How waiting in line affects us  

by Grandpa Chuck

Moni made this comment on my Tag Board a couple of days ago, "As we age, time goes so quickly...".  It sures does seem that way as the days, weeks, and years fly by.  But what about when you are standing in line?

I'm one of those people that hates lines.  I admire people that take a book to read, work on their checkbooks, write letters, or carry on conversations while they wait in line.  For me it doesn't matter if it's a Resturant, the Motor Vehicle Department, or the Post Office I just don't like lines.  I even use my ATM card when I get gas just so I don't have to stand in line to pay.  

The facts are that waiting in line affects different age groups.

Children under 5

No understanding of time.  Short attention span.  Needs distraction. Beginning to assert independence. Lot's of engery.  Responds to praise or punishment.

School age 5-12

Explanations can be understood.   Motivated by recognition. Needs to feel they can control their envioroment.   May feel anxiety about pending feelings.

Adolescent

Self esteem needs to be protected.   Questions authority.  Expresses anxiety by anger or withdrawal.  Would rather stand than sit.

Adult

Brings lots of baggage to any situation.  Often feels harried.  Often feels a lack of control in their life.   Needs clear comminication regarding what's happening.

Mature Adult

Just looking for a place to sit down.   Can feel overlooked easily.  Hectic situations become more confusing.   Being treated with respect is important.

I don't know about you but if I am forced to wait in line I prefer sign in sheets or the little number tags that shows just how close I am to being assisted by someone.  In the end my only favorite part of standing in line are the words, "Your next!".   My waiting is done!