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A Mother's Instinct

Note: This article originally appeared in the San Jose Mercury News on August 24, 2000.
Copyright 2000 by Lorraine Gabbert.

Rosie and SanjayRosie, a stunning, petite redhead with deep brown eyes, had a doctor's appointment at 10:15. She also had three-minute long contractions every five minutes. She and her tall, and darkly handsome husband Regi, and their three-year-old daughter, Milan, were racing along the freeway when Regi glanced her way to ask if they should keep their appointment or hurry to the hospital. He didn't see the huge steel ladder in the road, but he felt the thud as they ran over it. "I think we should go to the hospital," Rosie declared. "I think we have a flat tire," Regi replied. "I'm going to have the baby on this freeway!" she screamed.

Tensely gripping the steering wheel, Regi concentrated on maneuvering their Montero safely to the gravel-strewn freeway shoulder. He caught a glimpse in his rearview mirror of a CHP car pulling up behind them. When the officer approached the driver's side window, Regi exclaimed, "She's having a baby!" The officer took one look at Rosie and another at the flat tire, and immediately called for an ambulance. Regi grabbed the cell phone and dialed AAA. They assured him they'd send someone right away. "I better stay with Milan and the car," he told Rosie, "By the time you get to the hospital, I'll be there too."

A few minutes later, they could hear the wail of a fire truck's siren over the roar of passing freeway traffic. Milan grew excited as the flashing red lights came closer–she thinks fire trucks are "so cool." A strapping tall blonde fireman and a young ambulance guy gently lifted Rosie from the car, and laid her on the stretcher. When the woman driving the ambulance told her she had four children of her own, Rosie knew she was in good hands.

The emergency doors swung open, as they wheeled Rosie inside the hospital. "What's going on?" inquired the nurse behind the desk. "She's having a baby," the ambulance driver replied. "Then why is she on a stretcher?" the nurse queried. "She had a flat tire," answered the driver. "Oh," the nurse said, "You better take her upstairs."

At Labor and Delivery, the receptionist asked Rosie her name, but she was in so much pain she couldn't think. The ambulance driver quickly answered for her. The contractions were now three minutes long, and three minutes apart.

When Regi arrived with Milan in tow, Rosie was already hooked up to a number of machines. Regi couldn't believe his eyes. He was sure the contractions were only Braxton Hicks; the baby wasn't due for another three weeks. Astounded, he said, "It looks like we're staying! Are we staying?" "She's staying," the nurse said.

Rosie's friend, Ana, came for Milan. When Milan said goodbye, Rosie told her, "Baby Sanjay will come out to play with you; the next time you come, he'll be here." Milan had often said that Rosie's tummy was a door and that her belly button was the door knob, so Rosie told her that they were going to open the door for Sanjay. Milan was delighted. She couldn't wait to see what he looked like.

Twenty-four hours later, Rosie was still only two centimeters dilated. Her OBGYN broached the possibility of a C-Section. Dejected, Rosie's shoulders drooped. She had hoped for a normal delivery. But Rosie was a fighter and she wasn't about to give up. The Head Nurse suggested that it might help if Rosie got down on her knees and elbows and wagged her bottom. She did it for two hours. It didn't help. When the doctor said, "We're going for the C-Section," there was no hiding the resignation in Rosie's voice as she bravely said, "Let's go for it." She couldn't wait to see her baby and hold him in her arms. But when Sanjay came out, he turned purple and stopped breathing. She only got to see him for a second, and they took him away to ICU. Rosie started crying and praying to God that everything would be okay.

The next day, Rosie woke up with excruciating mental and physical pain. She begged the nurse to take her to see her baby. She was wheeled into ICU but when she saw Sanjay, it broke her heart. He looked so small and fragile. Her baby had oxygen tubes in his nose, an IV in his wrist, and pulse sensors on his chest, stomach, and toes. Her heart went out to her newborn baby and she ached to hold him. The doctor relented but cautioned her to hold Sanjay very carefully because of all the tubes hooked to his small body. Rosie's natural instincts took over and she stripped off her shirt--she didn't care who was looking. She held Sanjay against her skin and he started crying uncontrollably. She asked the doctor if she could feed Sanjay. Distracted by another case, he replied, "No, he's not breathing on his own yet." In the meantime, the baby had latched onto Rosie's breast and had begun nursing. Rosie was overjoyed. "He's nursing!," she cried out. Amazed, the doctor and nurses clustered around the mother and child. Sanjay was eagerly sucking away. Two hours later, Rosie returned and fed him again. This time, the doctor said, "He's doing excellently. He's breathing on his own. You might be able to take him home with you." Rosie beamed.

His mother's milk had made Sanjay strong. On Monday, Rosie and Sanjay triumphantly left the hospital.

Three weeks later, Sanjay is a healthy seven-pound baby boy. He has brown hair, brown eyes, and long eyelashes, just like his mother. Rosie whispers sweet nothings to him, while rocking him gently in her arms. This idyllic image contrasts sharply with the picture lying on the table beside her of Sanjay in ICU. "I thought we suffered with Milan's birth, and all she had was jaundice--this was so much more," she reflects. "Everything that could have gone wrong, went wrong, but it was a happy ending. My little boy is home."


Last updated: February 1, 2001
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