Contents
It is well known that Islam -
and we should not forget that it is Allah who legislated it - did not base
its laws on experiments, like all other laws. Yet, we are sometimes obliged
to look at the rules, laws and customs of modern and even ancient peoples,
so that we may rationally judge the shari’ah of Islam. We have to
look at the felicity of the human races and then see whether other customs
and laws fulfill the requirements of humanity or not. In this way, we may
see the difference between Islamic and non-Islamic rules, and appreciate the
living and powerful spirit of Islam in comparison with others. That is why
we refer to the history of nations and societies, and describe what they
have to say on particular subject.
Accordingly, we should
discuss the ideas and ideals of Islam about the following.
- The identity of woman and the comparison of it with the identity of man.
- Her value and importance in society - so that we may know what influence she had and has in human life.
- Her rights and the laws made about her.
- The foundation of the above-mentioned laws.
But before we discuss the
above subjects from the Islamic point of view, it is necessary to look at
history and see what her life was like before the advent of Islam, and what
treatment has been accorded to her by non-Muslim nations - both civilized
and uncivilized - until now. It is not within the, scope of this book to go
into the detail of these subjects; but a short review will not be out of
place.
THE LIFE OF WOMAN IN UNCIVILIZED NATIONS
In uncivilized tribes and
nations - like the tribes of Africa, the aboriginal of Australia, the
inhabitants of the Pacific Ocean islands, the Red Indians of America, etc.,
a woman's life in comparison with a man's life was exactly like the life of
a domestic animal as compared with the life of a human being.
Because of the natural
instinct of exploitation, man believes that he has a right to possess cattle
and other domestic animals, and to use them as he wishes and in any work he
likes. He makes use of their hair, wool, meat, bones, blood, hides and milk;
they serve him as a guard and watch; they are exploited even for breeding
and procreating; their offspring and their profit serve the purpose of man;
they carry his burden, are used in agriculture and hunting and satisfy the
need of man in countless other ways.
These animals have no say at
all about their own necessities of life and their desires, like food and
drink, living space, their sexual urge, and the rest. It is only their owner
who provides them with these items according to his own wish. And he would
never wish but what is beneficial to himself through those animals. If we
were to look from the eyes of that animal at the arrangements made by man we
would surely be alternately amused and enraged at his high-handedness; we
would find an animal being persecuted without any fault, another one crying
for. help without anyone paying any heed to it, a third one oppressing
others without any hindrance; we would see one living a blissful and
enjoyable life without doing any work to deserve it, like the stallion or
the bull kept for breeding, which lives a most happy life according to its
own view; and would find others living a distressed and difficult life
without having committed any sin to deserve such a punishment, like a donkey
which carries loads heavier than itself and the horse in the mill.
Such animals do not have even
the right of life. The owner believes that it is he who has the right of
their lives. If someone kills a horse, he is not charged with the murder of
that horse, he is only accused of destroying the property of the owner. It
is because man thinks that the animal's existence is an appendage to his own
existence, its life is an offshoot of his own life; and that its status is
that of a hanger-on.
The position of a woman
vise-e-vis a man in these tribes and societies is exactly the same.
According to their belief, woman was created for man. She was her man's
appendage even in existence and life.
It was the father who owned
her so long as she was not married, and the husband assumed that right soon
after marriage.
The man could sell her, gift
her away or loan her to some other man for the purpose of cohabitation,
procreation, or service, etc. He could mate out to her any punishment he
decided upon, even the death penalty. He could abandon her, without caring
whether she would die. He could kill her to feed on her meat, especially in
feasts and during famine. All the properties and rights of the woman
belonged to the man; only he, and not she, could enter into dealings -
selling, buying, accepting, rejecting - on her behalf.
And the woman was duty-bound
to obey the man - her father or husband -- whether she liked it or not; she
was not expected to act independently even in her, let alone his affairs. It
was her duty to look after the house and the children and make sure that the
man's whims and desires were properly satisfied. When there was work to do,
she always got the hardest, like carrying heavy load on her back, digging
the earth, etc., and from vocations and handicrafts her share was the lowest
and the most worthless. Things got bad to such extent that in some tribes a
woman, after giving birth to a child, had to get up at once and engage
herself in household drudgery, while the man lay on her bed convalescing and
getting treatment for himself.
These were her rights and her
duties. Every tribe and society had its own special rules and
characteristics according to its habit and habitat; anyone interested should
study the books written on this subject.
