Today I opened the paper and what do I read? "MS could be sexually transmitted" according to Dr. Christopher Hawkes at the Institute of Neurology in London. I must admit that at the time of writing the evidence on which this assumption has been derived could be described as somewhat spurious, but nevertheless, it just goes to show that when you play with sex, you play with fire.
"But sex isn't dangerous, if you're careful!" I hear you cry. No, it isn't. But then neither is dynamite when used properly. Is it so hard to believe that sex is that powerful. If you look back through history sex has caused wars, toppled governments and has resulted in the agonising deaths of billions through sexually transmitted diseases. Sex, harmless. I don't think so.
But please don't let me put anyone off the idea of sex, without sex we would have no people and without people, we have nothing, just a Garden of Eden that could do with some weeding. But people should be trained in the art of sex. Just as our dynamite expert needs training and guidance in the safe handling of a very dangerous substance.
Now, if I have put you off sex for the time being you'll be wondering if there are any other ways that will provide as much fun as the average sexual assignation, i.e. full penetrative sex. Well, yes there is and this is the place to find details of just what it is that you need to give you the best sexual experience of your life without actually inserting anything anywhere.
Oral sex is one alternative to intercourse. Giving and receiving oral sex can be a very pleasurable and intimate experience. You can not get pregnant through oral sex, and it also reduces your chances of becoming infected with an STD. But oral sex can be risky. A number of STDs can be transmitted through oral sex. For example, many people have contracted the Herpes virus by performing oral sex on an infected partner. You can reduce the risk by using condoms when performing fellatio (oral sex on a man) and by using a dental dam or a condom cut in such a way that it covers the genital area (or anus) when performing cunnilingus (oral sex on a woman) or anilingus (licking of the anus). Okay, I know that there are those of you out there that are going to say that oral sex is a form of penetrative sex, but unless your partner is a part-time sword swallower or has a tongue that can conduct a smear test, I think we'll agree for the time being that oral sex comes well and truly in the non-penetrative area of sexual relations. Believe me, deep throat is not the be all and end all of oral sex. There is a great deal of pleasure to be had with gentle licking and kissing, you'll be amazed at the reactions a pair of lips and a tongue can create in the object of your desires.
Yes, I know that masturbation is for wankers, but when it comes to sexual stimulation, it takes some beating. ( Excuse the pun ) Manual stimulation to the point of orgasm can be both an intimate and enjoyable way of giving and receiving pleasure. Many women have depend on being masturbated by their partner, even during intercourse, if they want to reach an orgasm. It is also an excellent way of getting to know your partner's body. Indeed, many sex therapists recommend mutual masturbation to their clients as a way of learning what type of touch each partner finds to be the most pleasurable. Telling your partner how you like to be manually stimulated helps achieve close communcation and complete intimacy. Mutual masturbation can also reduce stress and performance anxiety. With a little guidance from one's partner, everyone can learn to do it well. This open, liberated form of sexual contact comes as an emotional relief to many couples and even increases and enlivens their sex lives. You can use your imagination to experiment with different techniques of manual stimulation. For example, partners can take turns masturbating each other or they can do it simultaneously. Best of all, mutual masturbation is very safe so you and your partner can relax and enjoy each other.
Body-to-body rubbing, can also be an attractive and satisfying sexual option which can lead to orgasm in one or both partners. There are many different ways that this can be done. Again, you will need to use your imagination and creativity to find out what type of body-to-body rubbing feels best. For example, a man can rub his penis on his partner's buttocks, stomach or breasts and a woman can "ride" her partner's thigh. Like mutual masturbation, body-to-body rubbing is one of the safest forms of sex possible, making it even more enticing.
Partners may also use body massage to arouse one another. Some parts of the body are more sensitive than others - these sensitive areas are known as erogenous zones. Many areas besides the genitals can be erotically sensitive to touch: the mouths, ears, buttocks, palms of the hands, fingers, abdomen, inner thighs, soles of feet, and toes, for example. These erogenous zones can be stimulated with hands, bodies or mouths.
The pleasures of mutual masturbation, massage and body-to-body rubbing can be greatly enhanced by introducing lotions, oils, and lubricants to your sex play (never combine oil-based lubricants with condoms!). For example, giving each other a complete body rub down by candle light, using a lubricant like Astroglide can be a highly erotic experience.
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