Seduction Tips - How to Seduce Him |
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Do
you want to make love in an interesting, exciting and adventurous
way? Has love making become boring and less passionate? Does
your husband complain of headache or being too tired if you
want sex? Well here are a few seduction tips that will ignite the fire
in him and make him beg you for sex for the rest of his life.
Seduce
him on the phone
First and foremost give him a hint. Don't wait until nightfall
to get things going. Arouse your husband's interest with a
seductive call to his office in late afternoon. You should
sound approachable and amenable to his desires and use your
best voice keeping it low and gentle. Try the following questions
like - would you like to make love tonight - how about having
some fun tonight or just be mysterious - I can smell you all
over me - I love the way you move your hands on my body. Whatever
you say it should sound exciting and titillating.
Dress
up for the occasion
Dressing up in your best sexiest nightgown will be enough
to make your husbands desires go wild. Buy items that will
turn your husband on without making you feel silly. For that
purpose the best way is to keep a magazine or catalogue of
sexy wear around and see which dress interests your husband.
Or else the best thing to wear for your special night is satin
gown. It highlights curves of your body in a very sexy manner,
flows elegantly and beautifully, is soft and smooth and catches
the light. This will never fail and is a real turn-on for
men.
Cooking
food for the occasion
For this occasion the food that you choose will be very significant
for the following excitement that will take place subsequently.
The food shouldn't be heavy and you must not stuff him with
it. Thus the idea is to have a light and nourishing meal so
that your hubby has more energy left for the bedroom. That
means you should skip meats and heavy sauces, go easy on cheese
and dessert, and load up instead on leafy vegetables, fruits,
and spices. Green vegetables, fruits, and spices all contain
essential oils and vitamins that stimulate hormone production
and increase blood circulation thereby igniting passion and
desire.
Lighting effects
Proper lighting in your bedroom also plays an important part
in passionate and interesting lovemaking. Don't use too bright
lights. What you want is an amber tint, like you get at sunset.
For that use 60-watt amber bulbs in your bedside lamps which
will give you that radiance and effect. If you want to use
white light then make sure that they are low-wattage ones
(not more than 30 watt). Spread only white bed sheets so that
the light reflects off your bed giving it a very exciting
and sexy effect.
Use perfume
For enhancing the mood even further wear the best perfume
for the perfect mood. Pick a perfume that reflects the image
you want to project that night. If your husband has any favourite
one, use that.
Give him your best touch
If you believe in massage therapy then this is the best time
to use it. Massaging your husband will not only excite him
and turn him on but is very relieving and possesses healing
and therapeutic qualities. Have your husband take a hot shower
beforehand and warm your oils in the microwave. Create a perfect
background by turning on soft lights and light romantic music.
Do not forget to unplug the phone. Now you can start with
the magic touch. Make him lie down on his stomach. You can
either keel beside him or straddle him across his lower back.
What is important is linger over his body and maintain contact
with his skin. Take oil and start massaging from below his
head giving him straight, circular and tender strokes. Add
pressure as per his recommendations. When you reach his waist,
drag your hands across his body until they hit the bed, and
then trail them up along his sides. At his underarms, turn
your fingers in and repeat the stroke. Or, for variety, trace
his spine with your thumbs, curving around each vertebra as
you progress.
Play seducing
music
For creating the perfect atmosphere play any music that will
ignite passion, love and romance in you and your husband.
The grand finale
Have you ever considered stripping before your husband? If
no then try it. He will simply love it. For this purpose wear
something that will come off easily. I recommend you wear
your husband's shirt. Make up should be minimal and soft.
You must be clean and touchable.
Start the show by making him sit at a distance. Don't let
him touch you - at least at first. Keeping a flirtatious distance,
start your belly dance or whatever you are good at - shake
your hips, thrust your pelvis etc, as you start removing your
clothes. Go very slow when it comes to undressing. Slowly
lift your shirt or dress, and then let it drop. Undo a button.
And another. Feel daring and adventurous. You can fling the
dress and keep dancing in your bra and panties. Thus creating
the ultimate mood.
Following are a few sexy turn on's:
Go
about in the house semi naked eg., wear a shirt or an apron
without bra….this is a great turn on for
men.
Whisper sweet nothings in his ear and tell him that you want
to make love to him.
While foreplay look him into the eye and tell him how much
you love him.
Give him a full body massage and kiss him all over.
Pin him down on the floor and start removing his clothes one
by one in a very seductive way.
Brush your breast all over his body…it will drive him crazy.
Kiss him gently, move your hand down his spine and pinch his
buttocks. Press yourself to him.
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