WOMAN IN PRE-ISLAMIC CIVILIZATIONS
Now we come to those nations
who lived under traditional well-defiined customs which they had inherited
from their forefathers, and which were not based on any book or codified
law. Such were the people of ancient China, India, Egypt and Iran.
In all these civilizations
the woman had no independence or freedom, either in her intentions or her
actions; she was totally under the guardianship and mastership of man.
Neither could she decide on anything concerning herself, nor had she any
right to interfere in civilian affairs like the government, the judiciary,
etc.
It was her duty to
participate with man in all the responsibilities of life, like earning a
livelihood. In addition, it was her exclusive duty to look after domestic
affairs and the children. She had to obey her man in all his orders and
desires.
On the whole, a woman in
these societies was in a better position than her sisters in uncivilized
nations. She was not killed4 and her meat was not used in feasts. She was
not entirely deprived of the right to property; she owned to a certain
extent what she got from inheritance or marriage, though she could not
administer it independently. The man had the right to take, as many wives as
he desired, and to divorce whomever he wished. The husband could marry after
the death of his wife, but in most cases the widow had no such right; and
mostly she was forbidden to participate in society beyond her door-step.
Each of these civilizations
had some particular customs. The class system in Iranian society, gave women
of the upper class a right to participate in government and state and to
succeed to the throne. Also it recognized as valid a marriage with women
having close affinity, like the mother, daughter or sister.
In China, marriage was a sort
of servitude for woman. The husband almost purchased and owned her. She had
no right in inheritance and could not eat with men, not even with her own
sons. Polyandry was allowed; many men jointly married one woman, and shared
her among themselves, and the chiwas affiliated in most cases with the
strongest husband.
In India, she was completely
an appendage of the man. She was not allowed to remarry after the death of
her husband - she would be burnt alive with the body of the deceased
husband; otherwise she would live in disgrace. During her monthly period she
was treated as the dirtiest thing; even her clothes could not be touched by
others.
In short, the status of women
in these nations was something between a human being and an animal. She was
treated as a minor child under his guardianship; but unlike the child, she
was never thought fit to be free from the yoke of her man's
guardianship.
WOMAN IN SOME OTHER CIVILIZATIONS
There were some other nations
who lived under, and were governed by, a codified law or book, like the
Chaldeans, the Romans and the Greeks.
The Chaldeans and the
Assyrians followed Hammurabi's Code, which made the woman an appendage of
her husband; she was not independent in her decision or action. If the wife
disobeyed her husband in any way, or decided independently on anything, the
husband could turn her out of his home or could bring in another wife
degrading the offending wife to concubinage. If she made any mistake in
household management or exceeded the limits of the domestic budget, the
husband could lodge complaints before the judge and on being found guilty
she could be drowned in water.
The Romans were the first to
enact civil laws. The earliest laws were made four centuries before the
Christian era; and were gradually completed and perfected. The Roman law
gave some freedom to the woman in her own affairs. The master of the house,
that is, her husband and the father of her children, was vested as, a sort
of godhead; he was worshipped by the people of his household, as he, in his
return, worshipped his forefathers and ancestors. He had full authority and
decisive will in all that he desired and ordered concerning his family - he
could kill them, if he so wished, without anybody lifting a finger to
restrain him. The females of the family - wife, daughter and sister - were
in a worse condition than the male members, even than their own sons. The
women were not a part of society; their complaints were not heard, their
dealings were not recognized and they could not interfere in social affairs.
But the men, like brothers and sons, even the adopted ones (adoption and
affiliation of children to other than their real fathers was a common
practice in Roman society as well as in Greek, Iranian and Arabian) could be
granted independence in their affairs by the master of the house.
The females were not a part
of the household. The men were the members of the family, and the women were
their appendage. Any formal relationship, giving the right of inheritance,
etc., was reserved for between the males. The women had no formal
relationships - neither between themselves like mother with daughter, or
sister with sister, nor between themselves and the men like wife with
husband, mother with son, sister with brother or daughter with father. And
there was no mutual right of inheritance except where there was the formal
relationship. Of course, the natural relationship was not denied, and some
consequences of that half-hearted acceptance were the prohibition of
marriage between close relations in many societies, and the guardianship of
the master of the house over her women.
In short, woman, in their
eyes, was a parasite., completely dependent in her social and domestic life;
the rein of her life and her will was in the _hands of the master of the
household - her father if she was with him, or husband if she lived with
him, or others. The master could do with her whatever he wished, and decide
about her as he thought fit. He sold her, gifted her away, loaned her to
others for sexual enjoyment, gave her in repayment of debt, rent or taxes.
