Lesson 2 - How to Keep Your First Love
Homework: Turn in testimonies. Repeat memo verses.
Memorize: Rev. 2:5 , Deut 8:10-11, Mark 12:30, Psalms 51:12
(Question 1)
Intro. When you first got saved, the Spirit bore witness within you.
Romans 8:16 The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that
we are the children of God:
Remember the excitement you felt - the intense love for God, the intense
gratitude, the great hunger for spiritual things?
(Question 2)
Do you still feel that? Do you feel it as intensely? Do you feel it
as often?
Rev 2:2-5 I know thy works, and thy labour, and thy patience, and
how thou canst not bear them which are evil: and thou hast tried
them which say they are apostles, and are not, and hast found them
liars:
3 And hast borne, and hast patience, and for my name's sake hast
laboured, and hast not fainted.
4 Nevertheless I have [somewhat] against thee, because thou hast
left thy first love.
5 Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and
do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will
remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent.
(Question 3)
I. How do we lose our first love?
Is it a result of not working for God as we should?
You can work for God and still lose your first love.
Is it for lack of Bible study?
You can even read the Word and still lose it.
Is is a lack of prayer? Or from not witnessing?
No. Even these activities may not make you feel any
closer to God at times.
These reasons would seem sure and simple, but are not always foolproof.
To lose your first love is to lose your daily awareness of your need for God.
(Question 4)
Rev 3:17 Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods,
and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched,
and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked:
When our needs are met and things are going well, we tend to feel we
need nothing. Israel in the wilderness daily depended on God for guidance
and food. But when they got into the Promised Land and their needs
were met, they forgot God. And God had already warned them -
Deut 8:11-14 Beware that thou forget not the LORD thy God, in not
keeping his commandments, and his judgments, and his statutes, which
I command thee this day:
12 Lest when thou hast eaten and art full, and hast built goodly
houses, and dwelt therein;
13 And [when] thy herds and thy flocks multiply, and thy silver and
thy gold is multiplied, and all that thou hast is multiplied;
14 Then thine heart be lifted up, and thou forget the LORD thy God,
which brought thee forth out of the land of Egypt, from the house
of bondage;
Over and over God would send troubles to bring them back to Him, but
as soon as they got comfortable again, they strayed.The danger here
is not so much backsliding, but simply losing the enthusiasm of the
Christian life - the zeal for spiritual things. The danger is to
become too satisfied.
The more we are aware of our needs, the more intence our prayer. The
more aware we are of God's meeting those needs, the more genuine our
thanksgiving. But when we are secure and well taken care of, we begin
to lose our appreciation and fear of the Lord. We begin to lose our
fear of the Lord and start thinking we can go it alone.
Prov 30:8-9 Remove far from me vanity and lies: give me neither
poverty nor riches; feed me with food convenient for me:
9 Lest I be full, and deny thee, and say, Who is the LORD? or lest
I be poor, and steal, and take the name of my God in vain.
Paul had mastered this dilemma:
Phil 4:12-13 I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound:
every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and
to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.
13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.
The heart of the problem is that we fail to maintain our continual
dependence upon God - we become independent. We begin to depend upon
our own abilities, wisdom, strength, and resources.
It is often not until we come against a setback or difficulty that we
reach out in dependence upon God. That is idolatry; those things
become our God. i.e. If money meets our need, then money can easily
become the thing we look to for future deliverance and thus, becomes
our God as we depend upon it. We tend to build our lives around what
makes us secure. When something threatens our security, we experience
fear. That is a good signal that our dependence has transferred from
God to something or someone else. God sometimes has to remove things
from us in order to make us again realize our need for Him.
(Question 5)
List 5 things that are very important to you.
Have you committed each of these things to God? Could you live a
contented life without these things?
