the Ko-lar

   a girl ran across this story the other day, and it struck her, it struck deep to her core, so after much thought she went to the parties involved and requested to tell the story and use the logs, it may not at first glance seem like a big deal to one reading it, but a girl would ask that you read it and think about the actions of all of those involved. This did actually happen, the name of the slave has been changed in an effort to protect her as well as the name of the channel that originally ko-lared her.

*** Topic is 'Welcome to kajira^sanctuary {18+NKZ} a place of peace and love..a home of learning and understanding for those who seek the ways of Gor..The heart of the giver makes the gift dear and precious..  http://www.oocities.org/slavetiara/kajirasanctuary.html'
*** Set by tiara^^ on Mon Dec 27 00:06:15
<SamHoustn> greetings ishtara{MT}
<SamHoustn> Hello hejda ...
<tiara^^> greetings hejda sissy
<ishtara{MT}> greetings ahnix and hejda
<SamHoustn> smiles to slave{xyz}.. greetings lil one
* ahnix{A} slips to her knees and places slender palms to the floor touching her forehead and asks permission to enter
<SamHoustn> looks at ahnix{A}.. come girl
<SamHoustn> smiles to His slave.. and motions her to come
* ahnix{A} rises moving across the floor and kneels smiling at her sisters
<ahnix{A}>  this one thanks You Master SamHoustn
* hejda glances to her Master and moves quickly to His right kneeling before Him, emerald eyes lowered.
<ahnix{A}> greetings tiara^^
<SamHoustn> smiles to slave{xyz}.. I have heared of you from tiara^^.. do tell Me of your story girl..
<slave{xyz}> yes Master
* slave{xyz} taking a deep breath to calm a girls raggy nerves
<slave{xyz}> this girl came to gor 8 days ago wanting to learn but most places she ended up going to kicked her out saying she was not allowed to observe, Master (more)
<SamHoustn> listening
<slave{xyz}> this girl happened into One place the XYZ Gorean Channel under Master X , He told this girl the reason she was being tossed is cause she wore no collar and most places had little patience for one being new(more)
<slave{xyz}> within  say 5 to 10 min He offered this girl a collar she did accept it  hoping to learn,  the same day a few moments later He collared another girl personnaly,  then shortly after everyone left  and this girl was alone in the room(more)
*** ishtara{MT} is now known as ish{MT}afk
<slave{xyz}> for two days afterward this girl went back and the place was never there until today, Master (more)
<SamHoustn> listening,,and glances at ahnix{A}..
<slave{xyz}> this morning this girl went back  Master X and a Mistress  did help by sending some files for this girl to read and gave basic instruction  and had this girl attempt to serve(more)
<ahnix{A}> permission to leave
<SamHoustn> you may ahnix{A}
<ahnix{A}> thank You and be well Master SamHoustn
* ahnix{A} slips quietly from the room
*** ahnix{A} has left #kajira^sanctuary
<slave{xyz}> this girl attempted the serve  and was smiled at saying it was good but  Master didn't really speak to this girl He was busy with the Mistress and entering girls that well were tons way better than this girl is
<slave{xyz}> this girl then begged to leave
<SamHoustn> listening
*** ish{MT}afk is now known as ishtara{MT}
<SamHoustn> looks at slave{xyz}..
<slave{xyz}> Master, this girl wishs out of the collar, she thought she would learn but if the home that she is supposed to belong to is hardly ever there she doesn't see how she can Master.
<SamHoustn> slave{xyz}.. do you beg release of your collar?
<slave{xyz}> yes Master this girl would beg release of her collar.
<SamHoustn> you may beg release of your collar slave{xyz}..
* slave{xyz} shaky sunbronzed thighs lift her against a soft sway of ivory in slient approaching steps where she melts to tender knees at Master's feet descending herself till her left cheek caresses the ground and willowy arms extend forth with open pressed palms down against softly splayed fingers and sweet voice that pleads
<slave{xyz}> Master please this girl begs release from the collar she wears please?