He punished her by beating and even killing her. He had the authority to
administer her property if she got hold of any through marriage or if she
earned it with the permission of her master; but not through inheritance be
cause she had no such right. Her father or other male relatives gave her in
marriage and her husband had the right to dissolve the marriage.
The custom of the Greeks in
the composition of the household and the mastership of the males was almost
identical with the Romans. Their social and domestic organization was made
up of the males; the females were their dependants. They had no independence
in their will or action except under the guardianship of men. But there was
a surprising contradiction in that system: if there was any decision to be
taken against the woman, she was treated as an independent person, and if
there was any judgment in her favor, she was a dependant of men - provided
such orders were of benefit to the men. Thus, the woman was punished for all
her faults and crimes as though she were independent, but she was never
rewarded for her good work except under guardianship of her man.
This shows that these legal
systems did not think that woman was a part of human society, not even a
weaker part dependent on others; instead, they treated her as a harmful
bacterium which disturbed society and damaged its health; but there was the
unavoidable reality that she was needed to continue the human race;
therefore it was necessary to look after her. Even then she should be
punished if she made a mistake or committed a crime; and her rewards should
be given to the man when she did a good work. She was not to be left to do
as she liked; otherwise, society would come to harm. In this she was like a
powerful enemy who has been defeated, caught and enslaved; he lives his long
life under duress; if he does any wrong he is punished, but if he does a
good deed he is not thanked.
As society, according to
their thinking, was made up of the men only, they believed that the progeny
in reality consisted of male children only, and the family could continue
only when there was a male child to carry it on. This belief was the basis
of the system of the adoption of sons. The house which had no male child was
thought to be ruined, and such a family was deemed extinct and dead. No
wonder then that they had to adopt others' sons as their own to save the
family from extinction. Such adopted sons were treated as legitimate,
legally recognized sons, having mutual rights of inheritance, and subject to
all the rules and customs concerning natural sons. When a man thought
himself to be sterile, he brought one of his relatives like a brother or a
brother's son to sleep with his wife, so that she could conceive by that
relative, and the son born thereof would be called his own son, and the
family would continue.
Marriage and divorce in
Greece was like the Roman system. They could marry more than one wife, but
only one of the wives would be officially recognized; others were
unofficial.
WOMAN IN ARABIA: THE ENVIRONMENT IN WHICH THE QUR'AN WAS REVEALED
The Arabs lived in the
Arabian peninsula, an infertile land with an extremely hot climate. Most of
them belonged to nomadic tribes far away from any civilization; they lived
on raid and plunder. Their neighbors were Iran on the one side, Rome (the
Byzantine Empire) on the other and Ethiopia and Sudan on the third.
As a result of this
geography, most of their customs and traditions were barbarous, and traces
could be found in them of some Roman and Iranian traditions, as well as some
Indian and ancient Egyptian customs.
The Arabs did not accord any
independence to the woman in her life; nor did she have any honour or
dignity except that of her family. She was not entitled to inheritance. A
man could marry as many wives as he desired; there was no restriction on
divorce. Daughters were buried alive. This wicked custom was started by Banu
Tamim when many of their daughters were made captive after a war against
Nu'mân ibn Mundhir. This disturbed them very much and they started burying
their daughters alive. Gradually the practice was adopted by other tribes.
When a daughter was born, the father thought it a disgrace and hid himself
from others' eyes. On the other hand, his joy knew no bounds when he gonews
that a son was born - the more the better, even if the son was an adopted
one. They gladly affiliated to themselves the son born as a result of their
adultery. Sometimes, when many people slept with one woman in one month and
a son was born, every one of them claimed him for himself and often than
not, this led to dispute and conflicts.
Even then, it was seen in
some families that their women had some freedom, and especially the
daughters were free in matrimonial affairs, their consent and choice was
respected and accepted. In this they were influenced by Iranian upper class
society.
Anyhow, their treatment of
women was a mixture of the civilized systems of Rome and Iran (not giving
them any independent rights, not allowing them to participate in public
affairs like government and war, except in exceptional cases) and the
barbarous systems of primitive nomads. The women were deprived of many human
rights, but not because the master of the house was a sacred person
deserving to be worshipped. It was simply a matter of the stronger party
subjugating and exploiting the weaker one.
So far as worship was
concerned, all of them (men and women both) worshipped idols, as was also
done by the as-Sabi, the worshippers of stars etc. Every tribe had its own
idol made according to its liking and preference. They also worshipped the
celestial bodies and the angels (whom they thought to be the daughters of
Allah!) and made idols representing them according to their own fancy. The
idols were made of various materials, often of stone and wood, though Banu
Hanifah are reported to have made their idol from flour. They worshipped it
for a long time, then came a time of famine, so they ate it. A poet says
about it.
