MAKE IT EASY Before you get off the bus, decide where you will meet if you get separated. In Makkah, choose an easy-to-find place in the Haram: a particular door, under a clock, by Safa or Marwa. In Arafat, identify a door of the mosque, a first-aid station, or something similar. Then if you do get lost, don’t hunt around for the others. Go to your meeting point and stay there! Use the buddy system: pair off. Each person in the group should have a partner. If this is your first Hajj, you should have an older person who’s seen it all before. You can lend your strength and benefit from the other’s experience. Stick together, no matter what. If you have children with you, assign each child one big person for the entire Hajj. Children should have identification pinned to their clothing. It's best to put small children on a leash or lead. People with medical problems (including drug allergies) should wear some kind of tag identifying the problem. Make sure are not carrying a camera, radio, cassette, or CD player when you go to mosques in Makkah and Madinah. You won't get in! ATTITUDE CHECK The Hajj is different from any other event on earth. Millions of people from dozens of countries and speaking dozens of languages converge on one tiny valley and become intimate neighbors. There are bound to be delays, misunderstandings, and unsuccessful arrangements. People are sure to forget things, get tired and confused, and make mistakes. Remember that: · The Hajj is a once-in-lifetime obligation to Allah, Who gave you the health and money to perform it. · All of the Hajjis are your brothers and sisters. · Any cross word, any selfish act may ruin your Hajj, Allah forbid. · Allah will reward you thousands of times over for any act of kindness, no matter how small. FINALLY Please, please pray for all your Muslim brothers and sisters, especially me! --Hayat Anne Osman (First published in the Saudi Gazette, March 1998) |
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