Our Trip
November
27, 2001 - Day Ten: Mission Accomplished
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Paiges
Comments:
No
comments from Ann today as we are both wiped out, and she is coming
down with the flu. Everything is GREAT, but we're just exhausted.
But in a good way.
Sophia
slept NINE hours straight last night, and after the early wakeup
in Beijing, nothing could have been a better gift. She rolled over
a couple of times, made a mewing sound and then was out like a light.
We
got up this morning and had a buffet here at the Hilton. As a vegetarian,
Ann is massively relieved that Chinese cuisine fits her needs. Sophia
nibbled on eggs that I picked from my fried rice (fried rice; not
just for dinner anymore) and went nuts on orange juice. After breakfast,
we explored the hotel a little and Sophia crawled around the lobby
a bit. Last night, while Ann unpacked, I took her for a swing into
the lobby bar, and the lounge singer sang her "Twinkle Twinkle
Little Star." To say that she is a hit with the locals would
be an understatement. More on that later.
The
Hilton has a huge spa, fitness club and pool area. Ann was smart
and didn't tempt the Fates Of Flu further by going swimming, but
Sophia donned her little swimsuit and joined me for a paddle around
the large, circular, indoor pool. The kid is fearless. Now it's
cool. When she's 16, we'll have our hands full. She has jumped right
into this thing (the adoption and the change) with no qualms or
crying. The only two times she's cried at all have been when we've
wiped her nose. She has a cold, like all the other kids we saw in
the orphanage nursery.
John,
our local guide, met us after lunch at the hotel buffet. Sushi and
pastries. LOTS of pastries. I think the Chinese rival the Swiss
for the love of things covered in frosting. A photographer joined
us in the lobby and we all went back up to the room for our "official"
family photo, which is now a part of our Permanent Record. They
pulled the shades in our room, clothes-pinned a red cloth on it,
and the new version of the Rinke-nabers were snapped against that
background.
On
the drive to Changzhou yesterday I had commented to John about the
large ponds with rows of tiny floats in them. These are freshwater
pearl farms and after the pictures we headed over to a BEAUTIFUL
local park, that also harvests and sells fresh water pearls. Nanjing
is a fantastic city. And I'm not just saying that because my e-mails
are probably being screened. It's the capital of Jinjsu province
and has about six million people: a medium sized Chinese city. I
could live here. Seriously. Tree lined streets that remind me of
Georgetown. Also at the park, we hit their pearl store and the clerks
grabbed the kid away from us and almost cried when they had to give
her back.
Part
of adopting is making a donation or gift to the orphanage. For the
other kids who aren't fortunate enough to be adopted. So John (who
is the epitome of "lifesaver") took us to a "supermarket"
in the downtown section of town, to load up on warm clothes for
the kids.
This
place was literally three times the size of a Sams Club
and
two levels. There must have been 15,000 people in there. I kid you
not. And as Hammer would say, we turned that mother out.
I think
we've written about the general Chinese public's fascination/appreciation
for the Americans who come over to adopt, and the kids they bring
home. We'd seen that first hand when we saw that group of Italians
get swarmed in Beijing. Imagine Mick Jagger strolling through a
Sam Goody. He would not receive nearly the attention we did. At
one point, John, Ann, Sophia and I literally shut down one department
as a crowd four deep, gathered around us to see, touch and inspect
the baby. China has some very unusual policies about photography,
and our camera was taken away and "checked" at the main
door. Thus, no pictures of the melee.
To
say that Ann enjoys keeping a low-profile in life would be an understatement.
So what could I possibly do to torment her? How about taking John
over to another aisle and abandoning her to a mob of Chinese women
badgering her with questions. She'll get me back. It's just a matter
of time.
Most
of the questions, as translated by John, pertained to whether we
loved her and would take care of her, and also, and this is interesting,
how could someone abandon a child so beautiful? Seriously. But the
overwhelming sentiment is one of gratitude. People thanking us for
being so kind and loving. It was a massively weird, but gratifying
experience. The Chinese do harbor some suspicions of the U.S., which
many perceive to be "too proud". But on one thing they're
united; they love the fact that we are generous enough to travel
half way around the world to find homes for their beloved children.
While
we were waiting for the cab back to the Hilton, Sophia's bowels
finally kicked in. (Lots of #1's up to this point, but never the
deuce.) I've never changed a #2 before. And I have been kind of
scoffing at all of the warnings of dread that I've gotten. I mean,
we've had lambs living in our kitchen, so it would take a lot to
freak me out. I don't know what they were feeding her at the orphanage,
but my guess is that it was algae-based. I'd laughed at Ann for
packing all of our stuff in ziplock baggies. No longer. They're
going to be put to GOOD use.
Well,
that's it for the night. Sophia is miraculous. John, who handles
hundreds of adoptive couples a year, has marveled at her amazing
disposition and curiosity. Right now, Ann is sitting on the floor,
spoon feeding her apple sauce. Life is good.
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