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Traditional Sagittarius Traits
Optimistic and
freedom-loving
Jovial and good-humored
Honest and straightforward
Intellectual and philosophical
On the dark side....
Blindly
optimistic and careless
Irresponsible and superficial
Tactless and restless
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Sagittarians have a positive outlook on life,
are full of enterprise, energy, versatility, adventurousness and
eagerness to extend experience beyond the physically familiar. They
enjoy traveling and exploration, the more so because their minds are
constantly open to new dimensions of thought. They are basically
ambitious and optimistic, and continue to be so even when their
hopes are dashed. Their strongly idealistic natures can also suffer
many disappointments without being affected. They are honorable,
honest, trustworthy, truthful, generous and sincere, with a passion
for justice. They are usually on the side of the underdog in society
they will fight for any cause they believe to be just, and are
prepared to be rebellious. They balance loyalty with independence.
Sagittarians are usually modest and are often religious, with a
strong sense of morality, though they tend to overemphasize the
ethical codes they follow and worship beliefs about God rather than
God Himself. This means that, negatively, they regard rigid,
unloving, intolerant adherence to ritual and conventional codes as
more important than the truths they symbolize or embody. They
sometimes pay lip service to religions and political parties in
which they have ceased to believe because the outward forms satisfy
them, yet they may not hesitate to switch allegiance in politics or
change their system of belief if they see personal advantage to
themselves in doing so.
They have both profound and widely ranging minds, equipped with
foresight and good judgment, and they can be witty
conversationalists. They love to initiate new projects (they make
excellent researchers) and have an urge to understand conceptions
that are new to them. they think rapidly, are intuitive and often
original, but are better at adapting than inventing and are at their
best when working with colleagues of other types of character that
compliment their own. They are strong-willed and good at organizing,
a combination that gives them the ability to bring any project they
undertake to a successful conclusion. Their generosity can be
balanced by their extreme care at handling their resources.
Sagittarians are ardent, sincere and straightforward in love,
normally conventional and in control of their sexual natures. Yet if
thwarted, they may easily allow their failure to embitter their
whole lives or they may revenge themselves upon the opposite sex by
becoming cynically promiscuous. They are more apt then the average
to make an uncongenial alliance. If their marriages are successful,
they will be faithful spouses and indulgent parents; but their
innate restlessness will inspire them to use even the most
satisfying ménage as a base from which to set out on their travels.
They need to fell free and are often faced with the choice of
allowing their careers to take over their lives at the expense of
the love of their spouse and family. Sagittarian women are the
counterparts of their men; even if they have no career to rival
their love, they find it difficult to express affection and may run
the risk of being thought frigid.
In other personal relationships they are reliable, seldom betraying
any trust given to them. They can, however, be impulsively angry and
both male and female Sagittarians know how to be outspoken and
exactly what expressions will hurt their adversaries most. On the
other hand they are magnanimous in forgiving offenses and are
responsible when looking after the elderly in the family.
Their gifts fit Sagittarians for a number of widely differing
professions. They are natural teachers and philosophers with a
talent for expounding the moral principles and laws which seem to
explain the universe. This gift enables them to be successful
churchmen on the one hand and scientists on the other. The law and
politics also suit them, as does public service, social
administration, public relations and advertising. Travel and
exploration naturally appeal to such restless souls and, if their
opportunities are limited, they may find something of travel and
change of scene in the armed forces or through working as a
traveling salesman. Others may make fine musicians and, in the days
before automobiles, they were said to be successful at horse trading
and all activities, including sporting ones, concerning horses. This
has been translated in modern terms into an interest in cars and
aircraft - and again with emphasis on the sporting side racing,
rallying etc. They are said to make good sports coaches, but their
tastes in this direction may lead them into imprudent gambling,
though the gambling instinct may be sublimated by carrying it out
professionally as a bookmaker.
The vices to which Sagittarians are prone are anger they tend to
flare up over trifles; impatience - they want to rush every new
project through immediately and demand too much of colleagues who
cannot work at the pace they require; and scorn of the inadequacies
of others while expecting fulsome recognition of their own efforts.
They may in one sense deserve recognition, because in completing a
major project they will sacrifice their health and family
relationships; in their family's eyes they may merit condemnation.
They can be exacting, domineering and inconsiderate in the work
place; and boastful, vulgar and extravagant in their private lives.
Their restlessness, if excessive, can jeopardize more than their own
stability. some Sagittarians risk becoming playboys, wasting their
lives away in frivolous pursuits. Others can develop a moralizing,
religious fanaticism or else turn into hypocrites, their inner
prudishness disguised by an outward appearance of joviality. Another
side of the religiosity which is a danger in Sagittarians is
superstition.
