A Tribute To My Mother

So much of what we learn of love we learn at home. I consider myself to come from a loving family. Not perfect, but loving. One of four children, all officially "adults", I believe if we were to colaborate we would say that we have been blessed with a loving, godly Mother. It is my honor this Mother's Day to pay tribute to her.

"Where we love is home, home that our feet my leave, but not our hearts."
Oliver Wendell Holmes

Shirley Conley, my Mother is a very special person. She is my Mother, but more importantly, she is my friend.

Dear Mom:
God may have chosen to make you my Mother...but I chose to make you my friend!
Love,
Melinda


"Your only treasures are those which you carry in your heart."
Demophilis

I am not sure when my Mom became one of my best friends...I guess that's not important. We have been through thick and thin together. In all honesty more THICK than THIN. We've laughed together, cried together, sometimes we've even laughed and cried together simultaneously. And together we have learned that:

"Our job is not to straighten each other out, but to help each other up."
Neva Coyle

My Mother works full time in a "salesperson" role. She has received "Salesperson Of The Year Awards". She has been named among her company's "Finiest." But I believe the greatest "rewards" have been those of making good friends, bringing joy to others, and making each person who crosses her path feel important.

"A good deed is never lost; she who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and she who plants kindness gathers love."
St. Basil

That's my Mother, always doing good deeds, sowing courtesy, and planting kindness. May she reap what she has sown~friendship and love.

"The highest love of all finds it's fulfillment not in what it keeps but in what it gives."
Father Andrews SDC

Several years ago I became ill with a very debilitating disease called Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy Syndrome. I was hospitalized more than home. I constantly pushed myself to the limits in physical therapy. My Mom, without fail, sent me some "little thing" each week. It always came on just the right day. Sometimes it brought laughter, at other times it brought tears. It always brought with it reminders of God's love and faithfulness. It always was an "infusion of strength." Words of life spoken in "due season" are like spiritual CPR. My "mom mail" kept me from throwing up my hands in despair. It always brought the message that I was not in this alone. Experiencing my Mother's love always pointed to an even greater love and faithfulness...the love of My Heavenly Father Who so lovingly speaks these Words to all who will recieve them:

"Can a woman forget her nursing child, and not have compassion on the son of her womb? Surely they may forget, Yet I will not forget you. See I have inscribed you in the palms of My hands; Your walls are continually before Me."
Isaiah 49:15-16

Mom, I want you to know how much I love you. You truly are a "heroine" to me!

Thank You Jana for the beautiful graphics! Diamonds and gold are a few of my Mother's favorite things!


©1999 Melinda Lancaster

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