"HOW FAT SHOULD A WOMAN BE TO GET A MAN"
“The train is about to leave”
Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean. Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559
W hat a person looks like only mean something depend on where they are living and whom they are among. A woman’s body shape and frame is lookdown upon or praised depend on whom she is among and what part of the world she is living in. How fat is too fat? And what is wrong with being fat?
One lady told me that for fifteen years she has not been with a man in a sexual way. She never get the chance to have children that she always wanted. “Am I really too fat?” She asked. Her grand mother keep telling her that she is too fat. “Men will never want you” That ruin her self image, and keep her shying away from men. If a man give her some attention she think it was a look down upon. Self image to a woman is like horn to cow, are weaponed to a solder, The way we think others saw us will always have great impact an how we think of ourselves.
However, in moves fat women as well as skimpy women has a role to play. In the job market fat women as well as skimpy women has a role to play.
THE TRUTH IS.
A fat woman has the same chance as a skinny woman to get and keep a man. But this depend on her ability to make change to her life. She will have to wear different clothing, she will have to adapt different sexual positions, she will have to think different of herself, she will have to go among men that are lusting after heavy set women, and she will have to find a way to shape the fat. Men tend to role of the belly of a fat woman, and than is embarrassing, so the woman have to practice the woman on top position. But how is this possible, since she is so big? She have do put her weight on her knees, so when she is over the man her belly is barley touching him, while e feel the full force of her female part.
CLOTHING.
Tight clothing is not good for fat people. The tight clothing is not going to pull the fat in. If the fat woman is trying to keep her body from shaking as she walk. She can wear tight under clothing. Long big dress with tight under pants, or what we call long Johns is excellent wear.
PROVIDING PROPER SIGNALS-OF-ATTRACTION IS AN ART TO BE MASTERED.
What is a signal? A signal is a non-verbal way a woman communicates with a man to show that she is interested in him. Prostitutes are successful with men because they have all kind of signals to give. However, some of them, failed to continue a lasting relationship with any of their clients because maintaining a relationship is a different art.
If you like the man you have to find some way, verbal or none verbal, to convey the message. You cannot use negative signals or double signals to catch a man. Some woman pretend that they hate him, begin to annoy him and expect the man to see through this smoke screen of hate that there is love at the end of all this. A man is not that smart. I believe that most men cannot see past their penis and their nose. Also if thing is not going good with a man, he might not see what the woman is getting hat. A lady friend asked me to help her carry her stuffs to her apartment. I did not know that she had something else in mind. She says to me “ When a woman is making you an offer you must take it, because you do not have what she offering so take it” Four years later I been thinking and asking myself “ When did this woman ever make me an offer? What I did not know at the time is this. That was her way of making the offer. She should have invite me in, then make a cup of tea, and start a conversation along that line then say her lines, when I am getting ready to leave, and it would make sense if I did not get it by then
If the woman pretending like she have no use for a man, men will never see through this wall of pretense. Only the men that we call “Notch collectors” These will hang in there trying to win the woman over because he has something to prove, he is into collecting notches on his gun. He is out to prove that he can win any woman over. However, as soon as he experience her he will left and went un his merry way. Singing as he goes.
THE PROBLEM WITH PEOPLE IS THAT WE KEEP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS, INSTEAD OF BEING THANKFUL FOR WHO WE ARE.
Never tell a man that you are fat, hoping to her him say that you are not. He is scared to say something differently from what you say. If my wife never told me that she was up to one hundred and eighty I would not have seen it. Never be the one to bring up the fat thing when talking to men. If you expected mate never told you about going to a gym, do not enlighten him to it. Beware of female friend who make fat jokes especially before men friends.
Some people have big body frame, or it is in their gens to be big, do not spent time killing yourself about you bigness. Just find a way to give it that pear shape and keep building other aspect of your lives.
BE ABLE TO KEEP A RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER.
Proverbs 14:1 (Living) A wise woman builds her house, while a foolish woman tears hers down by her own efforts.
Luke 6:31 (Living) Treat others as you want them to treat you.
SOMETIME ONLY CHRIST JESUS CAN HELP US:
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:
How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:
Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:
Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:
Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)
BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:
Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:
Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.
FIRST HUMBLING YOU:
Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.
1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:
1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.
FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:
When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.
WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:
Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.
Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.
Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.
GET A GOOD BIBLE, AND FIND A GOOD CHURCH:
One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.
Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:
Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:
1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)
2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)
3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)
4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)
5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)
6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)
7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)
By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.
Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.
Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.
YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:
Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.
According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.
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