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A Giving Heart

Copyright 2001 by Helene Barsky.

My sister Helene is a courageous, giving person. It is her dream to become a Rehabilitation Counselor, and it is one that I hope she realizes. The work will not be easy, but I'm sure it would be very rewarding. The following letter was one she composed as an application for a scholarship for the educational training necessary in this field. I think it says it all. -- Lorraine

I would like to become a Rehabilitation Counselor for a variety of reasons. First and foremost, I would like to help people as they come out of a mental illness or a difficult situation to find recovery as a way of life. I was in FEGS IPRT (The Federation and Employment and Guidance Service and the Intensive Psychiatric Rehabilitation Treatment) and I have a lot to offer people, both as a consumer and as a counselor who knows what they are talking about. Also, helping and teaching is an arena I would like to develop myself in.

My basic personality is that I like to help people. I want a job where I know I will be making a difference in someone’s life. I know how having an excellent counselor has both helped me when I needed it and impacted positively upon my life. I in turn, would like to be there as an example to someone else of what they can achieve with some assistance. I would like to be in a position to provide the resources, information, positive and supportive environment that makes a difference for someone struggling in their recovery to grow and learn in.

I have a great deal of experience that I bring to the Rehabilitation Counseling position. I know what the clients are going through and what it’s like to be in the system as a consumer. I can see, in my own life, how my counselors helped to bring me to a different and more positive self-view and understanding. My self-esteem has been upgraded and this has brought me much peace. My experiences of recognizing that I needed help, and then having the humility to accept the help that was offered has shaped me as well. I no longer need to be perfect. I can try my best, but leave the results out of my hands. I am slowly learning that I need to treat myself better, and that then I will feel better.

It is my understanding that one person can make a difference in another’s life. The counselors I encountered at the IPRT Program taught me a great deal. I too would like to be able to help someone else who is suffering. Positive thinking, information of services offered, and the ability to learn skills and essential knowledge of the Mental Health System such as the IPRT Program provides, has been central to my personal growth as well.

I have an uncanny ability to see the bright side of most things. Having a positive outlook has helped me a great deal. Being able to see the silver lining on a cloud has allowed me to grow and get beyond the label of being a consumer in the Mental Health System. There is still a lot of stigma towards people with mental illnesses. Knowing that one’s recovery has nothing to do with other’s opinions has helped me a great deal as well.


Last updated: September 7, 2001
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