In With the New (Colossians 3:12-17)

 

We’re in the practical section of Paul’s letter to the Colossians.  In the theological portion, Paul laid down the doctrinal foundation of the supremacy and sufficiency of Jesus Christ the Lord.  Starting with chapter 3, Paul now gives us the practical exhortations that logically flow out of his theological treatment in the first two chapters.  In vv. 1-4 of chapter 3, we learned that we are to have a heavenward focus.  In vv. 5-11, we learned that we are to put off (put to death) our old self with its sinful behaviors.  In vv. 12-17 (our study before us), we will learn what to put in the place of the sinful patterns of behavior we put off in our last study.  The passage before us is like an ascending list of positive characteristics that gradually build up in quality.  But to begin our study, Paul talks about our identity.

 

1. Our Identity:  Chosen, Holy and Beloved (v. 12).

 

One of the biggest problems facing our affluent society is on of identity.  Much of this is self-inflicted.  But many of us battle with issues of low self-esteem.  Many of us search for purpose and meaning in our jobs, our families, or our hobbies, or even in our ministries.  The point of all this is to say we’re not identified by any of those things.  If you’re a follower of Christ, you’re a son or daughter of God; adopted into his family paid for by the precious blood of Christ.  God defines our identity, and in this passage God says we’re chosen, holy and blessed.

 

Chosen speaks to the fact that God deliberately singled you out to be a part of his family.  You weren’t an accident, or an afterthought.  God deliberately chose to set his love on you and call you out of the world and into his kingdom.  Secondly, we’re not only chosen, but also holy.  We are sacred and set apart for the purposes of God.  We’re not holy because of anything we’ve done, but because God set us apart and sanctified us.  Thirdly, we’re beloved.  Let that thought wash over you for a moment—we are the beloved of God.  This is the very same God who called the very universe into existence by the word of his mouth!  The Apostle John said it well, “See what kind of love the Father has given to us that we should be called children of God.”  So despite what you think, despite how you feel, despite what others say about you, you’re a child of God—chosen, holy and beloved.

 

2. Put on then…Compassion, Kindness, Humility, Meekness and Patience (v. 12).

 

As a child of God, holy, chosen and beloved, how are we to act?  Well, in v. 12, Paul gives us five rapid-fire characteristics as a start.  First is compassion.  Compassion is the ability to feel the pain and suffering of another.  Kindness is next.  Kindness is the disposition of a person who is generally good toward others.  Third is humility.  Humility is the ability to esteem others as more important than you.  The fourth is meekness, and that is the characteristic of keeping your power and strength under control.  Finally, there is patience, and that is the ability to deal with difficult people with compassion, kindness, humility and meekness.

 

Now maybe you’re thinking, “That’s quite a list, how can I do all these things?”  Well, you can’t, and neither can I.  These are all fruits of the Holy Spirit (cf. Galatians 5:25-26).  The Holy Spirit has to be present and active in your life to manifest these qualities.  Yield to the Spirit’s promptings in your life, and you will see these qualities grow.


3. Put on then…Forgiveness (v. 13).

 

After the five qualities listed in v. 12, Paul builds on that in v. 13.  If you see compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience growing in your life, then you’re ready for forgiveness.  Forgiveness is a hallmark of Christian character.  It is the basis for our current standing with God.  It is the key to enduring relationships.  It is impossible to have enduring, intimate relationships without forgiveness.  Forgiveness is the voluntary setting aside of a debt owed.  If someone wrongs you or cheats you, forgiveness is the act on your part to not seek retribution, and to no longer hold that against the one that wronged you.

 

Now maybe this is true of you, but when I came to Christ, I knew I had to seek forgiveness from others I have wronged.  But much more difficult is forgiving those who have wronged us.  There is a part of us that wants to exact that pound of flesh.  However, that is not how a child of God ought to act.  Paul says in v. 13 we ought to bear with one another and forgive one another.  Why?  Because God forgave us!  We are to mirror our heavenly Father when it comes to forgiveness.  As he forgave us, we are to forgive others.  How did God forgive us?  Completely!  There is no sin that anyone can commit against us that comes close to any sin committed against God’s perfect holiness.  The smallest sin is an act of cosmic treason against a perfectly holy God.  Yet through Jesus Christ, God chose to forgive us.  How can we not forgive others?