* tiara^^ sends a reassuring smile to the girl
* SamHoustn pulls back His hood revealing both the small and fine sign of the Black Dagger He wears on His forehead, and a face betokening the brilliance of a mind like a Gorean blade. He folds back the black tunic revealing the squares of the Red and Yellow silk, His sandals are tied with a string of Gold.The leather strips that shield the blade of His spear are removed, The edges of the blade gleam, and the tuft of the feather is at the top of His shield.
<SamHoustn> come lil one to My left..
<slave{xyz}> yes Master
* slave{xyz} rocking back on a girls heels till she slides in a fluid grace to the left of Master
<SamHoustn>  reaches to His Black dagger, letting the edge of the dagger barely touch the soft skin of her neck..places the sharp blade between the ko-lar and her skin making sure its away from her skin so as to not cause any harm to her..with one swift pull from the Blade the ko-lar falls to His feet..
<SamHoustn> you are free from your collar slave{xyz}..you may change your name..and back to My left..
* slave{xyz} watchs through a girls lowered golden lashs as the band of steel breaks away and falls to the ground gently speaking with a bit of a shaken voice
<slave{xyz}> thank You Master
* tiara^^ watches quietly
<SamHoustn> awaits the girls return with her name..
* slave{xyz} gently sliding back to Master's feet with silken thighs modestly pressed while a girls soft hands lay down against the delicate crossing of her wrists and lift of her head against tumbling sable curls
*** slave{xyz} is now known as slave
<SamHoustn> smiles to slave.. and motions her to His feet
* slave gliding back to Master's feet milky pressed thighs modestly pressed while laying the flats of her palms down against the crossing of small wrists, lifting a girls head up in shimmering waves of spilled sable curls and soft candy carmel eyes lowered resting the long golden lashs agaisnt the curve of her cheeks
<SamHoustn>  lifts the girls chin slightly upward allowing her eyes to Meet His, looks into her eyes.. dear one you are free of your ko-lar, you may do as pleases you when it pleases you..
* slave soft carmel eyes lift for a breif moment shimmering in golden amber depths and gently speaking
<slave> this girl thanks You Master
*** Ty`Lor has joined #kajira^sanctuary
<SamHoustn> Hello Ty`Lor ...
<Ty`Lor> Tal
<ishtara{MT}> may this one be excused please
<tiara^^> greetings Master Ty`Lor
<SamHoustn> you may ishtara{MT}
<hejda> greetings Master Ty`Lor
<SamHoustn> Tal Ty`Lor
<SamHoustn> looks at her, if it is your desire to be with the most pleasing kajira, tia and belong to the kajiras^sanctuary and be protected By this Home and the Masters of this Home then you may beg the ko-lar of the sanctury.. if its your desire to be on your Own you may do so..be safe and serve well..if anyone trys to anger or question you, you have My blessing and the blessing of this Home to send them here or to Me to discuss whatever they wish concerning you.
<ishtara{MT}> thank You Master SamHoustn was a pleasure seeing You again..ish wishes it was under better circumstances though
<ishtara{MT}> a girl wishes You well Master SamHouston
<SamHoustn> smiles to ishtara{MT} be safe
<ishtara{MT}> a girl wishes You well Master Ty`Lor
<ishtara{MT}> a girl wishes her beautiful sisters well
*** ishtara{MT} has left #kajira^sanctuary
* slave unsure how to do this having never did it before but knowing here is where a girl will find what seeks to learn the desire to learn and be accepted just to learn and understand so she too can one day be found pleasing
* slave sliding herself to the cool ground with the ivory crest of her left cheek pressed extending slender toned arms forth while placing open palms down against sensously splayed fingers softly pleading
<slave> Master this girl begs please  to belong in the collar of the sanctuary where she can learn and grow please Master?
<SamHoustn> smiles to her ..I wish you safe journy and serve well..I am sure with your sister tiara^^ you will find the knowledge and the know how..after all tiara^^ is the MOST pleasing kajira Gor has to Offer.. looks at tiara^^ you may claim the girl as one of the girls that belong to this HOME.
* tiara^^ nods to him
<SamHoustn> looks at tiara^^..and awaits the ko-lar of the sanctuary..
* tiara^^ holds a beautiful oak box up to the Master lifting the lid.. inside lays a kolar of shimmering gold, upon it the letters {k^s}.. inside the engravings, Protected and Loved by those of the kajira^sanctuary.