The (tribe of) Hanifah
ate its lord, At the time of hardship and famine.
They did not fear their
lord, About (its) evil consequences and effect.
Sometimes they worshipped a
stone; then if a more beautiful stone came to hand, the first one was thrown
away and replaced by the second one. If nothing suitable was found, they
took a double handful of earth, brought a sheep or goat and milked it over
that mound of earth. Then they started going round it and worshipping it.
Such deprivation and misery
created in woman's mind a weakness which made her an easy prey to
superstition and credulity. Books of history and anthropology have recorded
how she fell into error whenever she tried to explain natural phenomena and
simple events.
This in short, was the
condition of woman in human society in various eras before the advent of
Islam. It may be seen from above that.
First: Men thought
that women were human beings, but on the level of dumb animals, or with very
weak and low grade human qualities, who could not be trusted if set free.
The first was the view of primitive people, and the second, of others.
Second: Society did
not accord her the status of a member; and she was not considered an
integral part of humanity. For primitives, she was one of the necessities of
life like a home and accommodation. For civilized people, she was a captive
and dependant on her masters who took advantage of her labor and always
remained alert lest she escaped or cheated.
Third: Both types of
societies deprived her of all common rights; she was given only that much
which was necessary for her exploitation by men.
Fourth: They treated
her as a strong person treats a weakling. In other words, the basis of their
dealings with her was exploitation. In addition, civilized nations believed
that she was a weak human being, incapable of independently looking after
herself, and who could not be trusted in any matter.
Different nations and tribes
had different ways, and sometimes customs and beliefs were mixed; also there
were variations in the degrees and grades of the above treatment.
WHAT ISLAM
BROUGHT FOR WOMAN
Woman had to undergo
patiently the above-mentioned treatment, which imprisoned her in the dungeon
of humiliation and disgrace. Consequently, weakness and inferiority became
her second nature; she was brought up in this environment and lived and died
in it. Ultimately, the word 'woman' became synonymous with 'weakness' and
'insignificance' - not only in the conversation of men but even in the
language of women themselves.
Look at any society,
primitive or civilized, and you will find adages and proverbs reflecting on
woman's feebleness and unimportance. Take any two or more languages of
different origins and unrelated developments, and you will find one thing in
common: allegories, metaphors and similes connected with the word 'woman' to
scold a coward, to rebuke a weakling and to chide a contemptible and
despised person. An Arab poet said.
I do not know (and would
that I knew), Whether the family of Hisn are people or women.
Such expressions may be seen
in hundreds and thousands in every language.
These idioms and expressions
were enough to show what human society believed about women, even if there
were nothing recorded in the books of history and culture, because the ideas
and ideals of a nation may clearly be gleaned from its language.
The only thing showing any
consideration and care towards her is found in a few sentences of the Torah
and in the admonition of Jesus to have mercy on her.
Then came Islam, the religion
of truth and monotheism, accompanied by the Qur’an. Islam originated and
initiated in her favour a system which the world had never known before,
from the early dawn of humanity. It set forth straight away against the
dictum of the whole world, and rebuilt, for her, her natural place, which
the world had completely destroyed, from the very beginning. It cancelled
and dismissed as baseless their belief about her identity and their practice
concerning her treatment.
HER IDENTITY: Islam declared
that woman is as much a human being as man is. Every person, male or female,
is a human being, whose substance and ingredients combinedly originate from
two human beings - one male and one female, and no one has any superiority
over the other except through piety. Allah says: 0 you people! Surely We
have created you of a male and a female, and made you nations and tribes
that you may recognize each other; surely the -most honorable of you with
Allah is one among you who guards (him/her self) most (against
evil); surely Allah is Knowing, Aware (49:13). Allah clearly says
that every human being' originates and is made from two human beings, a male
and a female, and they both jointly and in equal degree are the source of
his existence; and everyone, male or female, is a combination of the
substances taken from those two. Note that Allah did not say as the Arab
poet had said: "And surely the mothers of the people are but
receptacles". Nor did He say like another poet.
i Our sons are (those
who are) the sons of our sons; and as for our daughters, Their sons are
the sons of distant men.
Instead He (Allah) declared
that every one was created from both male and female. All were, therefore,
similar to each other. There could be no declaration more complete and more
appropriate. Finally, He declared that being a male or a female or being
born in a certain family or tribe is not the criterion of superiority.
