My Friends
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Friendship and Love: |
I love communication and the information and experience I get through this way. I think making friends is an art and keeping these friends is more important art. Being in love is the most complex art that I have experienced. I model the human as a system that consists of plenty different springs (each characteristic or personality) those oscillate by their own frequencies and on the other hand we want to increase the efficiency of the system of two people ( not one of them) by friendship or love. The art of friendship and love is closely related to these two facts. The art of love (or very good friendship) consists of three laws:
We cannot close so much to everyone. Every person have capacity of being close to us. So we should choose the one who can close to us to make one of the best harmonic relationship. In other approach to say this fact we should consider that two people should have so many springs with same frequencies to oscillate with each other well.
To being close to someone and making good efficient system you should change some of your characteristics. For example you should like something you haven't liked before or consider something that you haven't paid attention before but this method has limitation and this limitation is given under the third law.
(The main fact) Because of the fact that we consists of so different springs and each spring can oscillate well just with few among springs, so every person can be close just few among people ( Fact number one) and in the other hand he can't be very much close to anyone. It means that if I find one good one it doesn't mean we can be as close as we want, if we close more than one limitation the efficiency of system will decrease, so we should change our characteristic ( springs) as suitable as it is. After the limitation we just damage each other by destroying our springs
So for every relation we should find the point that we have maximum of efficiency.
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My Friends: |
I have good relation with so many people but just some of them can be called friend. Most of my close friends are my classmates in our department that I have so lovely friendship with them . Some others are my schoolmate in high school and the others my colleagues in IPM. I have so many net friends who are in large range of area and age( from Us in west up to Thailand in east, 16 years old up to 37 years old).
Where are all the good men dead... In the heart, or in the head.