An
historical documents of our ways before the War of Tears and the Turning.
As
a note. All of this was from before the War of Tears, and the Turning.
Personally, I believe it comes from the Deathless Empire, as rare as that
would be. Some or all of it may not apply. This is purely an
historical record, told from an Elven standpoint.
Elven
Music
Song
and dance play an important part in everyday elven life. They find that music
provides an outlet for their centuries of experience, pain, and joy. The elf
that does not have at least some experience with an instrument or some
proficiency in dancing is a rare being, and one might suspect that he or she
is somehow emotionally stunted.
Elven
music is an incredibly complex and beautifully crafted art, although it is not
often played around non-elves. Elves have learned that their tunes haunt
anyone who has an ear for music, for it leaves these people with a vague,
unsatisfied yearning that can never be filled with anything but elven music.
Those
who have been fortunate enough to hear elven music claim that humans learned
music from the elves. Although human music is but a poor imitation, the humans
continually strive toward the ultimate musical experience that the elves
provide. The best human and half-elf bards are those who have learned from elf
masters, yet even they can only echo the elves. This is the reason, some sages
surmise, that so many wonderful musicians remain dissatisfied with their work.
Elven
songs of grief are often acappella wordless melodies. Those listening to such
songs who are non-elves will find themselves in tears before the elves are
halfway through, for the anguish expressed in the lilting voices of the elves
transcends the human experience of heartfelt pain. Those who hear the elven
mourning rituals are never quite the same, returning to the present sadder and
somehow wiser. The sorrow that the songs express often haunts the listeners
for the rest of their lives.
Outlook
Their
lifespan gives elves a unique perspective on life than most other races can't
share. Elves don't worry about not experiencing enough in their lives; rather,
they look for the next new thing to excite their curiosity and enthusiasm.
This
lifespan also means that elves develop an attitude and a character that is
uniquely their own. No one can tell exactly how their years will affect each
individual elf. Typically, elves begin their lives as carefree, fun-loving
spirits. As they grow older, most of them become slightly more cautious, yet
still retain the warmth and vitality necessary for elves to fully enjoy their
lives.
Still,
some of them start life with a more serious attitude, believing (despite the
advice of their elders) that their time is too short to be spent frittering it
away on such foolishness as dancing and singing. As these elves grow older,
they often become obsessed with finding a meaning to everything, seeking the
fundamental truths of existence. Some few realize that their years are enough
for both truth and fun. Most, however, continue on in a somewhat joyless
existence, spending their years associating exclusively with sages and elder
beings. Eventually, they lock themselves away from true life. In seeking the
"truth," they lose the meaning and purpose of that which they value
most: their lives.
Most
elves, as has been noted, are more interested in living life fully. They can
begin several projects within the span of a year, such as writing songs,
creating works of art, learning swordplay, and so forth. They think nothing of
setting aside each project when something more interesting comes along. After
all, with centuries at one's disposal, taking a decade or two on a task is
nothing to worry about. If they lose interest in the product in the
intervening time, they can always ignite interest by reliving it through the
reverie.
Obviously,
elves see no need to hurry themselves through anything. If their short-lived
friends legitimately need something quickly, elves will rush to fill that
need. If left to their own devices, however, elves will take a much longer
time than might otherwise be appreciated by a human. Elf lives simply aren't
short enough to worry about haste. But elves are far from lazy. They are
almost constantly active during daytime, engaged in some project or another.
If they want to spend a day lying on a grassy hillside watching birds or just
relaxing, who complains?
Elves
do not regard material acquisitions as anything important, instead preferring
to cultivate music, art, and poetry that will outlive the years and the
treasured possessions of others. Elves do not therefore try to accumulate gold
or other treasures, except as a means to acquire the things that they truly
treasure. Even the greatest paintings eventually fall to the weathering
effects of time, becoming useless and valueless.
On
the other hand, elves love to gaze at works of beauty and true craftsmanship.
Oddly enough, elves are rather bad portrait artists. Perhaps because they try
so hard to capture the inner elf that they haven't mastered the human method
of painting, which combines the outer shell with inner beauty. As such, elves
have been known to locate masterpieces of human artists, take them to their
homes, and then use a secret technique to preserve them through the years.
