Learn to concern　  By Sandy Chuang

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 it's me.

 I am always trying my best to give all my passion and care
 to my neighbors and the one who I felt is worth to care.

 Let's not to pray or think to get anything in return.
 As this kind of giving is not an investment,
 but is an action which all by my individual feeling.
 You should be glad to have a chance
 to show your care to your neighbors.
 It's all because of the belief that

 "others' happiness sounds no diffidence as mine!"

 But how can I deal with the person
 who is always giving his best but it is in fact
 a pressure for me but not a harmony one?
 Very importantly,
 you MUST NOT act to be so annoying
 when getting along with him.
 Actually, the standard "showing all the care"
 needs a lot of courage and gut.
 As we all know that this can easily get failure.
 So,
 be the one to be cared and loved,
 you should necessarily
 have a patient to explain what you feel.
 Simultaneously,
 trying to invite him to voice out his attitude.
 Maybe it's in fact as simple as you can imagine.
 He is your friend,
 you MUST respect and concern about him.
 Also, rejecting his invitation as gentle as you can,
 even you need to think a lot of excuses to yourself.

 To sum up,
 when we are holding different stand points between neighbors,
 trying to put yourself into their shoes.
 If you still do not understand the will of your neighbors,
 never switch on your defence mechanism
 before clarifying the belief of others'.
 This can lead to an invisible wall built
 between you and your neighbors.
 Misunderstanding always occurs right now
 to split you two away.

 So,
 never to be so silly to lose the chance of understanding.
 You should actually treasure this kind of two-way concerning
 instead of not to know the truth.

 step a forward to learn more the inward.