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[ Lily-of-the-Valley | Orchid | Rose | Tulip ] |
Certainly no
one will dispute that when we think of a wedding, we think of flowers.
Their scent and their color are an almost irreplaceable element of your
wedding decor. Whether you select simple arrangements and floral touches,
or you go all out, flowers will lend an air to your wedding that no other
decoration can quite match.
Many brides and grooms select their flowers based purely on color. Some also consider the type of flowers to set a mood. Roses create a far different feeling that wildflower combinations. Some make selections on the bride's favorite flower or because of budget constraints. There is no right or wrong when it comes to flowers, so long as the rules of good taste and common sense are followed. There may also be a bride and groom who take another point into consideration when making their floral selections. That is what has come to be the meaning of individual flowers, the language of flowers which has come down to us through history. The symbolic and legendary meanings of flowers dates back to the Elizabethan era, but it was the Victorians who actually assigned simple messages to individual flowers. Flower Language was Introduced to the Swedish court in 1714 by Charles II, and the Victorian mode of flower language spread quickly throughout Europe. This was a period where expressions of feeling were restricted by etiquette and conformity, so men and women came to use the beauty and color of flowers to express emotions which they could not express in other ways. Flowers became a vehicle for the expression of wishes and thoughts. Flower selection became a carefully thought about and planned activity, so that the appropriate sentiment, though or wish could be conveyed without being spoken. To enhance this Flower Language, presentation also became important and the clever gift-giver could add even more meaning in this way. An upside-down bouquets, for example. could be used to express the opposite meaning of the flowers. To receive an inverted rose was easily understood to mean rejection. Flower Language became so much a part of the social culture of the times that durch die Blume sprechen (speaking through flowers) actually became a Western proverb that meant any flowery or poetic expression hiding a secret message of love. Should you be one of those for whom the Language of Flowers still holds meaning, then the list below will help you to determine the message that your wedding flowers will convey to those "in the know." You may even choose to explain the meaning to your guests by way of a card placed at each table. Aster (also starworts) is Latin for "star," and refers to the flower's star-like shape. Wort means "root." The word root applied to plants with healing properties, an "industry now experience a resurgence in holistic medicine. There are more than 600 species of aster, the most popular of which is the Monte Casino. Asters are the flower of September, and were the herb of the goddess Venus. The ancients believed that, when burned, the fragrance of the leaves drove away serpents. Asters were placed on the graves of French soldiers to symbolize afterthought and the wish that things had turned out differently. One myth tells that asters were created from stardust when Virgo looked down from the heavens and wept. The poet Virgil believed that the altars of the gods were often adorned with asters. The asters symbolizes afterthought or variety, except in China, where they signify fidelity.
Calendula The calendula's genus name, wor calendae, means "throughout the months." Of the marigold family, calendula was valued historically for its medicinal and culinary uses. An ancient beverage made from a mixture of calendula blossoms in wine was believed to be an aid in curing indigestion. Calendula petals were commonly used in ointments that cured skin irritations, jaundice, sore eyes, and toothaches. The Romans used calendula mixed with vinegar to season their meat and salad dishes. Early Christians called calendula "Mary's Gold," and placed it by the statues of the Virgin Mary. The most sacred flower of ancient India, calendula stems and flower heads were strung into garlands and placed around the necks of holy statues. The calendula's flower head follows the sun, so it is sometimes called "summer's bride" or "husbandman's dial." In the language of flowers, the calendula flower symbolizes "winning grace." Daisies are often confused with chrysanthemums. The daisy continue to be associated with simplicity and modesty, characteristics carried down from the Victorian era. Heartbroken Victorian young women who wished to be loved once again by their suitors began a custom using the daisy, that is still in use today. In Victorian times is was a young maiden would pluck a daisy's petals one by one and sing, "He loves me, he loves me not," for each petal pulled. The last petal so plucked predicted the future of such love. Young girls might also pick a handful of daisies with eyes closed. The number of blossoms in hand told of the number of years remaining until marriage. Its simplicity has made the daisy a favorite of many poets. Its healing and predictive powers made it popular not only with farmers, but also with an infamous English king. Spring, medieval farmers would say, would not arrive until one could set a foot on twelve daisies. To dream of daisies in springtime or summer was a lucky omen, but dreams of them in fall or winter meant certain doom. Transplanting wild daisies to a cultivated garden was considered to be very unlucky. King Henry VIII ate dishes of daisies to relieve himself from his stomach-ulcer pain. For then, it was also believed that drinking crushed daisies steeped in wine, in small doses over a period of fifteen could cure insanity. The message that daisies bring are of innocence, purity, and gentleness on behalf of both the giver and the receiver. The daisy's message is, "You have as many virtues as this plant has petals," or, "I will consider your request." A white daisy symbolizes a common feeling of affection, and a red daisy tells of beauty unknown to the possessor. There are almost 25,000 different types of orchid. Greek women thought they could control the sex of their unborn children with orchid roots. They believed that if the father consumed large, new tubers, the child would be male and, if the mother ate small tubers, the child would be female. The orchid's reproductive behavior has been a basis for study for years amongst botanists for years. The orchid's peculiarity is that for its seed to germinate it needs to be penetrated by fungus threads. The paphiopedilum orchid was named for Phaphos, a temple on Cyprus where the love goddess Aphrodite was worshiped (and where prostitutes were said to be readily available.) The most famous orchid, the vanilla orchid, was said to give strength to the Aztecs, who drank vanilla mixed with chocolate. The color of the orchid delivers strong messages. It brings a universal message of love, beauty, wisdom, and thoughtfulness. In China it signifies refinement, and the innocence of children. A pink orchid signifies pure affection. The popular cattalya orchid symbolizes mature charm, which is why it's a "natural" for Mother's Day corsages.
The rose is infused with symbolism. It has always meant and continues to be the messenger of love. A single rose symbolizes perpetual love. Two roses of any color taped or wired together signify a commitment or forthcoming marriage. Red roses of any hue mean "I love you." Deep red roses imply unconscious beauty. White roses signify spiritual love and purity. Bridal white means happy love. Contemporarily, yellow roses signify joy and gladness where once they meant a decrease of love and infidelity. Coral roses imply desire. Orange roses convey the message "I am fascinated and enthusiastic." Lavender roses mean love at first sight, while light pink ones imply grace, gentility and admiration. Dark pink roses may be used to say "thank you," and, in general, pale-colored roses signify friendship. Legend tells of a Persian youth, named Ferhad, who fell in love with a young woman named Shirin. She did not reciprocate his feelings for her, so he went out into the desert to die, presumably from a broken heart. As his heart ached, his tears fell into the sand and turned into beautiful tulips. Amongst the Persians, the tulip is an offering a young man makes to his beloved. What he is saying in the Language of Flowers is "as the redness of this flower, I am on fire with love." Shortly after World War II, the Dutch shipped hundreds of thousands of tulip bulbs to Ottawa, the capital of Canada. This symbolic gesture showed their thanks to the Canadian soldiers for freeing Holland from German occupation, and also the way Canada's government welcomed Queen Maria to remain in Ottawa while the during the war. Color messages abound with tulips which primarily express a declaration of love in a gift from a lover. Variegated tulips are for "beautiful eyes." Red tulips indicate an irresistible love, and yellow tulips indicate hopeless love that has no chance of reconciliation. Tulips that are combined in color express other messages, Red and yellow roses together are an expression of congratulations, while yellow and orange roses together imply passionate thoughts. Red and white roses signify unity. |
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