My year with Up With People


I will try to explain just a little bit of what I did during 1996
when I was traveling with Up With People. First of all in this page 
there's a brief and 'personal' explanation of what Up with People is 
all about.

Up With People, Dan's version The tour Hostfamilies What we did as Community Service Guestspeakers Advance Work Interview skills

Up With People

is an international education program that was founded in California 1965. It's a non-profit and independent and has no political or religious affiliations. It has three major elements (among many others!): Community service, living in hostfamilies, and the show. The organisation has its headquarter in Denver/ Colorado. The purpose of UWP is to build understanding among nations and people in the world throughout these elements.If you want to know more about that go here!

The tour

I flew to Denver the 10th of January where we trained the show for six weeks. We hit the road the 22nd of Feb with the UWP-buses.We passed Utah, Arizona ( with the amazing Grand Canyon!) and Nevada before we came to California where we toured for one month.Then we took the road along the west coast up through California, Oregon and Washington state to take the ferry up to Southeast Alaska! Where the cast spent four weeks. Three of Canadas provinses were visited by us :Yukon, British Columbia and Alberta. We had a three weeks break in July before we toured Canada for yet another month. We continued with the buses down to Oregon through Idaho, Wyoming, South and North Dakota, Minnesota, Illinois and ended up in Wisconsin before we took a 747 to Germany for one month. After the month long tour there we splitted the cast so half of us went to Hawaii and the other half flew to Japan. (I went to Japan for 23 days!) We ended the year with two and a half weeks in California. Our last city was Palm Springs, CA.

Hostfamilies

I had 67 different HOSTFAMILIES (HF) during the year. That means I stayed in each and every hostfamily in average 3 - 4 days. From the beginning of the year I had the show as a priority but after a while the other aspects of the program became much more interesting, like the HF. When else will you get the chance to live in such different families like the mother living alone with her three kids in Red Deer, Alberta, or in Alaska with the mormon family that has 11 kids (12 now,Congratulations!) who doesn't have enough room for yet another two guys but make it happen anyway 'cause they just use their sailboat in their garden to let us sleep in! or in an apartment in Germany with an alumni from UWP who wants to give back something of what he experienced in his year. The fact that there were a lot of the HF that never had invited a stranger in their house before and still showed a great deal of hospitality that seems to be wider than I ever thought, helped me to bring back the feeling that there's still hope for the humanity! (Wasn't THAT beautiful?!) At the same time it was really important to remember to behave properly, because you were very often the one and only representative from your country, and the way you acted affected the view they would have for ever, of your country and the people who lives there... I've lived in families with different religions and races like Bahai, mormons, catholics, and baptists and of course with people who didn't believe in anything. Sometimes you maybe didn't feel really comfortable in your HF, but as long as there were no danger for your own life you just had to deal with it for a couple of days, and hope that you might have learned something from the fact that you went through something you probably wouldn't have done if you never traveled with UWP.

What we did as Community Service

Some examples of what we did as community service: Re-planted trees 
along a river, visited elderly in a nursing home, builded and painted houses, 
picked up garbage on a beach or went into schools and did culturpresentations 
about our own countries to try to eliminate their stereotyopes that the
students have. One of other activities we did in the classrooms was called 
"Take a stand" where we divided the classroom with a "line" and asked them 
questions like :"-If you found a wallet with $ 400 in it, would you turn 
it in to the police?" and then, without talking to their friends, decide 
what side - Yes or No - they would choose.No one could stand in the 
middle. With a ball thrown between the participants they could comment 
their choices. If you didn't have the ball you had to remain silent. Other 
questions were "would you marry someone from another culture?", "should  
there be a death penalty?". Many difficult questions with no "right or  
wrong" that gave everybody, including us from UWP, something to think    
about.