Superiority originates only from piety.
Also, Allah has said: . . .
that I will not waste the work of a worker among you, whether male or
female, the one of you being from the other . . . (3:195).
Here it is clearly said that
endeavor is not repulsed and work is not wasted. And why? Because the one of
you is from the other. This verse in this way clearly says what was implied
in the words of the previous verse, "surely We have created you of a
male and a female": The man and the woman together are a single
species, without any difference in their origin and root. He goes on to say
that the work of anyone from these two groups is not wasted before Allah; it
will not be neglected, nor will its reward be given to another person; every
soul is mortgaged against its own endeavours. It is not as the people have
said, that women were responsible for their mistakes, but so far as their
good work was concerned, its reward should be given to the men.
Every male and every female
get what he or she does, and there is no superiority except of piety. The
virtues are a part of piety like faith with its various degrees, beneficial
knowledge, balanced wisdom, good character, patience and forbearance.
Therefore, a believing woman (in various stages of the faith), or a learned
and wise one, or one who is of noble character, will be superior in her own
right, and higher in grade than those men, whosoever, who are not equal to
her in these virtues. Because there is no superiority except of piety and
noble character.
There are other verses of the
same meaning, and rather more clear. Allah says.
Whoever does good, whether
male or female, and he is a believer, We will most certainly make him live a
happy life, and We will most certainly give them their reward for the best
of what they did ( 16:97).
. . . and whoever does
good, whether male or female and he is a believer, these shall enter the
garden in which they shall be given sustenance without measure (40:40).
And whoever does good
deeds, whether male or female and he is a believer, these shall enter the
garden, and they shall not be dealt with a lot unjustly (4:124).
And Allah has condemned their
disdain of the daughters in these words (and it is the most telling
condemnation).
And when a daughter is
announced to one of them his face becomes black and he is full of wrath. He
hides himself from the people because of the evil of that which is announced
to him. Should he keep it with disgrace or bury it (alive) in the
dust? Now surely evil is what they judge ( 16:58 - 59).
Obviously they hid themselves
because they thought that a daughter was a disgrace for the father. They
thought that she would soon reach marriageable age and would become a toy in
the hands of her husband who would use her for sexual enjoyment - a shameful
thing; and this shame would effect her family and her father; it was,
therefore, better to bury her alive. (The original reason of this custom has
already been described.) Allah severely condemned this practice in these
word. And when the buried alive shall be asked for what sin she was
killed (81: 8 -9).
There has remained a residue
of such superstitions among Muslims, a legacy of their pagan ancestors,
which has not been washed away from their hearts. You will see them thinking
that illicit sexual relations are a shame and disgrace for the woman (even
if she repents) but not for the man (even if he continues in that sin);
while Islam has declared that disgrace and evil belongs to the sin in which
the man and the woman were equal partners.
HER VALUE IN SOCIETY: Islam
has made the man and the woman equal in their will and action so far as the
management of their lives is concerned. Allah said: The one of you being
from the other (3:195). She is independent in her will and intention and
independent in her action. The woman owns the products of her own will and
action as the man owns his own without any difference whatsoever. For her
is the benefit of what she earns, and on her is the responsibility of what
she does.
According to Islam both are
equal; the Qur’an confirms it and Allah shows the truth to be the truth by
His words. Side by side, Islam recognizes two special qualities in her,' by
which the Creator has distinguished her from the man: First, she is like a
tilth for the creation and propagation of the human race. The species cannot
exist without her. This distinction calls for some special rules concerning
her life. Second, she has a comparatively delicate body and a sensitive
perception. This has a tangible effect on her life and on the social and
domestic responsibilities entrusted to her.
This is her value in human
society - and also the value of the man may be understood from it. These two
distinctions are the basis of all the rules that are common to both groups
and of those that are reserved for either of the two. Allah says: And do
not covet that by which Allah has made some of you excel others; men shall
have the benefit of what they earn and women shall have the benefit of what
they earn; and ask Allah of His grace; surely Allah knows all things (4:32).
It shows that the contribution made by each group to society is the
criterion of the excellence granted to it. And it is this excellence which
gives special status to one in comparison to the other. For example, man has
been given preference over woman in the share of inheritance; while woman
has been given preference over man by being exempted from the
responsibilities of maintenance. And no one should covet the preference
given to someone else.
There is another type of
excellence, which results from the deeds of the doer, whoever he or she
might be. For example, the virtues of faith, knowledge, reason, piety and
other admirable qualities. And it is the grace of Allah, He gives it. to
whomsoever He wishes, and ask Allah of His grace.