 

4. Put on then…Love (v. 14).

 

Paul raises the stakes yet again in v. 14.  He says, “above all these put on love.”  Why does he say, “above all these?”  Because without love, all of these other character traits are useless.  Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-3, it is there that Paul lists a bunch of wonderful abilities and traits (speaking with the tongues of angels, faith that can move a mountain, etc.).  But in the end, if love is absent, they’re all meaningless.  Likewise, you can’t be compassionate, kind, humble, meek, patient, and forgiving without love.  Paul further says love “binds everything together in perfect harmony.”  What he means by that is a true love for other people is what motivates these other traits.

 

Now I’ve said all this without defining love.  Love is a fruit of the Spirit; it is the ability to put the needs and concerns of others before yours to the point of self-sacrifice.  The Biblical definition can be found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8.  God is love personified (cf. 1 John 4:8).  Jesus Christ is love on display.  If you read through 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, you can’t help but see these traits on perfect display in the gospels.  This very same love of God is poured out in our hearts (Romans 5:5).  We don’t need to pray to be more loving.  All we need to do is pray for God’s love to work itself out in our lives.

 

5. Put on then…Peace (v. 15).

 

The next thing Paul brings up is peace:  “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.”  We need to identify this peace.  The Bible generally speaks about two types of peace.  The first kind of peace is that objective idea of having peace with God.  When we come to Christ in faith, we have peace with God—we are no longer enemies (cf. Romans 5).  It doesn’t matter how we feel, that peace is an objective reality.  The second kind of peace is a subjective peace, and that is a calm assurance that God is in control and has your best intentions at heart.  I believe Paul is referring to the latter kind of peace.  Part of the Christian walk is experiencing the peace of Christ in our lives.  God doesn’t want his children living with inner turmoil in their lives.  That’s what Paul means when he says “to which indeed you were called in one body.”  The peace of Christ reigning in our lives is our calling.

 

6. Put on then…The Word (v. 16).

 

After all the previous traits and attitudes that Paul exhorts us to “put on,” he now exhorts us to Bible study.  The child of God should be on fire for the word.  The word is our spiritual food.  Sadly, there are Christians who are spiritually starving!  The only time their souls are fed is on Sunday mornings.  This ought not to be!  When we read the Bible, God is speaking to us.  Paul says we are to let the word “dwell within us.”  That doesn’t just mean to read the Bible, but also to study it, meditate upon it, pray it, and memorize it.

 

When the word dwells within us, what happens?  We will be able to teach and admonish one another.  This is the dream of every Bible teacher—people fired up about the word that they would be able to teach others.  Not only will we be able to teach, but also we will be able to do so with all wisdom.  Finally, when the word dwells within us, we will bring forth praise and thankfulness.  Why?  Because God’s word is the truth that sets us free (John 8:12), and found within it is everything that pertains to life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3)!

 

7. Put on then…Godliness (v. 17).

 

Paul concludes his list righteous character traits in v. 17.  I think a good summary term for what is stated in v. 17 is godliness.  “Whatever we do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus.”  After putting on compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, forgiveness, love and peace, after letting God’s word dwell within you richly, Paul gives the exhortation that in whatever else we do (or say), let it be done in the name of the Lord Jesus.  What does it mean to do something in the name of the Lord Jesus?  It means to do it consistent with his character or nature.  It’s sort of like WWJD (What Would Jesus Do) without the corny bracelets.  This begs the question:  “What would Jesus do?”  For starters, read the four gospels.  Secondly, read the rest of the New Testament.  Finally, read the entire Bible.  If you read it with an open mind, you’ll know what God’s character is like, and how he would like you to act in any given situation.  Finally, we are to do everything with an attitude of genuine thankfulness (v. 17b).  This is so often overlooked, but so fundamental to a Christian lifestyle.  Anybody can grit their teeth and live the “Christian life,” but to do so with genuine gratitude can only be done in the power of the Holy Spirit.

 

8. Application Time.

 

This is quite a list of things to “put on.”  It’s easy to be overwhelmed by it.  I think the trick to it is in three things:  1) Understand your identity as outlined in v. 12a; 2) Immerse yourself in God’s word (v. 16); and 3) Step out in faith that God has given you the Holy Spirit to empower your Christian life.  This doesn’t happen overnight, but understand that God is loves you and will forgive you.  When you stumble, get up and continue walking by faith.


9. Bottom Line.

 

“Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God” (Colossians 3:16).

 

Have a blessed day!