I remember some of the moments better than others, like the one in        
California when we entered a classroom that seemed to be more like a Zoo   
than a classrooom, with students between 15 and 16 years old that somewhere 
along the road had lost their faith in the grown up. From being really 
wild to slowly but steady begin to (after we had done everything           
from beg to threaten them to leave the classroom!) what we had to say,
they start to listen and think..... and bing! There's magic!! You could 
almost touch the electricity that flows between the students. For the    
first time in many years for a lot of the students, there is someone who 
actually takes them seriously and honestly WANT's to listen to what they   
have to say. I've sometimes heard that for some of the students it has   
been the first time ever they have spoken in the classroom. Then you get 
kind of... proud! I could say.                                            
                                                                       
It has also been interesting to hear some of the discussions and look at   
the facial expressions among the students when we did the wrap-up's
afterwards. Because very often some of them never thought they could have 
such different opinions or maybe to hear that they HAVE the same opinion 
without knowing that, even though they had spent three years together in 
the same classroom.                                                   

Guestspeakers

 We also had guestspeakers throughout the year. The first ones we had 
when we did the "Staging and Orientation in Denver. One of the speakers 
on the road was a young girl from Sacramento, CA who "broke up"
with here gang beacuse a rival gang had kept here family as a hostage for
a couple of hours. And since you NEVER leave your gang she and here family 
had to move when they started to threaten to hurt or kill here! She had
seen people get executed and tortured by gang members but she had never been 
forced to do anything like that since she was a girl... 
She is still today threatened on the phone by her former gangmembers. 

Two guys from  Kelowna, BC Canada really took us "down to earth" 
one day by telling their life stories. 
One of them was Quniton who has lived with the disease HIV for 8 years
now. He is 25 years old and are working as a "Condom Cop" now to try to 
spread information to as many as possible about this fatal disease!                            
The other guy was 7 yo Jared who is fighting the Hepatitis 'C', that is 
destroying his liver. He and his mom told us a lot about this dieseas 
(spelling?) and according to the doctors he only had about 6 months still 
to live... (In Decmber last year we got a happy message that he might be         
able to go through a liver transplantation. It wont save him eternaly but 
it will sure make him live a lot longer!) The hardest thing with these
kind of "lessons" was when we have to start to do something completely
different, right after beeing deeply touched by people's life stories, 
and then just take a deeeep breath and continue with other - what
you think then - less important things like rehearsal of the show...                                              




Advance Work


In order to prepare a city to host about 120 students from 20 
different countries, Up With People sends on before hand, out 
so called "Advance Teams" and they do things like finding beds 
for all of the students in different hostfamilies, find food - 
both lunch and dinner -  to the same amount of people for about 
two to three days, promote the show in "ten thousand" different 
ways, doing presentations in classrooms and to organisations, talk 
with the media and keep up the good relations with the local sponsor/s. 
That was what I and a girl (Tonya from  Alaska that was hired by
UWP, did in Fort St. John 

Something I really learned by doing all this stuff is that I'm able 
to do SO many more things than I ever thought was possible!! If I 
HAVE to do it I CAN do it!  I gave a speach about UWP for five minutes, 
for the first time in my life, in front of 40 men when they had their 
lunch meeting with the Rotary club. Then you have to consider the fact 
that the speach was in my second language... I've talked to about 300 
persons in the phone trying to convince them to be a hostfamily again or 
for the first time. Even though there were times you really wondered why         
you on the earth ever had put your feet in UWP at all, you knew that the         
group was coming to your town, no matter what! So with other words you 
just had to "get up again" and fight against yourself and the problems 
that occured.                                                          
                                                                      

Interview skills


In order to find new students for upcoming tours we interviewed people interested in going with a new cast. Those interviews where usually held after each and every show we performed. We were two students from the cast that spoke to one applicant for about 30-45 min (approximately!.) Even though we were short on time we had to be able to judge wether this person was suitable for a cast or not. Sometimes it was really easy when both of us students agreed upon a decision, and sometimes it was hard to let go of a judgement you had made... We had a form with specific questions that would help us to find out instanly if the person were interesting for UWP so we could tell him or her to fill out "section II", were the interviewed person had to answer yet another 4 general questions on here own. As the year went by, you started to develop a greater sense of what kind of person you were interviewing, so in the end of the year and for the rest of my life, I would say, I had/have a lead over other people when I have to "judge" people in a short matter of time. The interview were usually made in English, but both in Germany and Japan the applicants could interview in their own language. The skills you gain throughout interviewing other people are, as an example, a gift close to intuition when you rather fast can see if this person is honest or not. You learn to find the things that you are good at, instead of trying to think of the things you just CAN'T do... and so on! When talking to other people you ask questions differently. Instead of "going around" and try to find out what's wrong, you ask the "exact" questions immediately, and save a lot of time


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