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falling in love

        Love is not easily understood by most people unless they have experienced it. If you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn’t really matter who won r who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go ! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if his or her happiness means that you’re not part of it. Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn’t love you back, don’t be afraid to love someone else again , for you’ll never know unless you give at a try. You’ll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t hurt al the time. Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don’t find love, let love find you that’s why its called falling in love because you don’t force yourself to fall. You just fall. you cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to got on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress, It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves. On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get beckon the horse. But don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection< to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing !To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feeling is to expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. loving someone means giving her/him freedom to find his/her  way, whether it leads towards you or away from you.

Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only when you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart , fill you with desire and tear you apart, Only love can make you cry and only love knows wh6y, If you're not ready to cry, if you're  not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain then you're ready to fall in love. There was a time in our live when we became afraid to fall in love' coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured thats' why it's called falling in love.