“Wise Men Still Seek Jesus”
Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean. Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559
E ver since the first grain of sand has landed upon the ocean floor and the first breath of air escape man’s nostril and man became a living soul. All the beings that live in the heavens know that they we in for trouble. Man became a walking war, and therefore need councils. That is why I was call to give free consultations to men of all races.
A friend of while making love to his wife, just as she is about to have an orgasm she lose it and went off her hanger. As the months went by, he finally decides to ask her why? “Why babes, what is happing to our love life?” She broke down and let him know that her father been raping her from she was ten years old up to eighteen years old. No body believe her because he is a so cal respectable man. As not to feel guilty, she make sure that she never climax during the ordeal. Countless number of women has suffer that kind of cruelty over they years, and has doomed their life for happiness with a man.
Many women have been abused as a child by their father, cousin, brother, and uncle and mothers boy friends. Then by the time they entered the job market, once again they are under the lustful eyes of supervisors, boss, and other male co-workers. As time goes by the unwanted approaches of men became bothersome to women. And some Women have grown to dislike men who appeared sexually needy. Women can also spot a needy man a mile away. As time goes by women learn to despise needy men, because needy men is not thinking about a woman's feeling but their own sexual gratification, and women know this.
THE MIS-CONCEPTIONS THAT WHAT IS LOOKING GOOD IS GOOD.
Men has been brought up to think that women’s body shape, hair style, length of the hair, voice, looks, dance hall performance, club activities and church Activities mean lots. By these mist conceptions, we entrapped ourselves. Some of the smartest people has serious problems that disqualified them to be around other people but has never been caught, because they know how to use their charms and capitalize on people misconceptions. Not because a woman is looking good, that does not mean that she is good.
LUSTFUL STARES AND LUSTFUL COMMENTS ONLY WORK IN A MAN DOWNFALLS
Do you ever notice that when a woman is checking out a man, she do it when the man is not looking? Because she think that might work in her disfavors. Man think that hounding the woman will make him get her that only shows him up as needy.
PUSH EQUAL PULL
Do you ever notice that when you begin to push on people they begin to pull away, but if you stop pushing they stop pulling away? It is the same thing with women, once a man start acting hard up and needy, he sends the price up, and set himself back for a whole month. Women do not want what they can easily get, they want what they cannot get, the challenge is better, and when they succeeded in getting what they cannot get, it fling their self image way up high. Their butt is now on their shoulder.
Spending too much time noticing a woman's body shape might cause us not to see other problems that are camouflages. Some people cannot compromise, some has serious hate problem and race relationship problem.
WOMEN MENTAL TRASH LIBRARY.
Women have learned from an early age to assess men. If she underrates a man, not even his money might entice her. Once a man trying to come on to a woman that did not signals it, the man fall into the category of her disdained men.
Once he falls into the category of her mental trash pile, there is no way he can redeemed himself. She will also cause the other women in her group to feel the same way about that man. When it happens on offense, (resentment or hurt) women came in at the head of the line. One woman can turn the entire village against a man, if she is upset with him for some reason.
I heard women say,” There is no good men out there” I have to wonder how many men has they been with? How do we know all the men out there? People failed to realize that they have to match with the person before it can work out. In the medical field, I have to work a lot with women. If I am with the wrong lady we argued all night long, and get nothing done. With the right one, the hours pass and never know it. It is the same thing with making love. With the wrong woman, a man could never get his penis to rise up. When the right woman turn up it stand up like a snake, ready to go to work.
SMART MEN ARE ALWAYS AWARE OF WOMEN OVERCONFIDENCE.
A woman came to my house, she saw my wife and three children running all over the house and calling daddy, daddy, come play with me daddy. For all that, this woman put in her proposal. Then start to act like she been hurt. If I did take favour from her, I would be in trouble. Women feel like they can make any man change their mind base on the fact that they have a vagina, as if most men are salve to vagina. Most men are not slave to vagina, only the one and two fools among us act hard up, and they act that way because they think it make them get the woman.
Find out what kind of relationship the woman want, and never lie to her because women are counting on men lying to them, so she can have reason to mess up the man when things turn sour. “You lied to me”“Why did you lie to me”
HOW TO PREVENT YOURSELF FROM FALL INTO A WOMAN TRASH PILE.
When a woman is ready for a man, she will act it. Tell the woman how you feel about her. Tell her that you desire her. Tell her that from the time, you saw her she was always in your dreams and you cannot take your mind off her. Then ask if you could have her.
