag you down into a dialog with them. Then they say you threatened to kill them. “ If you see the looks in the man eyes, the foul things that was coming out of his mouth” If you kill a rat they can find ways to blow it up and make it look like you massacre a whole town of people. The truth is, you only kill one mouse.
PROBLEM ON THE JOB.
Document what happen, what was said. Then wrote a letter to the people who are in authority. The trick is, nasty people planned to keep needling you until you blow. Once you blow, up they say, “We told you that guy was up to no good” However, they are not going to say it was they that provoke the situation.
DO NOT JOIN THEM NOR BECOME LIKE THEM.
Proverbs 3:31 (KJV) Envy thou not the oppressor, and choose none of his ways.
Proverbs 23:6 (KJV) Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:
HOW TO PRAY FOR NASTY PEOPLE.
If you mist understand and mist read St Matthew 5: 44-45 you could be in big trouble. Love the enemy is not talking about having good warm feeling for a trouble maker. The Greek word that was use here was not talking about a feelings but a doing. Which men we should not treat the trouble makers like how they truly deserve, or else how are we better than them! “Bless them” What bless them truly mean. If the trouble makers are hungry, feed them. It was not talking about pronouncing a divine blessing upon people who make it a career to destroy other people lives.
Matthew 5:44 (KJV) But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
Matthew 5:45 (KJV) That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.
Psalm 35:5 (KJV) Let them be as chaff before the wind: and let the angel of the Lord chase them.
Psalm 34:7 (KJV) The angel of the Lord encampeth round about them that fear him, and delivereth them.
Ten Promises of Psalm 34
1. The angel of the Lord encamps around about them that fear Him, and delivers them (Psalm 34:7). 2. There is no want to them that fear Him (Psalm 34:9; Psalm 84:11; Luke 11:9-11). 3. They that seek the Lord shall not want any good thing (Psalm 34:10; Matthew 7:11). 4. The eyes of the Lord are upon the righteous, and His ears are open unto their cry (Psalm 34:10,15,17; John 15:7).
5. The face of the Lord is against those who do evil (Psalm 34:16). 6. The righteous cry, and the Lord hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles (Psalm 34:17; note, §Psalm 34:6).
7. The Lord is close to those whose heart is broken, and saves those who have a contrite spirit (Psalm 34:18). 8. Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the Lord delivers him out of them all (Psalm 34:19). 9. Evil shall slay the wicked: and those who hate the righteous shall be desolate (Psalm 34:21). 10. The Lord redeems the soul of His servants: and none of those who trust in Him shall be desolate (Psalm 34:22).
SOMETIME ONLY CHRIST JESUS CAN HELP US:
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:
How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:
Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:
Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:
Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)
BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:
Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:
Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.
FIRST HUMBLING YOU:
Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.
1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:
1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.
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FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:
When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.
WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:
Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.
Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.
Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.
GET A GOOD BIBLE, FIND A GOOD CHURCH:
One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.
Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:
Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:
1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)
2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)
3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)
4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)
5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)
6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)
7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)
By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.
Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.
Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.
YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:
Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.
According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.
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