BDSM

Does that get your attention, kiddies?

It's Bleu filling in again for that lazy Hellish. I simply want to expand your mind. Show you something new. I suppose alot of you think it's just a kinky hobby. Or for people who like pain. It's alot more than that. Hopefully, I can explain that to you.

BDSM relationships are usually 24/7. They are very involved commited people. Most do not just let anyone tie them up and make them scream. It's requires deep trust and knowledge of your partner for the Dom as well as the sub.

For instance, a sub gives everything to the Master. Her control, her decisions, her heart and basically, her soul. She follows his instructions without doubt and always as he gave them to her. Or she risks punishment.
It sounds demeaning but from those in that i have talked to, it's very fulfilling to love someone that much.

The Dom on the other hand has alot of responsiblility. He must know his sub and her thresholds. Know when to stop and when to push. He must cherish her above all else for she is his possesion and you don't damage what is yours.

The couples I know and have met along the way are much happier and have less problems than vanilla couples. Their love for each other is obvisious. Of course, it's not for everyone but for these people, it works. Safe , sane, and consensual is a popular motto.

It's not all about pain, or humiliation either. Some couples never touch on those areas, while others deal heavily in it. Their relationships are tailored to each other just like anyone else's. Some vanilla couples do it  missionary style and would never attempt anything else. While others like a variety. Same goes here. Just with different issues.

Most Doms required to be called Sir or Master by their subs. It's a form of respect for the one who owns you, but some don't have them do it all the time. While others insist, on it even in public. It's not a power trip as much as a learning tool. Just like the ventures into pain are. They are showing their subs how far they can go and opening their eyes into feelings and joys they have never experienced. Some go far into this. Such as temporary piercings and canings which leave open sores if done long enough.  Others never go past a paddling with the hand or being made to kneel for a certain period.

If you wonder how one keeps their Master from hurting them too much or going past what they desire. They use safewords. It's a word known only by them and only used in an emergency. Some use more than one. Like yellow, for slow down or back off. Red for stop i don't like this. Some couples feel this is un-necessary and that a Dom should know his sub well enough to not have a safe word. While others believe it is essential.

Well, I don't know what else to say. I've studied this topic quite a bit and I haven't learned it all. The most surprising thing I've learned is the strong love these couples have for one another and for their friends. It's truly amazing and surprising.

If you have any questions, email me at karip24@hotmail.com but don't email me with hatred or insults please :) I'll have to come tie you up and whip you if you do.

Note: Vanilla : People outside the BDSM lifestyle.
PS. Brian don't email with insults so i'll beat you LOL