Ask me questions now, I am ready and waiting!!! Here are the responses to the questions I was asked mid to late January, 1999...

Recently, danger boy ((age) under 18) asked a question. He asked:
it's a bit complicated. see i want to go out with this gorgeous looking girl from my school but i think my parents won't allow me because they think i am too young to go dating.
I love that gilr very much but she does not know that and i don't know how to tell her this. i am tied at both hands and don't know what to do about this, so help me here please!!!!

Emilie's answer:
How old are you, exactly? Are you old enough to drive legally with a license, and do you have a driver's license? If that is the case, perhaps you can bargain somehow with your parents to let you date, telling them how responsible you are and how happy you would be to prove it to them. Suggest that you can show your responsibility by doing the weekly grocery shopping, or a similar activity, if you would be allowed to date. That's step one - of course, step two would be to go ahead and actually ask the girl out. If you are not old enough to drive, your parents ultimately have that control over you because you aren't able to transport yourself around. Perhaps they're nervous about you being alone with a girl and they wouldn't be so nervous if you were to go on a "group date" - see if you could get a few other guys and girls who are friends to all go have pizza, or a similar activity - I bet your parents would be ok with that. Good luck! Recently, kress ((age) under 18 (visit) yearly) asked a question. He asked:
Is it possible for a guy to be in love with a girl 6 years older than he is?

Emilie's answer:
Sure, it's possible. But it's a lot more likely to work out if the people are older. If you are under 18 and she is over 18, it's illegal for you two to be in a relationship (until you are over 18). The older you get, the less an age difference matters. My husband is 9 years older than me, and we sometimes have conflicts because of age differences, but keep in mind that I am now almost 22 and he is 31. It's a lot different than the difference between 12 and 18 or even 17 and 23. If you are looking for a long term relationship with someone - someone to really be in love with who is in love with you, too - I would suggest staying within about 2 years of your age while you are under 18 - you will have more in common and it will work out better.

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