Circe asked me to post this,
it was an email she sent to a few people:
I'm quite certain that you won't believe me, as it seems that you have
already, incorrectly, made up your mind about the issue, but I still felt
as if I should at least attempt to clarify a few things. I have been
coming to BA and Tralf now for almost a year, and never once have I seen
any one person mention your name, either in a positive reference or a negative
one, in Tralf. I do not know anything about these 'rumors' going around
about you, nor do I know who started them. All I know is that it was
never discussed publicly in Tralf. In fact, it is a rare event that
I have ever seen anyone from BA discussed in Tralf, and even rarer that when
something is said, it is negative.
The whole point of Tralf is to escape drama created in
BA from all sources, including the fundies, and sometimes the regs as well.
It is the reaction to Tralf from the regs in BA that strikes me as dramatic,
not the existence of the room itself. I mean, really, who cares if
a bunch of people leave and go to a private room? I fail to see how
that is drama. Wouldn't it be more dramatic to stay in BA and fight
with the regs and fundies? Why not just avoid it entirely?
And while the conspiracy theories of people going into
both rooms under different names are humorous, as far as I know, it is entirely
untrue. I have never seen anyone report on things from BA while in
Tralf, because the people in Tralf, including Sunshine, really don't care.
Believe it or not, the whole purpose of Tralf is not to undermine BA, or
the people who frequent BA. Honestly, BA is not important enough for
anyone to want to spend precious hours of their day undermining. It
is, after all, a chat room. Tralf is simply a room for people who enjoy
one another's company to spend time together, and to avoid the drama created
by people's insecurities and low self-esteem issues.
Like I said, I'm sure that none of this will change your
mind, but I did feel as if I had to at least attempt to set the record straight.
So, please, let all of us put an end to the drama, finger-pointing, and name
calling, and let's keep things in perspective -- it is only a chat room.
Circe