I'm reading more and dusting less.
I'm sitting in the yard and
admiring the view without
fussing about the weeds in the garden.
I'm spending more time
with my family and friends and less time
at work. Whenever
possible, life should be a pattern of
experiences to savor,
not to endure.
I'm trying to recognize
these moments now and cherish them. I'm
not "saving" anything;
we use our good china and crystal for
every special event
such as losing a pound, getting the sink
unstopped, or the first
Amaryllis blossom.
I wear my good blazer
to the market. My theory is if I look
prosperous, I can shell
out $28.49 for one small bag of groceries.
I'm not saving my good
perfume for special parties, but wearing
it for clerks in the
hardware store and tellers at the bank.
"Someday" and "one of
these days" are losing their grip on my
vocabulary. If
it's worth seeing or hearing or doing, I want to
see and hear and do
it now.
I'm not sure what my
friends would've done had they known that
they wouldn't be here
for the tomorrow that we all take for
granted. I think
they would have called family members and a few
close friends.
They might have called a few former friends to
apologize and mend fences
for past squabbles. I like to think
they would have gone
out for a Chinese dinner, or for whatever
their favorite food
was.
I'm guessing; I'll never
know. It's those little things left
undone that would make
me angry if I knew my hours were limited.
Angry because I hadn't
written certain letters that I intended to
write one of these days.
Angry and sorry that I didn't tell my
wife/husband and parents
often enough how much I truly love them.
I'm trying very hard
not to put off, hold back, or save anything
that would add laughter
and luster to our lives. And every
morning when I open
my eyes, I tell myself that it is special.
Every day, every minute,
every breath truly is a gift from God.
If you received this
it is because someone cares for you. If
you're too busy to take
the few minutes that it takes right now
to forward this, would
it be the first time you didn't do the
little thing that would
make a difference in your relationships?
I can tell you it certainly
won't be the last.
Take a few minutes to
send this to a few people you care about,
just to let them know
that you're thinking of them.
"People say true friends
must always hold hands, but true friends
don't need to hold hands
because they know the other hand will
always be there."
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