I have visited Hungary,and it reminded me more than a little of Ohio. Perhaps that is why many settled in the Ohio/Pennsylvania area? Of course, the Hungary of today is not that of my Grandfather's day: Trianon, World War II, and Communism took their toll. Yet, whatever the suffering of the land it has always been the spirited people of Hungary that have made that land a nation of bravery, tragedy, pride, and warmth. It was such a priviledge to visit Hungary; I went with my mother and Uncle who both spoke the language (although my mother says she speaks it like a toddler!), and we stayed in the home of gracious friends- the BEST way to know a country. Here is a tip: in America it is considered good manners to help with clean-up or even preparation of meals when you visit a friend; but I finally understood that it is actually an offense to Hungarians, they appreciate a show of gratitude, but leave their kitchens alone!! A vase of flowers, a hostess gift, a heartfelt hug and kiss, or even a package of coffee, is much more welcome. (Yes, I'm gauche, I freely admit it).

I think for a visitor, Hungary is both more and less than you hope for. That dichotomy is indicative of the people, they can be most hospitable or maddeningly uncooperative depending on how well they know you and what their day is like, I guess. Unlike our culture, the better they know you the nicer they are, here in America it seems we are more polite to strangers (if we are polite, at all, that is). And while the architecture is beautiful and there has been much amazing renovation, communism left its sorry results of a land that is struggling to raise its standards of living. There is much beauty for those who have eyes to see, however,and for an American, the transportion system was a wonder. It is simple and safe for even a woman alone to travel, especially within Budapest.

I finally felt I understood the temperment of my heritage, and if it were expressed in the terms of cuisine I would say Hungarians are sweet and spicy-hot, many times flashing quickly from one to the other. I experienced both people who extended themselves greatly, and those who hoped to take advantage of dumb tourists. It's like that everywhere,isn't it? I would definitely jump at the chance to return, since I had hoped to see more of Eastern Hungary: so that tells you how the balance leans.