Face the facts, your married. Marriage is psychological. It is a meeting of the minds and everything that contains it. Marriage is a friendship taken further! What are friendships? You guessed it relationships. Relationships aren't about always having a good time, always being happy or always agreeing and not having differences. It doesn't matter who says black and who says white. The point is, can you accept each others opinion? Can you try to understand where the other person is coming from? If not, are you even trying to understand? Even if the answers to the above questions are yes, it doesn't guarantee anything. If you were looking for a guarantee, find a perfect world to move to. This is real life, keyword being real...not imagined or pretended...actual.

When you and a friend or coworker have a disagreement do you run away and never talk to that person again? Do you find yourself with a new friend? Don't you also find out you have differences there too? Are you going to run away again? Why do it to someone you shared so much with, like your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife?

I have run into a few situations where I met some people and when they find out I just got married they say "Congratulations, I guess?" Could you tell those people have been burned badly at one time or another? Are they scared of sharing more than material things? They maintain friendships, why can't they maintain a deep relationship? Come on folks spell it with me
F - E - A - R ! What an acronym!

False
Expectations
Appearing
Real

We as humans start getting used to things and start expecting certain actions to take place. Life is full of surprises, and when you fall asleep it wakes you up. We could prepare all we want, but it doesn't guarantee us anything! Some say they're waiting for the right person. If you're too scared to get close, how will you know? Some people say they're not ready! Are we ready for anything?

I'm ready! Ready to live life! How about you?