Now the ball is in her corner, you have done all that you can legally and possible do as a man. It is now up to her, to do something about your proposal. You already make your move at her; it is her time now to make her move. If you push it, you are going to cause her to get in the pulling mood. And she might even think you are needy. Never make a woman feel that you are needy. Only show up your neediness after she shows up hers. Never tries to feel a woman part if she is not feeling yours first. Never do any thing to a woman that she is not doing to you first. If she slap you in the face apologies for making a pass at her. I prefer to be slapped that to see a woman like you walk away and did not at least try. Most of the time I get lucky after I was slapped. The way you react after you were tell off can make a woman change her mind about you.
The second techniques, is to put yourself in places where women are spanning and wait for a woman to pound on you. Men failed to realize that women want the same things that men want. Women also look at men’s butt just like how men look at women butt, but women use their side way vision while men stare. Never abuse a woman, go easy on her. If she say you have too much of your stuff in her pull out some, for Pete’s sake. Never kill your chance for next time.
Men failed to realize that women are just as horned as men. And even more horned, the only difference is that men are turned on by sight, and men do not have any special time of the month to be in heat, but women have a special time each month when they are ready for sex, and when that time came they are hot as hell fire. There or men that are impotent, and there are women that are impotent as well. And when you see a woman acting like she do not want men, count it as true and leave her along because she could just be one of those impotent women.
Women do not see persistency as love, they see it as desperation. Smart men never give attentions to a woman, until she signals it. A woman has ways to warrant attention from the men that she desires to give her favors to. Smart men never do any thing that will betray his needs. Staring at a woman, making comment, trying to talk to her when she is trying to avoid you will only work in your disfavor.
"WHY MEN FALL INTO DISFAVORS WITH WOMEN
Two lady I ask this question say" Because men are stupid, men are pigs, men cannot grow up, and men only want to have fun with women" Men cause women to think this way.
Some women believe that they here to provide sexual pleasures for men, to please the men, to make men happy and women resented that. Some women see sex as a guy thing. Women see themselves as helping out the men. The only times a woman can really be of help to a man is when she respected him, and meet him on mutual ground.
You the man has to make her meet you on mutual ground, by stop fallowing her around. By stop wearing your love on your sleeve. When you stop running after women they start running after you. If you the man have sexual need, you must put yourself among women that have that kind of need.
HOW TO HUMBLE A WOMAN.
Deut. 21:14 (NASB-U) -- you shall not mistreat her, because you have humbled her.
The same way that a woman has to loose her virginity before she can enjoy sex, it is the same way how she has to loose her negative feministic views of man. A woman will be of little use to a man until he has humbled her. And how does a man humbled a woman. Women have a way to act like it is their urine that makes bear for men to drink. You the man have to act the same way. If she act like what she got up her pants is better than what you have up your pants you the man must act the same way. Once you act as if you do not see her and she does not exist for you she come down.
I went to make love to a woman, she took only one of her foot out of one leg of her pants, and refuses to take off all her clothing, I got up put mine clothing on and step out leave her same place. She comes down. When she act as if she is the only woman this side of the Rio Grand, you must act as you see no body and she come down.
Never scrutiny a woman for she to see, once she see you lusting after her you only big her up in pride and make her hard to get. Look at her when she is looking at you, and look in her face and not on her parts. Look where her eyes are looking. She acts as if she does not see you act the same and she will come down.
AVOIDING LET DOWN WOMEN.
Women, who classified men as dogs, and trash men, not suppose to taste the sperm of a man. These have pocket and purses full of poison for men. As I worked among Doctors, Nurses, LPNS, and Nurse Assistant daily, the only group of these women that is not a show off is the Doctors and lawyer. But the lower down the ladder you go is the more mess you find. The ones that have no class are the ones that curse out men the most.
Proverbs 31:3 (NASB-U) Do not give your strength to women, Or your ways to that which destroys kings.
The many awful instances of promising characters who have been ruined by vile women,
WOMEN TRAMPLED ON MEN WHO HAVE NO SHAME.
never fight with a woman for her body. Never go looking for her if she does not want to see you. Never call again if she refuses to return your call. Never stalked a woman, you are making her laugh that her leaving has killed you. If she decided to run with your money let her run, stay away from her next time. Never make a woman played you a second time. Have control over your sex drive; never let your penis do you’re thinking, the penis is a fool, has no shame, and does not think well. Do not waste time wanting a woman who does not want you and one you cannot get.
SOMETIME ONLY JESUS CAN HELP US:
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:
How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:
Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:
Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:
Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)
BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:
Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:
Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.
FIRST HUMBLING YOU:
Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.
1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:
1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.
FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:
When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.
WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:
Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.
Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.
Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.
GET A GOOD BIBLE, AND FIND A GOOD CHURCH:
One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.
Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:
Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:
1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)
2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)
3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)
4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)
5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)
6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)
7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)
By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.
Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.
Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.
YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:
Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.
According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.
Come back for update soon.
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