Twelve Evidences That I Have Left My First Love
1. When my delight in the Lord is no longer greater than my delight in
other things. (Mark 12:30)
2. When my soul does not long for times of rich fellowship in God’s
Word or prayer.(Mark 12:30)
3. When my thoughts during leisure moments do not reflect upon the
Lord. (Mark 12:30; Ps 10:4)
4. When I claim to be ‘only human’, and when I easily give in to things
I know displease the Lord. (Mark 12:30; John 15:10; 14:15)
5. When I do not willingly and cheerfully give to God’s work or the
needs of others. (1 John 3:17)
6. When I cease to treat every Christian as I would the Lord.
(Matt. 25:40; John 13:34)
7. When I view the commands of Christ as restrictions to my happiness
rather than expressions of His love. (John 14:21)
8. When I inwardly strive for the acclaim of this world rather than
the approval of the Lord. (1 John 2:15; John 15:19)
9. When I fail to make Christ or His words known because I fear
rejection. (John 15:20; Rom. 1:16)
10. When I refuse to give up an activity which I know is offending a
weaker brother. (Rom. 14:15)
11. When I become complacent to sinful conditions around me.
(Matt. 24:12)
12. When I am unable to forgive another for offending me.
(1 John 4:20)
III. Doing the "First Works".
1. Prayer
Petitions
Confession
Thanksgiving
Intercession
2. Bible Study
3. Giving
Tithes
Offerings
4. Fasting
5. Serving
Student Questions
Memorize Revelation 2:5, Deuteronomy 8:11, Mark 12:30, and Psalms 51:12
Do you remember when you first were saved? Read Romans 8:16.
Do you still feel the excitement of salvation? Do you feel it with the
same intensity? Do you feel it as often?
How do you think we lose our first love?
Do you have a daily awareness of the presence of God in your life?
When was the last time you felt His presence?
List five things that are very important to you. Have you committed
these things to God? Could you live a contented life without these
things?
List the 'Twelve evidences that I have left my "first love" ' as they
are given in class.
Evidence Scripture
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Doing The First Works:
1. Prayer
2. Bible Study
3. Giving
4. Fasting
5. Christian Service
Study Guide For "What The Bible Is All About"
by Henrietta Mears
Chapter 2 Understanding Genesis
1. What does Genesis mean? _______________________
2. What two phrases best describe Satan? _________________ &
_________________
3. Genesis is a book of ____________. List eight things that began
in Genesis.
_________________, _________________, _________________, _________________,
_________________, _________________, _________________, _________________.
4. Genesis is a history of man’s _______________, and from that point
on, the story of man’s ___________________.
5. The Hebrew, or Jewish race, began with what famous Bible character?
____________
6. What was the purpose of the founding of this nation.? _______________
7. Genesis answers what 6 great questions of the soul?
_______________________, ______________________, _______________________,
_______________________, ______________________, _______________________.
8. What three words give us a general outline of Genesis? _______,
________, _______
9. Name six prophetic types, or pictures we see of Jesus in the book
of Genesis.
_______________________, ______________________, _______________________,
_______________________, ______________________, _______________________.
10. Name the first covenant between God and man and tell what it
consisted of.
___________ - __________________________________________________________
11. How many parallels are there between the life of Joseph and the
life of Jesus? ______
12. Who wrote Genesis? _______________
13. How did God create the material universe? _________________________
14. God created man for what purpose? _______________________________
What problem developed to hinder that plan? ______________________
What must happen to restore that original plan? __________________
15. Adam and Eve were created in a state of ________, but with the
power of ________.
16. How did sin enter into the world? ________________________________
17. What three things resulted from sin’s entrance? __________________,
__________________________________, ___________________________________
18. Where do we find the first promise of redemption in the bible?
_________________
19. What was the purpose of sacrifices? ______________________________
20. What three ordinances existed before the Law? ________, __________,
_________
21. Why did judgment come upon man by the Flood? (Genesis 6:5-7)
______________________________________________________________________
22. What had happened to temptation since the days of Adam and Eve
and before the Flood? ___________________________________
23. Where do the events of Genesis take place? ______________________
24. What was the purpose behind the building of the Tower of Babel?
____________________________________________________________________
25. Where did the descendants of the sons of Noah settle when mankind
dispersed?
Shem - ______________, Ham - ________________, Japheth - ________________
26. For what three purposes did God want a chosen people? _______________.
______________________________, _____________________________________
27. Jacob’s name was changed to what? ____________
What did that name mean? ____________________
What was the occasion of changing his name? (ch. 32:22-32) ______________
28. Jacob’s family was transplanted to Egypt through what man? __________
29. In Jacob’s dying prophecy to his sons, who is named as the
descendant of the Messiah? _______________________