However, Reese concludes with, “Don’t let the slimy apologists for the
Slimy Bill
Clinton tell you there has never been a man in the White House who didn’t lie and cheat
both on his wife the American people.”
I wonder if the man understood exactly the point he made. Of 42 presidents, he could only
find one who was known to be virtuous, that would not lie or cheat on his wife.
Additionally, the man (Truman) left office in 1953, nearly a half-century ago.
So, why haven’t we heard all the gritty details of past presidents and, not to short
Congress, the many trysts of our law-makers? The answer to that is simple - to take a
leading politician’s private life and make it public had been, up to Clinton, a no-no even by the press thriving on scandal.
Also, since there has only been one virtuous example, maybe our norms concerning sex
dalliances is not the assumed one but is quite different. Have our norms changed? Is what
was once absolutely taboo (at least publicly) now the accepted, the norm?
In the early days of TV, men and women could not sleep in the same bed, had to be fully
clothed at all times, could not use the word ‘pregnant’ (as when Lucy was ‘in that way’ with Little Ricky, and a thousand other
inane restrictions on natural human behaviors and
occurrences.
Even the Sears Catalogue was a journey into near pornography if one dwelled on the
woman’s underwear section. Speaking of that, for example, women could not stand or sit
in pictorial ads with
their legs spread due to the sexual connotation of such a stance. Now, of course, it is a
much used position.
TV focuses on the sexuality of people. If you don’t believe it, watch any sitcom, nearly
every drama, commercials (including Victoria’s secret), dancing (now shows more skin
than some movies of old which were considered risqué, talk shows, late night shows such
as Letterman’s or Leno’s. Heck, watch the news.
In the fifties, the word ‘sex’ couldn’t be said in
public unless one was referring to an animal other than man. Even with animals, though,
we didn’t talk about animals having sex
as that was too ‘nasty’ and might bring forth images
of people engaging in intercourse.
Anyone who doesn’t agree with what was considered porn now being considered quite
normal by the majority of people must have their head buried. Women (not nearly all, of
course, just as with males), even use the same words that only sailors once used, such as
the ‘F’ word.
TV shows are filled with phrases that mean the same, such as ‘doing it’, ‘going down’
(both in the sense of intercourse and orally), and dozens of other examples all meaning the
same - whether a man or woman had intercourse or oral sex. Newscasts openly talk about
sexual behaviors.
Conclusions of research conducted, beginning with the Kinsey Report, have put adultery
and illicit sex as high as 75 percent for both sexes. Divorce has gone up and up reaching
epidemic proportions. Most often, divorce is based on one or both parties in a marriage
having had extra-marital affairs.
Very, very few like to admit having had sex outside of marriage when questioned by their
spouse or others in authority, let alone when a job is on the line. To lie, whether under
oath or not, is the norm, not the exception.
Now, this is not to defend Clinton in any way but exactly how did we get to where we are,
politically speaking, and exactly what has he done that is outside the norm as indicated by
acceptable behaviors by the majority of our population?
We got here simply because the media, with the Republican Party’s help, broke an age-old
taboo, that of removing sexual encounters of political leaders from the realm of
privacy.
And, I for one, hope it eventually backfires on them, that all politicians from now on must
behave within the boundaries set by any action already taken and any in the future against
President Clinton, that their private lives become an open book for all of us to read.
Then, their rhetoric and the rhetoric of other anti-Clintonites will be more than just rhetoric
designed to destroy an administration and get votes.