8. Are you Selfish?
9. Doesn't the consequence of telling the truth,
bother you?
Answers
1. The reasons for my being quiet
at such instances are:
(a). My views & reasons for doing things are generally
very different then the ones people want them to be. Cause I generally do
things which seem right to me & (in many cases) to my instincts.
I prefer not to tell others in order to avoid - hurting them, conflicts &
explainations. I prefer that they see the outcome & then if required I
would address their queries. Since I take complete responsibility for my actions,
so I feel others shouldn't be complaining.
(b). I have noticed that people generally look for confirmation
when asking me something & so they grasp those meanings to my said words
which would amount to their ideas. If my ideas tend to be different, they
generally ignore them. In short, they generally don't hear what I've to say
but they deliberately hear what they want to hear.