you meet someone with a very good reputation, though
you are a bit free with him/her at first, you start feeling a certain kind
of 'unexplained' uneasiness/fear.
I
beleive that these 'unexplained' feelings are generated by our instincts/intution.
So, you can be sure that, however good an actor a person is, he/she can't
fool you completely.
12. We all
are taught about good & bad conduct/character, helping/loving nature,
etc... or in short, how to be a good human. So, as we grow through the years
& different circumstances, meeting different people & their views,
we gradually develop our own notions of what is good or bad .
So,
consciously/subconsciously, our curiousity (to test our own nature & get
a positive confirmation that we are good/better then the rest) also grows.
And we set ourselves a challenge to prove that we are really going to be a
good, caring, loving, supportive & trustworthy person ; so that we can
feel proud/good about self. So, we start searching for someone whom we can
be free with (to exhibit our true nature) & also who's considerate enough,
not to hurt us if things go wrong. And when we find such a person, we fall
in love & our test starts.