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LIKES
Traveling
getting to the heart of the matter
Freedom
Laws and meanings
the general 'feel' of things
DISLIKES
Off the wall theories
being tied down domestically
Being constrained
cooling your heels
bothered with details |
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I am
Sagittarius, My Lover is Virgo
The
attraction between earth sign Virgo and you, dear fire sign Sagittarius, is your razor-sharp
mind. You have finally found a lover who can hold up his or her end
of a debate! You'll find Virgo detailed, diplomatic, determined and
articulate -- just the kind of person to make you shine at dinner
with your boss. It is hard not to admire Virgo. The trouble is,
Virgos like to work, while you like to play or study. If Virgo's
workaholic schedule cramps your style too much, you'll get on your
horse and ride off into the sunset.
If their work
schedule doesn't turn you off, their penchant for neatness could.
Having a Virgo follow you through the house just once -- picking up
everything just after you've set it down casually somewhere -- will
prove to be just too much. Your sign is not known to be super-neat.
You are too busy!
In bed,
you'll appreciate your Virgo's loyalty to you and his or her
surprisingly lusty appetite for lovemaking. Because Virgos
communicate so well, you could soon find you are grooving on the
same sexual frequency and loving every minute. In order to get them
into the proper mood, you may have to indulge in lots of verbal
foreplay, something very erotic to Virgo. Once he or she is home
from the office, Virgo doesn't relax that quickly or easily -- but
your tender attentions can get them to if you try.
You are a fire sign and
Virgo is earth, so this match of personalities does not come
naturally to either of you. Luckily, you are highly flexible
creatures. This is a strong plus, and indicates if you work at this
relationship you can make it happen. A 50/50 chance of success is
the estimation here, but that does not account for the bushels of
optimism you bring to every endeavor, nor your wonderful meeting of
the minds with your Virgo. Give it a try.
The
Sagittarius Woman: November 22- December 21
by Susan Miller
The Sagittarius woman is vivacious, funny, self assured, and
sophisticated. She probably had an opportunity to travel as a child,
and will need to continue to do so throughout her life. She's a
woman who needs challenge and intellectual stimulation in all parts
of her life.
Sag women are often highly successful at what they set out to do
simply because they are so positive they will succeed. Since the
sign also rules international communication, they are either known
worldwide or deal with matters of global importance. This is not an
overly-sensitive sign, and when criticized, they listen carefully to
the feedback. She should be careful not to hurt her mate's feelings
by being too direct in her comments; Sag often has no idea of how
her words effect others. Her man should also be sure to allow her a
sense of freedom which is highly important to the Sag woman.
Your Challenge
To keep her intellectually stimulated will be a lifelong struggle.
This is no dumb bunny, and you may have to struggle to keep up with
her. (Her idea of fun is listening to National Public Radio.) She
gets bored easily, so be forewarned!
How To Handle Her
Her sign rules the centaur, half man, half horse, pointing high,
toward the sky, which symbolizes her quest to reach the lofty goals
she's set. She could be "high maintenance" in that you will have to
endure all the highs and lows of her existence, for her motto is
nothing ventured, nothing gained. Alas, some things just aren't
going too work out, but unlike Cancer, who will try to second-guess
themselves, Sag's optimism will buoy her up. She will be on to Plan
B in no time. Sometimes this could be exhausting for you, so keep
the vitamins handy. Places To Go,
Things To Buy Her
If you'd like to get her a fragrance, choose one of the fresh new
uni-sex fragrance, for she won't wear anything too conventionally
flowery or sweet. She is apt to be a runner or do some equally
strenuous sport--can you imagine a marathon runner fussing with
Arpege? Not quite.
Her likes her look sporty, preferring pants to skirts and sportswear
to anything more formal. Sag generally likes comfortable shoes, the
heels not too high. It must have been a Sag who started the trend of
wearing her sneakers on the way to work. Often Sag women were
tomboys as a kid, and as a woman she manages to keep her enviable
figure because of all the exercise she gets. Give her clothing which
is body revealing, such as a mini skirt and matching top in lycra or
spandex. She is one woman who can carry it off in style! Or treat
her to ten weeks with a personal trainer and she'll be yours for
life.
The Sag woman has no patience with frilly nightgowns but prefers
either something plain and natural. What would she most likely wear
to bed? A cool, thin, tight white cotton tank top which outlines her
breasts, worn with tiny cotton string panties--or nothing at all.
She likes men's wear, so you might catch her putting on your
button-down shirt with not much else on but a smile. (Remember how
fetching Annette Bening looked in the seduction scene from American
President?). She will do more for your shirt than you could ever
imagine.
She will be impressed if you
treat your body like a temple too, so try to work out often. Then,
you can lounge around in tight bicycle shorts to heat things up.
Look at her innocently and say you took a part time job as a
messenger and need to wear them for practicality and comfort. (She'd
got a good sense of humor.) Since this woman would love a strenuous
workout, plan an active, feather-flying pillow fight or try chasing
her around the yard. Feeling randy? Toss her into a snow drift. The
aim here is to get her pulse rate up then convince her she won't
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