Although this is not a perfect means of preserving these pieces, it does give
the art many more years of life.
Elves
have developed other magical methods of preserving such works but will not
share these with other races; the other races do not have a proper
appreciation for the intricacies of art, and thus the preservation would be
wasted on them. However, any of these races are free to journey to the elf
cities to gaze on the works elves have felt important enough to save from the
ravages of time.
Although
they place little importance on material possessions, elves do have a clearly
defined sense of ownership. Treasured items, such as magic or fine weaponry,
sculpture or favored instruments, are definitely the property of their owners.
Thievery of such items is highly frowned upon. Most elf thieves take their
skills to the cities of humans or to the underground, where they may be put to
use by adventuring parties. Elves caught stealing the treasures of other elves
are cast away for half a centurypreferably to learn proper loyalty to one's
race.
Items
that aren't important to their owners are usually freely loaned to other elves
or to their non-elf friends. As long as the item is available when the
original owner needs to use it, there is no problem. Most elves have learned
that bickering over small questions of ownership and property are one of the
surest ways to lose friends. They do their best to ignore the finer points of
ownership and to share the fruits of their labors with others (as well as
share the fruits of others' labors).
Individual
Worth
Elves
care very little for structured society, preferring instead to focus on the
needs of the individual. There is nothing so important to elves as the
feelings and the needs of the individual. This doesn't mean that one
individual's needs outweigh those of the rest of the elves. Instead, the
majority of elven society and law is geared so that the right of each elf is
to become as happy as he or she may need to be. Elves don't interfere in the
lives of other elves unless there are other elves who would be harmed by
inaction. All elves are believed capable of dealing with their own problems.
Although other elves may be curious about a certain elf's choices, they will
not intervene in the action. Free will is all-important to the elf mind.
Still, there are few atypical elves who are so purely selfish as to reap the
love and understanding of their fellows without returning any love. A typical
elf in an elf community puts the needs of others before his or hers,
recognizing that without these others, life means less.
While
elves are strongly individualistic creatures, they also have a strong sense of
duty toward their kindred. Just as the human ranger believes in furthering the
cause of his people even while avoiding most of them in the wilderness, so too
do elves. They know that all their fellows are essential for a balanced life,
and so they look out for their people as a whole as well as individually.
Rituals
Elves
have no end of festivals to lighten the weight of passing years. They create
many occasions to celebrate lifeso many, in fact, that other races have
sometimes concluded that elves do nothing but engage in revelry. Of course,
this isn't true, but they do have a disproportionate number of
celebrationsparticularly when compared to dwarves.
Although
elves prefer simple revels to structured rituals, there are times in their
lives when they feel the need for more formal, serious ceremonies. Typically,
the priests of the elven gods preside over such ceremonies. They are there to
fulfill the function of the ceremony and to instill the proper respect and
solemnity required for that ceremony.
Because
elves lead such long lives, the ceremonies each village and city celebrates
are equally unique. Although different, all are based on certain traditional
milestones in elven life and so retain an air of similarity.
Celebration
of Birth
Since
elf children are few (or at least far fewer than human children), the birth of
an elf is a cause of great celebration. Births are always times of great joy.
The village turns out in profusion, setting aside the day's work to celebrate
with the infant's parents.
Following
a two-year pregnancy, elf women are glad to celebrate the lightening of their
burden. They happily join in the festivities honoring their newborn. Such
celebrations typically last several days and conclude with the naming of the
infant. Children are given a private name by their parents and then given a
public name. The secret name is known only to the elf, his or her parents, and
the priest presiding over the ceremony. While knowing the name gives no power
over an elf, it is a sign of love and respect when an elf reveals his or her
true name.
Gifts
and wishes are often bestowed upon an elf child at birth by family and close
friends of the parents. Such presents usually have a lasting impression on the
elf, for favors given to an infant are far from ordinary. One child was given
the ability to speak to dragons; she later used this gift to great advantage
when she averted a war between her village and a nest of green dragons living
nearby. Another child was gifted with always knowing when someone lied to him.
