Definitions or Hypocrisy
In the Land of the Sensual Un-Inhibiteds

Swingers VS Polyamory
"We'd been emailing back and
Forth for a month or so... at least
Once a week... sometimes more"

"No... these weren't manuscripts
Or anything... we're both pretty
Busy people... You know... the
Typical 5-10 sentences stuff..."

"They sent a photo... I found them
Attractive... they said the same
About Mine"

"Of course I said something about it...
We've been living in a committed
Relationship for years... a Poly one
We believe in open... forthright...
Candid
non-monogamy"

"So we arranged to meet in person
Had coffee... talked for several
Hours about life... ourselves... that
Neither of us wanted an exclusive
Pairing... had a very nice time"

"A week or so later... we met again
For dinner... drinks... dancing
Later we made love for hours
During the evening

When I got home... my Other was just
Getting in from a night with
their friend
Before we even showered... we shared
Stories... we made love ourselves
I could smell their friend's love scent

We were both thankful that we were no
Longer locked into a sensually stifling
Exclusive pairing arrangement"

"Oh... I hope things work out OK
I want to introduce them to my Other
Maybe invite them to the house...
I hope the two get along well"

"Well yes... over the last year or so
I've had several new Intimate friends...
Yes… I still see one of them every once
In a while... but we do write and talk at
Least every week or so... No... for one
Reason or another... the others didn't
Work out very well... but that's the story
Of life... right?"

"Oh no... we don't hang out with them
They're
Swingers... no emotional
Interests in people they're making love
To... but I do have coffee occasionally
They're fun company...we've talked
About their monthly parties..."

"They said at the last party... they had
Met someone who's very nice... danced
Several times... said they talked for
Several hours on and off between love
Making sessions with other folks they
Been meeting with for several years..."

"They call it 'Playing'... can you
Imagine... talking with someone
That you find attractive... with
The scent of someone else's
Secretions and sweat still on
I don't know how they do it...
But hey... ain't my business"

"Oh I don't know... I think some
Only play as couples... others
Individually... I guess it depends
On the people and whatever
They've decided among
Themselves"

"No... I think they also meet
Between parties... usually over
At someone's house... drinks
Barbecue... love making... just
A regular type party... no... 
Not an
open house...
Just the ones they like to hang
Out with"

"They said the next time they
Meet with the new attractive
One... they're going to screw
Their brains out - Can you
Imagine... after knowing them
For just a few hours time"

"I just don't understand those
Folks... we could never live like
That... but hey... it takes all
Kinds... I suppose


        Poly VS Swinging

     
What's the Real Elapsed
      Communications Time
      to Body-part touching?