The proof of the above
statement is found in the words of Allah, following the above-mentioned
verse: Men are the maintainers of women . . . (3:34).
COMMON AND SPECIAL RULES:
Woman, like man, is subject
to all the rules concerning worship and social rights. She may act
independently in all matter in which man is free to act, like inheritance,
earning, dealings with other people, learning, teaching, making a claim,
defending her rights, and so on. In all such affairs, Islam makes no
discrimination between man and woman.
Of course, in other matters
it has limited her sphere of activity, because of her natural
characteristics. For example, she may not be made a ruler or a Qâ01, she is
exempted from participation in fighting, although she may attend the jihâd
and be en trusted with its other responsibilities, like nursing and
treating the wounded soldiers; and she gets half the share of man in
inheritance. She has to hide her body and the places of adornment; she has
to obey her husband so far as his conjugal rights are concerned. To
compensate these burdens, she is exempted from her own maintenance; it is
her father or husband who must maintain her, and they are also obliged to
protect her to their utmost ability, and she has the right to bring up her
children. Islam has also enjoined that her person and honour must be
protected - her name may not be used in an undignifiied manner. Also, she is
exempted from worship during her monthly period and after delivery. In
short, Islam says that in all conditions and in every way she should be
treated with tenderness and kindness.
What she is obliged to learn
and do, in brief, is as follows: On the side of learning, she must know the
fundamentals of the faith and the commandments of the shari'ah concerning
worship and civil rules. And on the side of action, she must follow the
rules of the religion and obey her husband by giving him his conjugal
rights.
But she is not obliged to
earn her livelihood by any employment, handicrafts or artisanship. Nor she
is obliged to take up the drudgery of domestic work. Similarly, it is not
her duty to burden herself with what is considered useful for the general
welfare of the society, like learning various disciplines (other than those
mentioned earlier) or participating in useful industries or handicrafts.
She is not obliged to do so.
But if she acquires such extra knowledge or looks after her domestic
arrangements or affairs useful for the society, it will be regarded as her
extra excellence, provided she keeps within the limits imposed upon her by
the shari'ah. It will be a matter of pride for her. Islam has
allowed, nay, encouraged her to boast of such achievements before her
compatriots, although it has forbidden the men to boast (except in jihâd).
The traditions of the Prophet
support what we have said. Space does not allow full details; otherwise, we
would have, liked to describe how the Prophet lived with his wife, Khadijah,
and his daughter, Fâtimah, as well as with his other wives; and how he
behaved with the women of his community and what he said and enjoined about
women. Also, we would have quoted the traditions narrated from the Imâms of
Ahlu '1-bayt and their women like Zaynab (d/o 'All), Fâtimah and
Sakinah (ds/o Uusayn) and others, and what they said about women. Perhaps we
will get a chance to quote some of them in the traditions connected with the
verses concerning woman.
THE FOUNDATION: The
foundation upon which these rules have been built is nature. It may be
understood from the explanation under the heading, "Her value in the
Society". Further, details are as follows.
The scholars of social
sciences will no doubt agree with the premise that the duties imposed by
society should be based upon natural abilities and demands. It is nature
which has led human beings to this collective social life from the earliest
dawn of humanity. Of course, a certain society may at times deviate from the
natural course. As the body, by deviating from its natural way, looses its
health and becomes sick, likewise, a society, by straying from natural
dictates, deteriorates into chaos.
Society, healthy or sick, is
thus based on nature; although a sick society has been contaminated by
extraneous and harmful elements during its progress.
This fact has been mentioned,
or alluded to, by scholars of social sciences. And the Book of Allah, long
before these researches, has explained it in the most excellent style: Our
Lord is He who gave everything its creation, then guided it (20:50); Who
created, then made complete, and Who made (things) according to a
measure, then guided (87:2 -3); And (1 swear by) the soul and Him Who
made it perfect, then He inspired it to understand what is wrong for it and
right for it (91:7-8).
These and other such verses
show that all things, including human beings, are guided to what they have
been created for; and that they have been equipped with what is needed to
reach their goal. The blissful life is that which conforms perfectly with
the dictates of nature. It has been pointed out in these words of Allah: 77zen
set your face uprightly for the (right) religion - the nature made by
Allah in which He has made men; there is no alteration (by anyone
else) in the creation of Allah; that is the established religion . . .
(30:30).