Passage
to Adulthood
Rites
of adulthood are common in many cultures, and that of the elves is no
exception. When elves reach the age of 110, they are considered young adults,
with all the freedoms and responsibilities that entails. They no longer live
in the house of their parents, for it is time to make their own way in the
world.
Elf
families hold a ceremony to formally announce the young elf's passage into
adulthood. New adults are given giftsmost often adventuring gear if they are
so inclined. The older elves regale the family with tales of their pursuits,
and they wish luck upon those who follow their steps.
If
the new adult isn't inclined toward the adventuring life, they are given tools
of their chosen trade and a house of their own. From this point on, they make
their own way in life, working with other elves to make a life full of
happiness and joy.
Celebration
of Marriage
Marriage
is an occasion for great joy among elves, for the union symbolizes the
continuation of the elf race. Those who disrupt this ceremony to kill the
betrothed earn the wrath of the elves forevermore, and they will hunt such
marauders and their kin for eternity. Marriage is a rarer occurrence for elves
than the short-lived races, and there are few things so dangerous as to
profane the sanctity of this ritual. Sometimes weddings occur to seal treaties
and for other diplomatic purposes, but more often it is through love that
elves achieve a state of marriage.
Marriage
between elves lasts until one partner dies. Elves rarely take a new partner
after the death of a mate. Their vows bind more than honor; they bind the
spirit and heart of each to the other. By taking this step, many elves give up
some measure of their individualism. Often, only the most ardent and devout
lovers choose the path of marriage; others prefer a less formal arrangement.
The
marriage ceremony itself is typically formal (although it can be as informal
as the lovers like) and is presided over by elf priests of Braialla and
Saedron. The priests themselves serve no purpose at the ceremony other than as
witnesses, for it is the partners who perform the ritual and the binding vows.
In
a true elven marriage of love, vows tie the spirits of the loved ones
together, allowing them access to the other's inner self. This is a form of
the elven ability communion. Wedded elves become fully aware of their
partner's needs and emotions, allowing them to anticipate and fulfill these
needs. They are not aware of the other's exact thoughts.
Only
the gravest of tragedies and disloyalties can tear an elf couple apart.
Although they might have disagreements and even fights, they continue to love
each other.
But
elves can grow tired of a partner, even when they are joined spiritually and
have become more intimate than any non-elf could suspect. Elves reignite the
spark of passion and love through absence. For stretches of time, one partner
in an elven marriage will live apart; this allows both elves to gain time to
themselves so that they might grow as individuals. When the two rejoin, they
shower complete love and affection upon the other.
Elves
also tend to spend time away from their loved ones in order to make their time
together that much more precious. After all, there are fewer sure ways to grow
bored of a person than to spend hundreds of years with him or her. Time alone
allows them to think on the relationship and to experience new things to share
with their mates, thus keeping the marriage fresh and vital.
The
Blood Oath
Elves
are not always peaceful folk. If they or their friends have been grievously
insulted or injured, they swear the sacred oath of vendettaa ceremony carried
out in the darkest hour before dawn. When they swear this terrible promise,
they forsake all other pastimes to seek retribution. Elves understand this
oath and will release the avenging elf from his or her tasks.
The
avenging elves hunt down the offender to exact some form of vengeance, be it
merely a sincere apology for an insult or something more severe. Typically, a
time of service given to the injured elf is enough to satisfy this oath.
However, there are occasions when nothing less than death will satisfy the
demand of the blood oath.
Funereal
Ceremonies
The
ceremony surrounding each elf funeral varies even from village to village.
Some gather with great pomp to watch the body be interred in the ground, with
speakers expounding on the merits of the deceased. Others bury the body with
dispatch; they regard it as a mere husk from which the life force has
departed. After ridding the shell, they celebrate the spirit of the elf who
once resided there. Still other elves believe that burning is the only way to
truly rid the spirit of its earthly ties; not only does it free the spirit for
Arvanaith, it prevents anyone from using the body for nefarious purposes. Each
burial is typically related to the nature of the elf, so that the burial is
personalized and the point made that the spirit has left the body.