My Sign: Aries
The sign of the Ram is graced by the element of
Fire, and if you were to use one word to describe Aries, it could easily be
heat. People born under this sign have a passion and red-hot energy, which often
proves irresistible. It's certainly never boring! Aries likes to initiate
relationships, and the role of seducer comes to them easily. This sizzling
romance dance will only work on those strong enough to stay in the game, because
Aries wants a partner who can go toe-to-toe with them, whether it's over lunch
or under the covers. Aries likes to get its way and often pits the wishes of
self against what is best for the partnership, which can lead to conflict. These
battles, though, are often foreplay, which can result in some sexy fireworks of
their own. The Ram is possessed of a great physicality, a sense of adventure, is
wildly flirtatious and loves to play.
Aries and Romance
Aries loves the hunt and will do whatever it takes to get the prize they want.
The question in their mind will often be whether it's a prize worth keeping.
Aries will take risks during the chase and would love the object of their
affections to do the same. That give-and-take can keep things more than
interesting and going for quite some time. There is no doubt that Aries is
seductive and will prove hard to resist. Sparks will fly in this competitive pas
de deux, and it's all the better where the Ram is concerned. A mental attraction
for impassioned Aries is often the first step and the indicator as to whether
things will progress. If things work their way down -- watch out! Once hooked,
Aries loves strokes and tender caresses and a lover who will tell them that they
are the best.
Aries in Relationships
The demanding and passionate Ram needs an equally self-possessed lover to
stimulate them and set them on fire. If not, what's the point? Aries can be
fiercely loyal, yet self-centered at the same time, so their partner needs to
exhibit confidence and a sense of when to give them the space they need. The
occasional bouts of temper exhibited by Aries are best dealt with if they are
used as a prelude to a deeper understanding and the sizzle that comes with
kissing and making up. Aries will stick with a relationship as long as it's hot
(and fireworks are key to this Fire Sign), but if things start to cool down, it
won't be long before they hit the road. The ideal Aries soul mate may be someone
who is never, ever dull.
Aries in Love
Aries is a moving target where love is concerned, always looking, seeking and
often finding. It can be very hard to resist the Ram's magnetic charms. The aura
surrounding those born under this sign is one of intensity and intrigue, so many
will be tempted to step up to the plate. This is exactly what Aries wants: many
opportunities to play the game of love. Some things will work, and some won't,
but the game is surely fun! The beauty of it all is that Aries flourishes in
love, becoming a more sensuous, understanding and feeling soul. As long as Aries
remembers how to share, and the beauty of an us, things can go far.
Aries and Sex
The Ram is more of a tiger where sex is concerned and, like many other sleek
animals, loves the hunt -- that steady pursuit of the ultimate prize. Aries is a
physical and fearless lover and is blessed with the stamina to go all night
long. They are not afraid to experiment sexually in their quest for pleasure,
which means an open-minded lover is a must. The Mile-High Club must have been
invented for these folks! It's safe to say that Aries' lover must be able to
satisfy, or the Ram will move on. The dominant sexual partner will likely be the
Ram, and while eroticism is important, a mental connection is also favored by
this sign. As if Aries weren't passionate and demanding enough, they also want
to be made to feel secure in a sexual relationship, lest jealousy rear its ugly
head.
What Aries Needs
Aries doesn't generally need hearts and flowers to give them a warm and fuzzy
glow. What's far more important to members of this sign is to find a partner who
is equally strong and self-possessed and who will challenge them to greater
heights, both mental and physical. The person who can draw them out and make
them better is a keeper. It also helps if Aries' partner can handle the
occasional fiery argument and master the art of making up. Sexual adventurers
are also very attractive to the Ram, whether it's acrobatics between the sheets
or the art of touching. There's no shortage of libido here!
The Aries lover is passionate, adventurous and energetic, loves romance and
revels in the art of the chase. Those who can stand the heat will be rewarded
with a loyal companion who will take them to greater heights. Life with Aries is
never boring, so get ready for the ride of a lifetime!