10. According to my observation, I've found that as far as the property issue is concerned, people generally say that it's due of the constant provocation of the wife that a man enters into the property dispute. I don't know if it's all true or not, but le'me try to find the reason in case it is true.
               Trying to see the situation in which the lady of the family is, I find that she adopts to the new family & its members after she gets married & comes to her husband's place. Now, her top priority becomes her husband . This is so because, from birth on she has been given the notion that she has to leave her parents & adopt a new family (her would-be life partner's). So, she's already prepared for this moment & tries to share maximum Love with her family while she's here cause she knows that one day she'll have to leave her people.
              Now, when she comes to her husband's family, her identity/recognizition is mainly due to her husband & he's the only one she can be completely frank with. So, she ties her dream/plans to that of his. And when she becomes a mother, along with the husband, her children also become her priority.
              Now to see the situation in which the man of the family is. He always stays with his own family only. The concept of adoption of his wife's family is not that strong for him as he's not expected to be that responsible for her family. So, though his priority also shifts to his wife, his responsibility is mainly to his family only.
              So, when the matter of property distribution comes, his keenness/interest is reduced by the thought that he'll have to argue with his very own family members. But the wife thinks that if her husband has the legal right to claim his share of the property, then why not they go ahead . Since any extra money will always be benifitial in the upbringing of their childeren. And so she constantly tries to make him understand her views.