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As sexual
crimes against them increase: by
Marilou Guieb Women's Feature Service Baguio
City--In July last year, a farmer from Buguias, Benguet, was meted the lethal
injection sentence for raping his stepdaughter on two occasions. It was the
first sexually related crime that received the death penalty in the Cordillera
region. In
the old days, there was no equivalent term for rape in the languages of the
various tribes of the Cordillera, a mountain range in northern Luzon. A
report from the Women and Children's Desk of the Baguio City Police states that
in 1999, there were a recorded total of 328 cases of violence against women and
129 cases of child abuse, mostly of a sexual nature. This does not include cases
compiled in the other Cordillera regions, the reports of NGOs, and files of
centers for human rights, let alone, the greater number of unreported cases. In
a recent gathering of Igorots on the occasion of the Third Igorot International
Conference held in Baguio City, an elderly man expressed regret over how
differently the Igorots of the past viewed their sexuality from the Igorots of
today. In
the old days, men and women had control over their sexual decisions. But today's
scenario of rape, unwanted pregnancies, unsafe abortions and sexually
transmitted diseases (STDs) frightens the elders of this highland society. It
couldn't really be a question of permissiveness, this man said. For in his
youth, young ladies and men could spend long hours of the night together playing
games and sharing beds in the old system of ulogs or agamangs (In the old days,
unmarried girls slept together in one house called ulogs or agamangs ). And
they were naked or very scantily dressed - the men just wrapped in a little
barkcloth over their private parts and the women barebreasted with only tattoos
covering their arms. This completely negates the chauvinist claim today that
women dressed provocatively set themselves up for sexual assaults from men. Maybe
we should tell our people to run naked once more, said this Igorot man who has
lived most of his adult life in America where, ironically, rights and freedoms
are exalted but where the sickest sexual crimes abound. Behind
his humor was a reproach and a looking back to a romantic past when trial
marriages were not the same as promiscuity; nakedness was not shameful, and
courtship had songs and rituals. And yes, free love. Igorots
then were comfortable with their sexuality and allowed events to transpire
according to the cosmic guidance of their nature gods, a sexual view that did
not include the notion of power and dominance of men over the bodies of women. "Machismo" Practices
then did not encourage "machismo" in terms of conquests in bed.
Fertility, not virginity, was highly valued in the traditional communities of
these mountain regions. In fact, no marriage was really sealed until the birth
of a child. Infertility was not perceived as the fault of either spouse, but
caused by the ancestors' displeasure of the union. Tribals
were humble worshippers of their many gods who they believed could give them
blessings or misfortunes according to how they were appeased or displeased. As
such, female and male gods set the example of gender equity, for they were
portrayed as equals united to procreate and multiply a tribe. Several
studies exploring Igorot sexuality reveal that a woman was free to express her
sexuality. She was free to choose her own mate during puberty, initiate
courtship, marriage and even divorce, and have a child outside of marriage. Absence
of rape June
Brett-Prill, an anthropology professor at the University of Baguio, who did an
extensive analysis of Bontoc sexuality by immersing herself in the community
life of this mountain town, cites, "During my 1968 to 1970 field research
on Bontok warfare, I found no term for rape and also the absence of rape cases
from my compilation of legal cases. When I interviewed the elders and, later,
the old women, I realized that this concept was absent in the culture." Brett-Prill
further said that these elders informed her that it was inconceivable for a man
to force a woman to have sex if she did not consent to it. If a woman rejected a
man, there were many other women he could court and who would like him, so why
force her? She
cited that even in warfare, women from the enemy villages were never sexually
violated. During warfare, women caught in the rice fields could defend
themselves when they spotted an approaching enemy by disrobing and exposing
their sexual organs and cursing the men by shouting "Go back into the place
where you came from!" Prill-Brett
explained that this was a curse strongly believed to bring them bad luck,
because in some forgotten past, when men pursued their revenge on women who
exposed their vaginas, they literally lost their heads in battle. For
the Igorots of the past, taking an enemy's head in vengeance was a heroic act.
But rape and acts of domestic violence against women were taboo and made of them
men of no honor. And honor was as dear as life itself to these tribal men. Thus,
there were times when women were not spared a beheading, but their men never
raped them. Incest
was taboo Community
life was a factor of survival in those days, and to be ostracized was a sanction
perhaps equal to life imprisonment today. Thus, taboos, carefully instilled in
childhood to safeguard values and the dignity of each person, were honored
traditions. One
of the strongest sexual taboos was incest. The taboo then was against the mere
suggestion of incest, and far from the bestial act of father or other male kin
violating a daughter or grandchild, a crime that often makes today's tabloid
headlines. Tradition
clearly dictated that it was incestuous for cousins (up to the third degree) to
have a relationship. Brothers and sisters must avoid membership in the same work
group. Young men and ladies slept in separate community dormitories as early as
seven years old, because it was taboo for them to sleep under the same roof. Even
jokes and words with sexual connotations were considered greatly insulting when
uttered in the presence of gathered male and female relatives. Lying down
(without excuse of illness) in the presence of generational siblings was a
shame. In
the old Ifugao society, violations of the incest taboo were punishable by
decapitation executed by any male member of the family. It was a disgrace not to
punish, resulting in divine punishment by the spirits of procreation. Death
is no longer imposed as a punishment today, but the taboo breaker is believed to
turn impotent, sexually or economically. Death of all children or other bad luck
can be a consequence. (From reports of the Cordillera Task Force on Violence
against Women) But
the Cordillera region has fallen prey to modern decadence that has given rise to
sexual crimes. The advent of cable television in the interior provinces has
perverted the values of young and old alike, especially because the trashier and
cheaper films find a more vulnerable market in these poorer areas. Like
elsewhere in the country, mothers here are away earning dollars to alleviate
their poverty in the countryside. Statistics
of drunken fathers creeping into their daughters' beds in the absence of their
wives are on the rise. In 1998, a report from the Women's Police Desk of Baguio
City stated that eight out of ten cases of incest rape and child molestation
happen in families where the mother is an OCW. In
Baguio City, one-room dwellings, occupied by urban poor migrants from the
highland provinces, were found to be conducive atmospheres for incest. Often,
the traditions of these old tribes have been disdained as primitive and violent.
But there must be an irony there, if only because women then walked at night
with no fear of danger lurking in the dark. --
CyberDyaryo March
2001
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