Ask me questions now, I am ready and waiting!!! Here are the responses to the questions I was asked in late December to early January...

MITALI:
I'm sorry, but I can't post your question here. I do know the answer to your question: it is "no". If you want more details, email me privately and I will send you more details privately, or go talk to your doctor. I apologize about not being able to go into more detail here, but I don't feel the nature of the question is appropriate for the audience I reach.

Recently, Charli ((age) 25-34 (visit) weekly) asked a question. She asked:
I recently found out that my boyfriend's roommate (a female) is good friends with a guy that I had a fling with the weekend before I met my boyfriend. I told her that I knew him and she told me that she was really good friends with him. I am worried that she is going to mention my name to her friend and he will tell her that we had a one night stand....and she in turn will go and tell my boyfriend. Am I being really obsessive and insecure or should I really be concerned?

Emilie's answer:
It's quite possible that it could casually come up to this roommate of your boyfriend's that you had a fling with the other guy. The question is, whether she will tell your boyfriend or not. It sounds like that's something you really don't want to have occur, so be honest with this woman: tell her yourself that you had a fling with this guy, that's how you knew him, but it's between you and this guy, and if your boyfriend gets any knowledge of the situation it's appropriate that it come from *you* and not someone else, since ultimately, you are the one who is in the relationship with him. Hopefully she will get your drift and respect your wish for her silence. You don't need to tell her that you don't plan on telling him; if she seems curious as to when that will be, tell her you'll let her know and then never bring it up again. If she seems like she's so hot about the whole thing that she can't keep the secret, and threatens to tell him if you won't, take her seriously. Promise to tell him the next time you talk to him -- and DO. If he really cares about you, finding out something you did before you were involved with him shouldn't matter at all. (If it does, you don't want to be involved with that kind of guy, anyway!)

Recently, clueless ((age) under 18 (visit) weekly) asked a question. She asked:
i need to learn how to kiss.
please give me instructions on exactly how to kiss a guy.
im desperate
thankyou

Emilie's answer:
I don't think I am an expert in this area, (teaching people how to kiss!) so I found a website that hopefully can help you a little more than I can...: Frequently Asked Questions on Kissing which also has a link to another page where you can ask questions about kissing if there's anything you don't understand. Good luck!!

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