Why some church women left dry out on the shelves.
God has a mate for you.
O ur Lord says, “The children of this world, in their generation are wiser that the children of light. Luke 16:8. I visited Jamaica a few years ago. I saw a certain girl I knew some thirty years back. I know that she wanted a man. However, she had none. In-fact what women do not want a man? Another sister told me that her pastor asks all the women in the church who would like to get married to come to the altar. She was surprise to see some old women who are in the church from donkey years coming to the altar. She had to wonder where all these people were hiding. You mean God cannot provide a man for his women servants! Yes he did. The same way that he provided the fruit on the tree and we have to go climb the tree for it then cook it to our likeness. The same way that he provided manner in the deserts for the children of Israel, but the Israelites had to go out and collect the manner, bring it home and prepared it for meal. It is the same way God provided job for us and it is the same way he provided husband and wives for us.
PASTORS DOMINATE THEIR LIVES.
One of the first problems is that some of these women make pastors dominate their lives. My wife was a member of "church of God" Her pastor refuses to bless our ring, saying he was not the first to hear about our plan of getting married. One of my pastors passes a law in the church that if a brother saw a sister that he likes. The brother must first contact the church for clearance to talk to the sister.
I contact him concerning a certain sister. He put down on the letter for four years. He called the sister and gave her the letter the same night I was getting married to somebody else; the sister could not take it she backslides. People must know how far to let pastors go into your life. Pastor is not your saviour; he is not your lord but your servant. Many of these sisters get chances but the pastors kill it.
Some of these sisters hide and let a man in there, after getting pregnant; they kill the baby to please pastor and the church crowd. Adding sin to sin or using one sis to cover the other. Some church had a rule where the brother and sister had to have another person following them when they going to do their wedding shopping, to make sure they do not have sex. What foolishness!
“The pastor complain that these two rings coming in the church” Like rings have any thing to do with salvation. These blind pastors who people heap up to lead them are only leading the people down to hell. The pastor daughters find men, you need to look at that.
I befriend one girl for three years while in school. It was like pouring water on a duck back. She would keep laughing at me and say. “No Mackie, I only like you as a brother” Finally, I proposed to the woman I now married to for thirty years. She said “yes”, “but instructed me to go and talk to her parents because she was still living under there authority” When I was getting married, the other girl start rolling on the floor and crying saying her heart is broken.
The “tone” that “stuck on the shelves” women project gives the men the impression that this woman has no man need. She keeps saying that she “Married to Jesus” If you do not mean a thing do not talk like that. Let your mouth say what your true feelings are saying. Some people suffer from self inflicted curses. You do not have to appear over needy, but to catch fish you have to have some kind of bait. You cannot be telling men that you have lost your sex urges and expect them to come on over. Come on over to cut your toes nails? You had better be practical and realistic. You cannot be acting as if it is the devil that makes the human anatomy. It is God who sit down on his drawing board and design the human anatomy, it is not Satan. Satan can help us to abuse it but sex and child bearing was not Satan’s idea but God.
Some of these sisters hide and let a man in there, after getting pregnant; they kill the baby to please pastor and the church crowd. Adding sin to sin or using one sis to cover the other. Some church had a rule where the brother and sister had to have another person following them when they going to do their wedding shopping, to make sure they do not have sex. What foolishness!
“The pastor complain that these two rings coming in the church” Like rings have any thing to do with salvation. These blind pastors who people heap up to lead them are only leading the people down to hell. The pastor daughters find men, you need to look at that.
I befriend one girl for three years while in school. It was like pouring water on a duck back. She would keep laughing at me and say. “No Mackie, I only like you as a brother” Finally, I proposed to the woman I now married to for thirty years. She said “yes”, “but instructed me to go and talk to her parents because she was still living under there authority” When I was getting married, the other girl start rolling on the floor and crying saying her heart is broken.
The “tone” that “stuck on the shelves” women project gives the men the impression that this woman has no man need. She keeps saying that she “Married to Jesus” If you do not mean a thing do not talk like that. Let your mouth say what your true feelings are saying. Some people suffer from self inflicted curses. You do not have to appear over needy, but to catch fish you have to have some kind of bait. You cannot be telling men that you have lost your sex urges and expect them to come on over. Come on over to cut your toes nails? You had better be practical and realistic. You cannot be acting as if it is the devil that makes the human anatomy. It is God who sit down on his drawing board and design the human anatomy, it is not Satan. Satan can help us to abuse it but sex and child bearing was not Satan’s idea but God.
I befriend one girl for three years while in school. It was like pouring water on a duck back. She would keep laughing at me and say. “No Mackie, I only like you as a brother” Finally, I proposed to the woman I now married to for thirty years. She said “yes”, “but instructed me to go and talk to her parents because she was still living under there authority” When I was getting married, the other girl start rolling on the floor and crying saying her heart is broken.
The “tone” that “stuck on the shelves” women project gives the men the impression that this woman has no man need. She keeps saying that she “Married to Jesus” If you do not mean a thing do not talk like that. Let your mouth say what your true feelings are saying. Some people suffer from self inflicted curses. You do not have to appear over needy, but to catch fish you have to have some kind of bait. You cannot be telling men that you have lost your sex urges and expect them to come on over. Come on over to cut your toes nails? You had better be practical and realistic. You cannot be acting as if it is the devil that makes the human anatomy. It is God who sit down on his drawing board and design the human anatomy, it is not Satan. Satan can help us to abuse it but sex and child bearing was not Satan’s idea but God.
IT IS NOT US-WISE TO WAGGED TAIL.
I had a habit of teasing a certain woman, and one day she say to me. “One of these days I am going to tell you yes”
Matthew 7:7 (Living Bible) "Ask, and you will be given what you ask for. Seek, and you will find. Knock and the door will be opened.
Luke 11:9 (Living Bible) And so it is with prayer--keep on asking and you will keep on getting; keep on looking and you will keep on finding; knock and the door will be opened.
I have seen women came to the altar to pray that the lord will provide a husband. As soon as they got up from the altar, they start acting as if a man is the lost thing on their mind.
God cannot feed you when you refuse to open your mouth. God cannot guide your steps whey you are not moving your foot. God cannot provide the husband if you refuse to wagged your tail.
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HOW DOES A PERSON BECOME A CHRISTIANS?
How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD.
Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM.
Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
The sinner must believe that God can keep him save.
Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD.
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM.
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY.
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)
BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER.
Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.
DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY.
Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.
FIRST HUMBLING YOU.
Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.
1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
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TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD.
2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.
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FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING
WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF.
Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible)
Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.
Col. 3:8 (Living Bible)
but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.
GET A GOOD BIBLE, FIND A GOOD CHURCH.
Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible)
Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
DROP THE BAD HABITS.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN.
Hebrews 13:9 (KJV)
Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:
2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)
3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)
4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)
5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)
6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)
7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)
By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.
Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.
Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.
YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY.
Romans 8:23 (KJV)
And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.
According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.
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Bearer Of The Mind Sword.
1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.
Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible)
Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.
One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.
Drop the smoking, even though we cannot prove it to be a sin. You are going to be sitting down beside other church going people; they do not want to be smelling the odor from smoking on you.
Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)
Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
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