Workshops, Worship Services and Sermons

           

Workshops

 

Sex and the Bible

This workshop was done in two venues.  First at the LGBT Center at Tufts University for a group of 25 students, and second at Safe Colleges, a GLBT conference.  Both groups were diverse in respect to religious affiliation, background and sexual orientation.  The goal of this workshop was to de-mystify the Bible and equip students to begin an open and honest discussion of the two topics, sex and the bible.

One of the biggest and most un-churchy topics is sex.  I have yet to read or hear of any resource that adequately creates a Christian sex-ethic.  This ethic must necessarily address a critical power analysis and the ways Christianity has been used to perpetuate a patriarchal bias against women and non-heterosexual individuals.

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Resources

Poster

 

Focus Group (Version One)

This first version of a focus group was done with young adults at First Church Somerville.  It was a huge success.  We gathered together at a young adult’s home.  We had food, shared in conversation and talked.  Eventually towards the end of the meal we shifted gears slightly to talk more explicitly about our own faith and our own feelings about the church.  The conversation was lively, filled with wonderfully touching and personal stories.  Everyone felt that the meeting was fruitful and helped to build us as a community.

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Focus Group (Version Two)

This second version of a focus group was used at the Board of Directors meeting of the Massachusetts Conference of the UCC.  This format requires a larger group of people for lively small group discussion.

Outline (at the end of the Board of Directors Meeting)

 

Sermon Talkback

This talkback was used at Pilgrim Church in Lexington.  It was used directly after a worship service on young adult ministry.  The talkback format was used in order to give people a chance to respond directly to the experience of the worship service.  The small groups ended up serving to dismantle a lively conversation, which was unfortunate.  However, the emphasis should remain on the sharing of personal stories and the relationship building of that sharing moment.

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Worship Services

 

Longest Night

This service was given on December 21, 2000, the Winter Solstice and the longest night of the year.  During the “happiness” and overly commercial nature of the Christmas season, this service is to provide a safe space to explore the pain and the unhappiness that many people (young and old adults and youth) experience during Advent.

A popular service among young adults is the Taizé worship community.  Using a similar spirit of silence, chants and community prayer, this service was a powerful prayer opportunity for many in the community.

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Sermon

 

Ash Wednesday

Though Protestant churches do not traditionally celebrate Ash Wednesday, First Church Somerville has a tradition of a very unique and wonderful worship service.  This service involves silence, individual prayer, and four stations that engage all the senses and ends with a short vespers service.  Credit for this service style must go to Rev. Kirk-Davidoff.  It was hoped that this service would provide a unique worship opportunity for young adults in the area.  Booking arrangements in a local theater prevented it from happening in a more central locale.  Future hopes of a similar service for specifically young adults continue; this service is a likely possibility.

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Board of Directors

The Board of Directors invited Rev. Kirk-Davidoff and myself to lead a Friday night worship service, and a workshop immediately following.  The worship service began with a highly traditional set-up.  Chairs placed in straight rows, to mimic rigid pews.  A cloth-covered table, with candles and large cross set up the altar as a very holy place.  And the music began in a very traditional nature.

After an opening quote and prayer, the tenor of the service began to shift.  The congregation was directed to the brightly colored cards placed on their chair.  On each card they were to right a trait, role, attribute, job, something that identified a piece of who they were.  And then they were invited to locate where in the room they placed that: All the way to the altar? In the congregation?  Or was it something they left behind, altogether?

The result was a power (and colorful) clustering of cards in the middle, in the front and at the back.  At the completion of the service, after a short homily and dramatic reading of the Parable of Feasts, we reassembled the Body of Christ.  Congregants were invited to bring all their cards to the front and a blessing was given over all the cards, symbolizing the unity that the community could achieve.

After the worship service concluded, the workshop began immediately.  This gave a chance for people to respond directly to the exercise of the cards, to the sermon, and to share their own personal stories.

Outline (Service and Workshop)

Sermon

 

Sermons

 

Longest Night

First Church Somerville (Young Adults version 1)

Board of Directors/Pilgrim (Young Adults version 2)

We are ALL God’s children!

 

 

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