<SamHoustn> looks down at the slave to His left.. positon of female submission lil one
<slave> yes Master
* slave nervously gliding back resting into her upturned heels with soft thighs pressed closed a girl begins lifting heavy trendils of sable up with the raising of her slender arms that cross at the wrist with a slight tilt of her head that exposes her neck
<SamHoustn> looks at the ko-lar and reaches into the box ..takes the ko-lar from the Box..admiring its beauty..indeed it reflects the beauty of this Home .. reaches down admiring the beauty of the slave at His feet..her lovely neck and the soft golden kolar that will be placed around her neck..He places the ko-lar around her neck and locks it.. congratulations slave, be safe and serve well dear one be proud of your Home and who you are. you are safe and protected.
*** slave is now known as slave{k^s}
<slave{k^s}> yes Master
<SamHoustn> reaches down admiring the beauty of the newly ko-lared slave.. strokes her cheeks and smiles to her.. welcome Home slave{k^s}
* slave{k^s} softly blushs under Master's stroked touch
<tiara^^> slave{k^s}, do you know how to change your whois
<slave{k^s}> thank You Master
<SamHoustn> you most welcome slave{k^s}..
<slave{k^s}> think so sister
* slave{k^s} smiles
* hejda smiles to slave{k^s}, congratulations sis
<tiara^^> then change it to read this, Protected and loved by those of kajira^sanctuary, trainer tiara^^
* SamHoustn SamHoustn pulls 12 shiny Gold Coins and tosses them towards tia and watches as they stop spinning and settle to the floor in front of her as12 Golden Carnations. Most pleasing indeed..
* tiara^^ smiles
* SamHoustn  smiles to all and walks across the room melting into the wall having His slave beside Him, and is gone "Abruptly his hand reapears next to slave{k^s}, holding a single Obsidian rose and drops it in front of her and vanishes. Serve well lil one.
*** SamHoustn has left #kajira^sanctuary

   what was done here was not done lightly or without thought, cutting a girls ko-lar off is EXTREMELY serious business, but imagine if you will a girl coming to Gor with a fire in her belly wishing to learn the ways of Gor and learn of herself, first she is tossed out of several channels, then given a ko-lar with no insruction, then the channel that ko-lared her disappears for days. There are several trends which seem to be happening with more and more frequency lately and it deeply concerns this girl :
  1. girls taking and dropping ko-lars like they are charms on a bracelet.
  2. girls taking ko-lars without fully understanding or respecting exactly what that ko-lar means for her.
  3. Channels/FreePersons passing out ko-lars like they were bubblegum.
  4. Channels/Freepersons putting ko-lars on girls without actually accepting ANY of the responsibility that goes with owning a girl.
     These are not the only issues, and yet combined they form a larger issue, what happened to the respect for the ko-lar?
     Cutting a ko-lar off a girl is EXTREMELY serious because putting a ko-lar on a girl is EXTREMELY serious. When One puts a ko-lar on a girl He DEMANDS of her, her heart, mind, body and soul, her perfect obedience to His every wish, whim and desire, that is not something given lightly, if You give a girl a ko-lar whether personal or channel, she is Yours, You are responsible for her every breath, it is You who decides whether she eats, sleeps, is clothed or not, You are responsible for her training and guidance, if You are not prepared to accept that RESPONSIBILITY, then don't ko-lar her, it's a commitment.
     The other side of this coin, is how a girl feels about her ko-lar, when you take a ko-lar, you are OWNED, you are property, at the mercy of the One who ko-lared you. PERIOD. Be sure you are comfortable and sure of the situation before offering yourself to a potential Owner whether it be Freeperson or Channel. «  After all Masters are easy enough to find, but one you can trust your body and emotions to, may require a bit of observation. »
     What does this mean? In a nutshell, it is in this girls humble opinion that both sets of people involved need to step back, FreePersons and slaves, stop and think about what you are doing when you offer a ko-lar, are You prepared to handle the responsibilites the go with owning another human being? Can You truly offer Your time, training and guidance? If you are slave think about what you are doing when you take a ko-lar. you should be proud of what and who you are, and the ko-lar that you wear.