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~ Reflection on Love ~
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Love, A Good Reflection
When you think of your past love, you may view it
as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view
the past as a teacher. In the game of love,it doesn't
really matter who won or who lost. What is important
is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You
know you really love someone when you want him or her
to be happy, even if their happpines means that
you're not part of it.
Everything happens for the best. If the person you
love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love
someone else again,for you'll never know unless you
give it a try. You'll never love a person you love
unless you risk for love.
Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you
don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the
time. Though the hurting is still there to test you,
to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you.
That's why it's called falling in love because you
don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You
cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If
you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as
you turn the pages.
Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by
a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we
are always learning, discovering and growing. The
greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to
hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We
lose someone we love only when we are destined to find
someone else who can love us even more than we can
love ourselves. On falling out of love, take some
time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don't
ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that
threw you the first time.
To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk
dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be
taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk
nothin! To reach for another is to risk involvement,
to expose your feelings is to expose true self, to
love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to
define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but
not too persistent, share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep
the pain.
Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it
can carve wonderful images into the soul that always
last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most
wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you
joy and strength.
But sometimes the things that give you joy can also
hurt you in the end.Loving people means giving them
the freedom who they choose to be and where they
choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears,
for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give
thanks, for you know, that there were the things that
helped you grow.
Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find
his way, whether it leads towards you or away from
you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must
be taken no matter how scary or painful,for only then
you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is
love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with
desire and tear you apart.
Only love can make you cry and only love knows why.
If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to
take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the
pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became afraid
to fall in love coz everytime we do, we get hurt, then
I figured that's why it's called falling in love.
Whatever happened, don't give up! It is just a trial.
After all God will not give you trial that you can't
tackle. Have faith in yourself and cheer up.
"To Love and win is the best thing; !
to love and lose, the next best."
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