I mentioned before I enjoyed learning. Well to tell the truth it depends on what it is and how much I can get involved. I need to see it, hear it, and actually do it. I'm what you call a visual, auditory, and kinesthetic learner. Yes I am all three. If you really want me to retain information, I need to do all three. I like to see things from every which way and I happen to be a very curious person.
I'm also a very personable person. I would be classified as a ENFJ. I will give you a brief description of a person who fits under this category. They are responsive and responsible. They feel a genuine concern for others and how they feel - which is me. I try to give them what they need and want. I can be a leader and take control. I'm very sociable and love people. I care very much about the people I come in contact with, but it's rather difficult for me to share my feelings.
Not being able to share my feelings is one of my weaknesses. I think it's my most significant one in fact. On some issues though, I'm more willing to speak my mind and give my opinion. Usually those issues that are easy for me to talk about don't directly relate to me. They have to do with someone or something else. This can be a big drawback in the relationships I have with people. I'm getting better though. When there is something hard for me to say and I want to tell it to my boyfriend - I will let him know there is something I'm feeling that needs to be said. He will be patient with me and we work up to the words coming out of my mouth slowly - so I don't chicken out. So I've made some progress. I have a lot more weaknesses, but we'd be here all day.
One of my positive features is that I'm a good listener. I've learned this from my parents and it's really coming in handy in my life. It's very easy for me to open my heart and ears to someone. I usually have some advise afterwards or just a hug will do most times. The things I learn from listening to others I apply to my life. You can avoid problems in your life if you take the time to listen to other people and using your own advise. There are no major events in my life that I got my strengths and weaknesses from. It's been a steady process. My parents always keep helping me to discover and develop my strengths. The most recent person who has come into my life helps me a great deal with all of this; is my best friend who also happens to be my boyfriend. My family and friends also help me overcome my weaknesses.