The Man on Top position
The Man on Top position
commonly known as the missionary position is the most widely
used from times immemorial and gives the best possible
enjoyment and penetration. Sage Vatsyayana has made these
positions more exciting and pleasant by his sheer brilliant
expressions and imaginations. If one reads carefully through
all outlined positions in this category, it is evident that
what Vatsyayana promotes constantly is for the man and woman
to strive for maximum contact of the organs.
The Ratipasha
Position
Vatsyayana describes this position as
follows:
"If, encircling and trapping
her thighs with yours,
you grip so hard that
she cries out in pain,
it is
"Ratipasha"
a device most charming to the
ladies."
The
Ratipasha position, also dubbed Love's Noose entails not much
more than a hardening of the basic grip by the man while he's
on top of the woman. In this position while giving maximum
thrusts the man puts additional pressure on the woman by his
thighs as he clutches the woman. The woman feels the strain of
the man's thigh hug but the heightened pleasure she goes
through nullifies that. Not a very recommended position
because not every woman derives pleasure through pain.
The Uthkanta Position
Vatsyayana describes this position as
follows:
"Lift the lady's feet until her soles
lie perfectly
parallel,
one to each side of her slender throat,
cup
her breasts and enjoy her:
this technique is "Uthkanta"
(Throat-high)."
In this
position the woman's yoni is completely exposed in such a
manner that the man enters her forcefully getting very deep
penetration and stimulation. The man lifts the woman's leg to
such an extent that they are held parallel to her ears and her
yoni is completely exposed and is ready for penetration.
Simultaneously with the same grip he holds and caresses her
breasts and then enters her making love to her passionately
and deeply. This is a mutually rewarding position with both
the man and the woman getting maximum exposure to each other's
sexual parts. Consequently, stimulation for both is very high
and this is a highly enjoyable position.
The Ratisundara
Position
Vatsyayana describes this position as
follows:
"Catch hold of her two feet,
raising them till they
press upon her breasts
and her legs form a rough
circle.
Clasp her neck and make love to her:
this is
"Ratisundara" (Aphrodite's Delight)."
In this
kind of missionary position the woman has to be very flexible
and agile. The man has to lift the woman's leg high up in such
a way that it touches her breasts forming a semi circle. The
man then proceeds to enter her by clasping her neck. In this
position like all the other Man on Top positions, the man as
well as the woman, reach the pinnacle of satisfaction and
pleasure.
The Vyomapada
Position
Vatsyayana describes this position as
follows:
"Your lovely wife, lying on the bed,
grasps her own
feet
and draws them up until they reach her hair;
you
catch her breasts and make love:
this is "Vyomapada"
(Sky-foot)."
Another
variation in the basic missionary position is the Vyomapada
position wherein the woman lifts her feet and draws them back
until they reach her hair exposing her yoni to the man. The
man enters her forcefully caressing and playing with her
breasts. In this position also penetration is very deep and it
is a very enjoyable position. As is routine in such positions,
the woman needs to be supple so that her legs can be pushed
back without causing undue
inconvenience.
The Manmathpriya
Position
Vatsyayana describes this position as
follows:
"She lies flat on her back,
you sit between her
parted knees, raise them,
hook her feet over your
thighs,
catch hold of her breasts, and enjoy her:
this
is "Manmathpriya" (Dear to Cupid)."
In all
the missionary positions Vatsyayana's basic objective was to
ensure that stimulation and penetration is deep and intense.
In these positions the woman though has to lie back and enjoy
but also has to give utmost co-operation and exposure to her
man so that he can enter her and satisfy her to the fullest.
In this position also the man raises the womans parted keens
and hooks her feet over his thighs thereby completely exposing
her yoni for the penetration. He can then enter her and at the
same time caress her breasts giving her divine
pleasure.
The Devabandha
Position
Vatsyayana describes this position as
follows:
"Her breasts stab your chest,
her thighs are
stretched out along yours,
you clasp each other's hands
and lie sprawled,
like two starfish making love.
This
is Devabandha."
The
Devabandha position is a fairly routine position described
with more aesthetic gusto in the Kamasutra. In this position
the man lies sprawled across the woman, both with their arms
and legs extended, her breasts digging into the man's chest
thereby both achieving maximum pleasure from this contact.
The Samputa Position
Vatsyayana describes this position as
follows:
"In Samputa your legs lie along hers
caressing their
whole length from toes to thighs.
Your lover may be below
you,
or you may both lie on your sides,
in which case
she should always be on your left."
This
position is more preferred by men who have small penis because
it gives them the required deepness and stimulation. The
position is simple and very natural. The woman lies on her
back while the man enters her from on top. The Sage also gives
an alternate position which is from the side, most preferable
the woman should be on your left. While the man is lying on
his partner, by supporting himself on his elbows and knees he
ensures the woman doesn't get crushed.
The Gramya Position
Vatsyayana
describes this position as follows:
"When she lies on her back
with her two thighs
pressed tightly together
and you make love to her,
keeping your thighs outside hers,
it is
"Gramya".
In this
position foreplay is a must in order to get the woman
lubricating because in this position the woman's yoni is not
fully exposed to the man and entering her will be difficult if
the woman is dry. This is a fairly basic position in which the
woman lies on her back with her thighs closed tight and the
man enters her and remains locked during the duration of the
love making. This position is therefore called the rustic
position.
The Madandhvaja
Position
Vatsyayana describes this position as
follows:
"Grasping the ankles
of the round hipped woman,
whose buttocks
are like two ripe gourds,
raise her
beautiful thighs
and spread the thigh-joints widely.
Full of desire, saying sweet words,
approach her
with your body stiff as a pole
and drive straight
forward
to pierce her lotus and join your limbs:
experts
call it "Madandhvaja" (The Flag of Cupid)."
This is a
very stimulating and satisfactory position wherein the man
grasps the ankles of the woman, simultaneously raising and
spreading her thighs wide to enter her from behind. Though
this position need a bit of expertise to perform it but once
you get the hang of the position it is very enjoyable for the
man because he can control the thrusts and the
penetration.