So far as social norms are
concerned, nature demands that all individuals should have equal rights and
duties. It does not approve of giving one more than his due and oppressing
another by depriving him of his rights. But this equality does not mean that
every individual should be offered every responsibility and every office. It
would be wrong, for example, for a young inexperienced man to be given the
place of a well-experienced official, oc for an idiot to be given the chair
of a professor; or to expect from a weakling the performance of a strong and
brave person. If we treat capable and incapable persons equally, it
will be harmful to both.
What is then the meaning of
this equality? It means that every person should be given his right and put
in his proper place. This equality between individuals and groups implies
that shall get his due rights without any let or hindrance; no right shall
be usurped or denied unjustly. The following words of Allah point to it.
and they have tights
similar to those upon them in a just manner, and for the men is (the
right) a degree above them . . .
This verse ordains equality
between the rights of both groups at the same time as it shows the
difference between both.
Both groups, men and women,
share equally in the basic gifts of thinking and will (which in their turn
create free choice). She should, therefore, be equally free in her thought
and will and should have free choice. In other words, she should be free to
look after her life's affairs - as well as social, except where there is any
genuine reason to the contrary. Islam gave her this freedom and independence
in full measure, as has been explained earlier. She, thus, became, by the
grace of Allah, an independent ~ personality, unfettered in her will and
action by men and their guardianship. She got what the world had denied her
throughout all her existence since the beginning of humanity and which was
unheard of in all her history. Allah says: There is no blame on You for
what they do for themselves in a proper manner (2:234).
But while sharing these basic
qualities with man, she differs i from him in other ways. An average woman
lags behind an average man in the build of her body and its basic organs,
like the brain, the heart, the veins, the nerves, her height and weight.
(The details may be seen in any book of anatomy.) As a result, her body is
comparatively soft and elegant, while a man's is tough and rough. And the
fine sentiments, like love, tender -heartedness, and inclination towards
beauty and adornment are more pronounced in her than in man. On the other
hand, the reasoning power is more prominent in man than in woman. The woman
lives a sentimental life; the man an intellectual one.
It was for this reason, that
Islam differentiated between men and women in those duties and
responsibilities which were related to reason and those related to
sentiment. Ruling, judging and fighting have been reserved for man, because
these things are closely related to reasoning and thinking. And the bringing
up of, and looking after, the children, the domestic management has been
reserved for woman. Her maintenance is the responsibility of her husband,
for which he is compensated by a double share in inheritance.
Look at the division of
inheritance in this way: It is as though inheritance is divided in two equal
shares. Then one-third of the woman's share is given to the man in lieu of
her maintenance. Thus the man gets two-thirds of the estate and the woman is
left with one-third. But the expenses of her maintenance are not less than
that of a man. In this way, she gets the benefit of the man's two-thirds
share in equal measure. (One-third's benefit goes to her while the man gets
the benefit of the remaining one third.) The net result is that the man gets
two-thirds in species while the woman gets two-thirds in benefit. Man has
been given more to manage, because reasoning is his predominant
characteristic; woman has been bestowed with more to benefit from and enjoy,
because feeling and sentiment is more pronounced in her nature. (This topic
will be explained under the verses of inheritance.) Then Allah completed His
grace and bounty to women by giving them the concessions and exemptions
mentioned earlier.
QUESTION: The above-mentioned
clemency granted in Islam to woman makes her idle. When she is told to hide
herself from strangers and is guaranteed all the necessities of life (by
transferring its burden onto man) she is bound to become slow, lazy, idle
and unproductive; she will not be able to exert herself in difficult works
and professions. Thus her growth will be retarded and her progress will turn
into backwardness; she will not be able to contribute meaningfully in making
society perfect. And experience is an irrefutable proof of this aspect.
REPLY: It is one thing to
ordain laws to improve the conditions of humanity; and a completely separate
thing to enforce these laws through exemplary character and good upbringing
(which leads humanity to progress). It was the tragedy of Islam in the past
that it did not get good rulers and striving guardians. Consequently, the
laws were suffocated, upbringing halted and then turned in the opposite
direction. Irrefutable experience shows that mere theories and beliefs do
not produce the desired result, unless, and until, they are ingrained in the
soul by exhortation and good training and example. The Muslims in their long
history could not take any good example to follow from their rulers, who
usurped full authority over them. Look at Mu'âwiyah speaking on the pulpit
of Iraq after taking over the caliphate: "I did not fight you to make
you pray or fast - this is your own affair. 1 fought you only to become your
ruler, and this 1 have now become." Also look at other caliphs from the
Umayyid and 'Abbâsid dynasties and other rulers after them. All of them
were of the same type. And had it not been that this religion gets its light
from the light of Allah which cannot be extinguished (and Allah is to
complete His light even if the unbelievers dislike it), judgment would have
been pronounced against the Muslims long ago.
