I first came across this concept when searching the Asian discos for some good music.  A clubber in my younger days, I loved to search the clubs for the pertect band.  One of the clubs I came across was a fledgling club, which now has over 100,000 clients at any given time.  This club had one of the most talented bands I had ever heard.  It also had the most attractive and sensuous male customers I had ever seen.  Later I discovered that they were called Host Boys.  The club was an all girl club. 
     Normally, I would have walked out the door immediately if I had known it was an all girl club, but this one was different.   THere were men there whose only goal in life was to make women happy.   They were gorgeous and great conversationalists.  They were charming and understanding.  They were also, overpoweringly seductive.  yet, they never touched the clients, or so they say.
       These men were Host Boys.  Don't let the Boy part deceive you.   Their ages range from age 18 to age beyond 50.  All of them had one thing in common, they knew how to charm the ladies out of their very last dime.   Tehy fulfill the fantasies of millions of women each year.  Their price range can be anything from $50.00/hour to $20,000/hour. 

Where Do They Come From?

Some of these hosts are merely the after products of kids taken from their parents at a young age and released into society without educatons, jobs, and training skills.  Still Others are from reputable families and are gathering money for college.  They can be smart, intellectual, or innocent and pretty much like the guy you dated in high school.  romantic, personable, sexy, cute, handsome, charming, and always attentive, the host establishments always have someone for everyone. 

I was shocked to hear the hosts say tat they actually wanted to get married.  I was not too shocked to hear the most popular one say he did not like women.

What Types of Women Pay for Hosts?  

The appeal of these Host Boys stretches across all spectrums of society.  The women range from 18 to seniors.  Most of the women who shell out the 20,000 plus are usually successful business women in their mid to early 40's,  The biggest boom in clients are teenage girls who seek out their fantasy rock, movie, and celebrity look-a-likes.   They see these men as a dream come true. 

What Do They Get for all of this Money? 

Your guess is as good as mine.  I am too old skool to give my hard earned or unearned money to men.   However, those who do find utter fulfillment from these Hosts.   They are described as kind, sympathetic, remantic, affectionate, loving, among their descriptions.    My favorite is the one no owoman can resist.  They remember everything you tell them and show concern for your plight in life enough to ask you about it each time.   My chiropractor would make a great one of these. 

They hae personalities as diverse as a tornado in the path of a hurricane.  Some are like the boy nesxt door that you were afraid to speak to, or the star you always wanted to meet.  Myu favorite was the older one whose gray hair and bad smoking habit left me disquieted.  He had most of the women.  He reminded me of nearly everyguy I dated but refused to marry.   Hot tempered, rude, emotional, spoiled and overwhelmingly sexy, this guy stole my heart with nothing but the sound of my name on his lips.     That's when I ran.   I wouls like to tell you more about him but I know my weaknesses.   I wish these girls knew theirs.

These men never have sex with their clients (so they say), yet, the women still consider them their soulmates.  Every last penny that is left after and sometimes before bills, goes to their hosts.   Their every waking moments and free time are spent in the establishments which usually open around 6 PM.   The hosts have women paying high prices for alcohol, food, and other amenities of the house.  The women are estaticly happy to be near them. 

"KEEP YOUR MEAT" SYNDROME?

    

One of the hosts say they came back for the love.   Many of their clients are married or in a relationship that just does not meet their needs.  They have a fair to decent sex life, but that is all they seem to have at home.  They hosts give them what the marriage to the wrong or indifferent person can never give them.  Attentive and loving, affectionate and doting, the hosts make the women feel as though no one in the world matters but them.  The neglected maidens feel the need for this relationship so overpoweringly that many who fell on hard times, took up prostitution to pay the hosts for an hour of their time.  

     Whether it is a desirable establishment or a societal menace, remains to be seen.  I wont judge the ladies that go to these hosts, mainly because I don't believe they would give a darn one way or another what society thinks of them or their Host Boys.

It is estimated that would wide, Host establishnents are grossing well into the hundreds of billions.   Stioll, believe it or not, they are legitimate clubs.  

 

©2008.Gwendolyn Boyer