ravings

today's chosen topic: opinions

why is it that whenever you choose to do something, anything you've always got to deal with other people's opinions? why can't every one just keep their mouth shut unless their asked? making decisions are hard enough. nothing's better then, once you've made one you have that temporarily feeling of resolution. like you can let that breath you've been holding in finally out. but that's only temporarily becuase there's always a period of speculation and opinions from your family, friends, co-workers, etc. when they find out about your decision. so here it is, you've made a chioce, maybe you don't feel 100% about it but at least you've made one. so you try to go on living in that chioce and here comes all the opinions of how you should have made the decision or even from the real bold people what the choice should've been. that gets you starting to think, "well hey they have a point maybe i didn't see that fact" and here you are back in the wondering state "did i make the wrong decision?" or even worse; feeeling horrible about something you've chosen to do when it didn't bother you all that much in the first place.
now i know everyone's yelling at their screen. "you have to have self confidence and believe in your abilities". but even the strongest person gets a twich when someone you love and respect take a swipe at you.

well now that i've let that breath out i can sleep. see you all at the water cooler.