THE FREEDOM OF WOMAN WESTERN CIVILIZATION
There is no doubt whatsoever
that Islam was the first to release woman from her bondage and to grant her
freedom of will and action. All the slogans of the emancipation of woman
raised in western countries are an echo of the clarion call of Islam. These
nations in this matter are just following the lead given by Islam - even
though they have made mistakes in this endeavour. The principle laid down by
Islam is a perfectly circular ring, and nothing can be added to, or
subtracted from, this circle without disturbing the whole alignment.
These people tried to improve
upon the masterpiece of Islam, and decided to create complete equality
between man and woman in all rights and privileges. This was done after long
agitations and demands. They did not pause to ponder that woman lags behind
man in many powers and faculties.
They explain away the
inherent weakness of the woman by attributing it to the defective training
and upbringing to which she has been subjected since time immemorial
(perhaps, since the beginning of humanity) even though she was equal to man
in all her natural potentials.
But it may be asked that if
the natural potentials of both groups were the same, why did society since
the dawn of humanity decide to oppress her? Why and how did man succeeded in
subjugating her in the first place? And why has this oppression never
changed its course? Western civilization, in spite of its keen desire to
emancipate woman, has not succeeded in doing so. The data collected show
that woman is far behind man in all those professions and activities which
Islam has reserved for man, like ruling, judging and military service.
And as to what has been the
fruit of this endeavour, the less said the better.
A DISCUSSION ABOUT MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE
Marriage is one of the
fundamental sociological institutions. Mankind, since its very beginning,
has been keeping to it without any disruption. Such an institution must have
been based on the foundation of nature itself.
Islam has based its
matrimonial laws on the correlation between masculinity and femininity.
There is no need to emphasize that this complementary system created in man
and woman - and it is the most intricate and interrelated system permeating
their whole bodies - was not created in vain and without purpose. The male
by his nature is attracted to the female and vice versa. And this system has
only one goal in sight: reproduction and the continuity of the race.
Marriage is based on this reality; and all its rules revolve around this
axis. That is why Islam in its matrimonial laws has kept in view the
fundamental principle of sexual interrelation; and on this principle are
based the laws concerning chastity and conjugal rights; exclusive attachment
of the wife to the husband and the rules of divorce and 'iddah; legitimacy
and parentage, the custody and upbringing of the children; inheritance and
other related subjects.
Modern non-Islamic laws have
laid the foundation of matrimony on a co-operation between husband and wife
in their struggle for life. Marriage accordingly, is a co-operative
institution much narrower than other such institutions like municipality
etc.
It is for this reason that
modern laws do not pay any attention to the rules of chastity etc., which
are an integral part of the matrimonial laws of Islam.
This basis, co-operation in
life, has given rise to a vast multitude of social problems and domestic
upheavals. Apart from that, ,1 it is not in conformity with the realities of
creation and nature.
Why does a man want to join
others and co-operate with them? It is because his well-being depends on
countless things and innumerable actions which he alone cannot get and do.
He is by necessity obliged to join hands with others. Consequently each
person co-operates with the others, dividing labor and work according to
their aptitudes. And all the required work is completed with their joint
effort.
This development requires
co-operation between any two persons - it does not specifically call for
co-operation between a man and a woman. Therefore, building the edifice of
matrimony is fundamentally wrong. Nature has based it on the need of procreation
and not on social or domestic co-operation. Otherwise, there would
not have been any need of any special laws for marriage; the general rules
governing association and co-operation would have been enough. It would
negate the virtue of chastity and fidelity, nullify the concept of
legitimacy and affinity, and abrogate the rules of inheritance - as
communism has done. If we accept this ultimate result of the western
philosophy of marriage, we would have to accept that all this complicated
and interrelated system in the bodies of man and woman was created without
any purpose.
This is a short review of the
Islamic and western philosophies of marriage. More explanation will be given
in some other relevant place.
So far as divorce is
concerned, it is a thing which the shari’ah of Islam should be
proud of. It has been made lawful and this legalization also is based on
nature. There is nothing in nature to interdict it. Details of the
conditions of its validity will be given in the chapter of
"Divorce" (chap. 55). Here it should be noted that today all the
nations of the world (not excepting the Roman Catholic countries) have had
to adopt this system in their civil codes, even though previously they
ridiculed Islam on this account.